#cliteracy

In today's episode I am joined by a friend of mine as we dive deeper into double standards, the importance of foreplay, and how much men suck (occasionally). I hope you enjoy this one because we had a lot of fun making it.

In this episode, my stepfather makes a guest appearance after we spent a very quick two days in Alaska doing all the wilderness things. Filmed on my parents' bedroom floor (I feel like that is a common theme) the night before I flew home, we navigate some tricky concepts like toxic masculinity with hopes of sharing a different perspective that most people don't have on the idea. Hopefully you will be able to learn something from someone who used to be a "toxic male" and how he was able to "balance" out his life. 

In this episode, an audience favorite makes her return as we talk about the art of letting things go. At the end of the day, it isn't a science - there is no formula in order to make it happen other than your willingness. Hopefully this shotgun episode recorded on the bedroom of Jade's floor opens your mind and hearts as we share pieces of ourselves we have never shared before. 

Warning - This is a little bit of a longer episode, so take all the time you need to digest both parts that have been wrapped up in one. In one of my most highly requested episodes, Colette LaMuse and I take on purity culture in the Church, the concepts of shame, and share a little bit about our previous encounters with religion. Obviously, every person's journey in their faith is their own - take the time to listen before jumping to conclusions. I encourage you to go into this episode with an open heart because a lot of what we talk about does not go side by side with the religious "norm". To everyone who has been shamed or told their desires are "impure", you are the embodiment of perfection and do not let anyone tell you otherwise. 

In this episode, I am joined by one of my very good friends Ayliana. She shares some of her experiences living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and how that affects her sex life, growing up with hypersexuality, fetishism of Black people and other races, bisexuality, and how she gained major confidence in the bedroom. Recorded at midnight on her bedroom floor, buckle up for a lot of laughter and fun stories.

This episode is pretty straight forward, we talk about the porn industry, sex work, porn addictions, and sex trafficking. With growing awareness on topics like sex trafficking, I encourage you to check out some of these amazing organizations: A21, Thorn, Traffickinghub, GenerateHope, etc. 

"DamN GiRL, It'S A SeCOND WoRkOuT." 

"DaMN, YoU A BaD GiRL"

"ImPRacTiCal JOKErS :-("

In this episode, I tell the story of my first college hook up and how I checked off #70 on my bucket list. It ended up being a disaster and I lay awake at night thinking about some of the things he whispered in my ear. With that being said, I talk about the importance of confidence and being able to take constructive criticism. I also dive in to the fact that a study of heterosexual women found that, "80% of women fake orgasms around 50% of the time." Y'alls see that number???