What happens when the people who preach love don’t live it—and the ones you least expect to show up with kindness, do? In this episode, I tell the story of two backstage coffee gigs—one at a major Christian music festival, the other at the Warped Tour—and the surprising lessons they taught me about generosity, humility, and the quiet kind of gospel that doesn’t need a spotlight. It’s not about bashing anyone. It’s about wrestling with expectations, letting people be human, and learning to find sacred moments in the places we never thought to look.

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Maybe the real gospel is quieter than we were taught.

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In this episode of Clemenz With a Z, I continue my series on idolatry in the church—but this time, I turn the lens toward something that feels almost untouchable: the cross itself. Growing up, the cross was everything—sacred, central, and surrounded by emotion. But lately, I’ve been wrestling with what it’s actually calling us to do. Is it about guilt? Worship? Performance? Or something deeper? From a deeply theatrical Good Friday service to the theology I’ve inherited—and now questioned—I’m unpacking how my view of the cross has changed, and what it might mean to follow Jesus without idolizing Him. This one’s not about answers. It’s about naming what no longer sits right… and maybe, just maybe, finding something more honest in the process.

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If you are a member, were a member, or know someone who was a part of the ICOC or ICC and you’d like to share your story about life in and out of the church, I’d love to hear from you.

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What happens when a church stops being about community and starts revolving around one man? In this episode of Clemenz With a Z, I continue the “This Was Supposed to Be the Place” series by digging into the idolization of pastors—starting with Kip McKean in the ICOC, and then zooming out to the wider church culture where pastor worship, branding, and platform-building have taken center stage. I reflect on my own experiences, both in the church and beyond, and explore what happens when our faith is shaped more by charisma than by Christ. This one’s about power, presence, and what church could still be—if we’re brave enough to imagine it.

If you are a member, were a member, or know someone who was a part of the ICOC or ICC and would like to share your story about life in and out of the church, I’d love to hear from you. But also—if something from this episode hit home for you… if you’ve ever found yourself centering your faith around a pastor, a personality, a system… and you’re working your way through it—I’d love to hear your story too.

Maybe it’s time we talk about it together, out loud. You can reach me anytime at [email protected], or send me a DM on Instagram at the Clemenz With a Z podcast page.

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Until next time, stay honest, stay grounded, and keep growing.

In this episode of Clemenz With a Z, I dig into the quiet, heavy weight so many of us carry: the pressure to be who we’re supposed to be. From labels like “gifted” to the roles we’re assigned in school, church, and family, I unpack how early expectations can shape our sense of worth—and how hard it is to break free from the “land of should.” I talk about the pressure to lead, to be the strong one, the good one, the faithful one—and what it means to start asking who am I, really? This episode is about healing, honesty, and slowly walking away from the roles we never chose. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing your life instead of living it, this one’s for you.

If this episode hit something in you—or if you’ve been carrying a story, a label, or a weight you’re finally trying to lay down—I’d love to hear from you. You can reach me by email at [email protected], or send me a DM on Instagram at the Clemenz With a Z podcast page.

And if there’s something you wish you could say out loud—something you’ve been sitting with but haven’t found the space to share—I’d be honored to hold that space for you.

As always, if you enjoy the podcast, please rate and review—it helps more people find these stories. And don’t forget: I’m just a channel, I ain’t the source.

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This was supposed to be the place.

If you are a member, were a member, or know someone who was a member of the ICOC or ICC and would like to share your story about life in and out of the church, I’d love to hear from you. Together, we can continue exploring the question, “We were in a cult? Or If this episode stirred something in you, if you’ve wrestled with what church has meant in your life, or if you just have a story you want to share, I’d love to hear from you.

Whether you want to process something, reflect, or even come on the podcast—feel free to reach out.

You can contact me via email at [email protected], or send a DM on Instagram at the Clemenz With a Z podcast page.

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Until next time—take care of yourself, stay grateful, and keep growing.

Peace.

In this episode of Clemenz With a "Z," I sit down with former member of the ICOC Greg to unpack the winding road that led him from a Catholic upbringing into the heart of the ICOC. Greg’s story is one of spiritual searching, family dynamics, and the slow unraveling of certainty. With honesty and depth, he shares what it felt like to be swept up in a system that promised purpose—but delivered pressure. This conversation is part of our ongoing “We Were In a Cult?” series, and it's another raw, powerful reminder that healing begins with telling the truth. Whether you’re deconstructing, recovering, or just curious, this episode is for you.

