Climbing Henge Podcast

Many men get “confused” by conflicted female behavior and don’t know what it means. In this podcast we will explain the nature of conflicting and “confusing” female behavior, what it means, and how you handle it in order to be in a successful, loving relationship 

Some females are extremely uncomfortable with affection and intimacy. Insecure avoidant females in particular tend to be very uncomfortable with intimacy and affection. In this podcast we explore why and when females are uncomfortable with intimacy and how you need to handle it.

Females / the feminine are much more likely to use Indirect methods to resolve conflict and be indirect in their aggression. So for example, instead of her being “mature” and telling you she doesn’t want to talk to you, she delays or does not reply to your text messages or phone calls. That is a form of indirect communication. Understand female indirect forms of communication and how to behave in response to it.

Fear and fear memories are very powerful and you need to fully understand how they are formed and how they are triggered. When you are trying to “win” a female back it is likely she will have strong fears about coming back to the relationship. You must understand how to navigate these fears successfully in order to reunite with her. You can’t just simply tell someone to “forget” about their fears and expect it to work. Fear memories do not work in this manner. They must be conditioned away through positive reinforcement over time. 

We always say that women live in the moment. Well, what does this mean and how does it impact how you behave? Essentially it means that whatever our woman is feeling in the moment is how she believes she will likely always feel. So, don’t fight it and don’t argue about it. Research shows that emotional events are felt “deeper” and last longer in the female. As an example, acts of kindness are felt more deeply by the female. And vice versa, females are more sensitive to Fear and threats. Thus, females are more sensitive to emotional stimuli and more likely to be impacted by them, and thus are more likely to experience emotional ups and downs, or what we call the “storm.”