If you are a member, were a member, or know someone who was a member of the ICOC or ICC and would like to share your story about life in and out of the church, I’d love to hear from you. Together, we can continue exploring the question, “We were in a cult?”—and perhaps find some healing along the way. You can reach me via email at [email protected], or send me a DM on Instagram at the Clemenz With a Z podcast page.

As always, if you enjoy the podcast, please rate and review—it helps more people find these stories. And don’t forget: I’m just a channel, I ain’t the source.

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Until next time, take care of yourself, stay grateful, and keep growing. Peace!

What happens when the place that was supposed to offer belonging, love, and healing becomes the very thing that teaches you to be small? In this episode of Clemenz With a "Z", I explore how my time in the ICOC—and the broader evangelical culture I grew up in—shaped the way I saw myself, God, and the meaning of worth. From the story of the Garden to the image of the Cross, I unpack how scripture and church culture taught me that I was broken at my core—and how that belief followed me into every part of my life. But I also talk about what happens when you start to question that story. When you realize it wasn’t God who made you feel that way—it was people. This is an honest reflection on shame, self-erasure, and the journey toward a more freeing, more loving spirituality.

As always, if you enjoy the podcast, please rate and review—it helps more people find these stories. And remember: I’m just a channel, I ain’t the source.

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You’ll find ways to support the show, check out new updates, and maybe pick up something to wear that says, “Yeah, I’ve been thinking about some things too.”

Until next time—stay open, keep asking, and keep walking. Peace!

n this episode, I share the story of attending two very different concerts in the same week—one a high-energy worship night with Phil Wickham, Kristian Stanfill, and Cody Carnes, the other a gritty, laid-back rock show by Pepper. On the surface, these shows couldn’t have been more different... but as I stood in both spaces, coffee in hand at one and beer in hand at the other, I started noticing some surprising similarities. This episode isn’t about bashing anything—it’s about asking questions, noticing patterns, and exploring where the sacred can actually show up. Because maybe God isn’t just behind the worship curtain—maybe He’s in the pit, too.

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If you’d like to support the podcast financially please follow this link: https://gofund.me/7ebb0524 or, you know, grab a sticker or maybe even a tank top (because apparently, every scene has merch)—you can head over to my new website:

You’ll find ways to support the show, check out new updates, and maybe pick up something to wear that says, “Yeah, I’ve been thinking about some things too.”

Until next time—take care of yourself, stay grateful, and keep growing.

In this episode, I hit a wall—and I don’t clean it up. I talk about what it feels like to be doing all the “right” things—therapy, journaling, movement, rest, reflection—and still feel like I’m falling apart. I wrestle with the chaos of life, the illusion of control, and that haunting thought: “Is this how it’s always going to be?” Along the way, I reflect on a line from Living Buddha, Living Christ that shifted something in me: “It’s not a matter of faith. It’s a matter of practice.” This isn’t an episode with answers. It’s one with questions. The kind that stay with you long after you stop recording. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by the gap between your effort and your peace—this one’s for you.

As always, I’m not here to give you answers.

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Take care of yourself.

In this episode of Clemenz With a Z, I open up about the fear-based faith I was raised in—specifically within the International Churches of Christ (ICOC)—and how it shaped my view of God, love, obedience, and myself. From childhood memories of fearing hell, to moments of spiritual panic, guilt, and manipulation, this episode is a raw unpacking of what happens when fear becomes the foundation of belief.

But this isn’t just about the ICOC. I’m seeing the same fear-based messaging alive and well in churches today—from pulpits to podcasts, just dressed up in nicer language and cooler branding.

I talk about the day everything shifted—the moment I realized it wasn’t God I was afraid of, but people’s version of God. This is an episode about unlearning, about healing, and about daring to believe in a love that doesn’t punish.

Whether you’ve been part of the ICOC, another high-control church, or are just trying to untangle fear from faith, this one is for you.

Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Clemenz With a Z.

If you’ve ever been made to feel like fear was love…

This episode came out of my own story,

If you’re a member, former member, or know someone connected to the ICOC or ICC,

Together, we’re still asking the question:

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Until next time, take care of yourself, stay grateful, and keep growing. Peace!