Listen to the full podcast interview with Urs Koenig:

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6ROlz2uVPunmzB2qJMC5hk?si=1tqVWo4vRlm2AZNgtcl8KA

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/coachful-coaching-leadership-podcast/id1682682151?i=1000696903187

The Most Organized Man in America on the BS of Busyness — Andrew Mellen

What if your biggest time problem isn’t your calendar—but your beliefs?

In this episode, I sit down with Andrew Mellen—organization expert, coach, and author of Calling BS on Busy—to unpack the real reason leaders and high-achievers stay overwhelmed. From cluttered homes to cluttered thinking, Andrew shares tools to help you reclaim your time, reduce stress, and align your schedule with your values.

We talk about:✅ The Organizational Triangle that changes everything
✅ Why successful people are often the most disorganized
✅ The 8 deadly time thieves (and how to fight them)
✅ How neurodivergent minds can turn “weakness” into superpowers
✅ Why you don’t need an 8-hour block to do great work—just 4 focused minutes

Whether you're managing a business, a team, or your own mental load—this conversation will help you reset your relationship with time and attention.

🔗 Connect with Andrew Mellen:
Website: https://www.andrewmellen.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewmellen/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Andrew Mellen

03:02 The Importance of Organization

05:41 Mind Shifts for Leaders

08:09 Understanding Distraction and Clutter

11:10 The Organizational Triangle Framework

16:33 Practical Applications for Entrepreneurs

21:22 Calling BS on Busyness

23:37 Advice for Overwhelmed Listeners

27:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

If you think burnout can be solved with a vacation or a better calendar… think again.

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Scott Anderson—executive coach, licensed therapist, and author of You’re Not Toast—to unpack the silent, destructive patterns driving high-achievers straight into burnout.

Scott shares how his own crash during the peak of running a 22-person agency led him to create the Burnout Breakthrough Method—a framework that goes deeper than self-care tips to tackle the root causes of burnout: perfectionism, toxic overfunctioning, and ego traps disguised as productivity.

We talk about:

✅ Book your free Fast Fix Call with Scott: https://fastfixcall.com

🎧 Connect with Scott Anderson:Website: https://doubledareyou.us/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scottandersonms/Email: [email protected]

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Burnout and Leadership

03:26 The Loneliness of Leadership

06:08 Understanding Burnout

08:26 The Causes of Burnout

11:11 Shifting Mindsets for Recovery

13:50 Real-Life Transformations from Burnout

16:23 Practical Steps to Combat Burnout

19:09 The Importance of Mini Vacations

21:44 Advice for the Younger Self

24:29 Closing Thoughts and Resources

From the basketball court to the principal’s office—and now to the coaching world—Charles Stevens brings over 30 years of wisdom, grit, and heart-centered leadership to this powerful episode. 🙌

We dive into:
✅ Why the best leaders often never wanted to be leaders
✅ The transition from educator to coach—and what it taught him about influence
✅ How to lead across 6 generations in the workforce
✅ Trusting your gut (even when others say “go for it”)
✅ Mistakes that turned into leadership breakthroughs
✅ Why staying connected to your why is the key to resilience

Charles shares stories from the front lines of school leadership, martial arts, and coaching—and how service and purpose have guided every step. If you’ve ever questioned your path or wondered how to lead with more authenticity, this one is for you.

🔗 Connect with Charles Stevens:

• Maxwell Certified Coach Profile: https://www.johncmaxwellgroup.com/charlesstevens
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevensstrong/

🔔 Listen & Subscribe to the Coachful Coaching Leadership Podcast:

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChNIFHK-1BrCn8IXN1lFk1Q
• Spotify: https://spotify.link/NTBgVJIL3yb
• Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/41Cz5gI
  🌐 Website: https://coachfulcoaching.com

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Leadership Journey

06:20 The Importance of Continuous Growth

11:47 Learning from Mistakes in Leadership

16:57 Evaluating Processes for Better Outcomes

23:53 Embracing New Paths and Opportunities

28:31 Listening to the Inner Voice

Most leaders listen to respond—not to understand. 🤯

In this episode, I sit down with Markus van Alphen, leadership psychologist and author of The Excellent Leader, to explore Observational Listening—a powerful skill that helps leaders go beyond active listening to truly understand emotions, build trust, and create psychological safety.

We discuss:
✅ Why most leaders struggle with listening—and how to fix it
✅ The secret to creating psychologically safe teams
✅ How Observational Listening improves leadership and influence
✅ The biggest communication mistakes leaders make (and how to avoid them)

If you want to become a leader people actually trust and follow, this episode is a must-listen!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Banter

03:20 Leadership Psychology and Well-being

05:51 Observational Listening Explained

08:33 Authenticity in Leadership Communication

11:12 Effective Communication Examples

13:42 Creating a Safe Space for Dialogue

16:13 The Importance of Observational Listening

17:33 Common Pitfalls in Leadership

19:18 The Power of Questions in Leadership

22:40 Navigating Change and Communication

26:14 Sustainability and Corporate Responsibility

29:18 Advice to My Younger Self

30:52 The Role of Technology in Leadership

In this episode, I sit down with Urs Koenig, a former NATO peacekeeper turned executive coach, to explore why humility—not ego—is the true superpower of great leaders.

Urs brings insights from his experiences in military peacekeeping, academic research, and leadership coaching to challenge the outdated model of “heroic leadership” and advocate for a radically humble approach to leading teams.

We discuss:✅ Why the best leaders admit their mistakes first—and how that builds trust✅ The shift from command-and-control leadership to humble leadership✅ What it means to “fail successfully” and how to turn failure into growth✅ How to create fearless teams where people feel safe to speak up✅ The toughest leadership lesson Urs learned in his career

This episode is packed with real stories, actionable insights, and powerful lessons for leaders who want to build strong, resilient teams.

🎧 Listen now!

🔗 Learn more about Urs Koenig:

Website: urskoenig.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/urs-koenig-ab3828

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Urs Konig

02:30 Urs's Unique Background and Military Experience

05:32 The Shift from Heroic to Humble Leadership

07:14 Understanding Failing Successfully

10:31 The Balance of Speaking Truth and Humility

11:56 Creating a Fearless Culture in Teams

16:53 The Impact of Humble Leadership

19:43 Building Trust and Vulnerability in Teams

24:55 Advice for Young Leaders

25:40 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways

In this episode, I sit down with David French, co-owner of PMC (Performance Management Consultants), to talk about the real skills that drive success—and why failure, resilience, and adaptability are the true differentiators in today’s world.

David shares his journey from corporate life to finding his passion in leadership development and training. He opens up about the power of failure, the mindset shifts needed to embrace discomfort, and how true leaders grow by pushing through adversity.

We dive into:

✅ The 3 essential skills every professional needs today: Communication, EQ, and Resilience
✅ Why embracing failure is the key to personal and professional growth
✅ How to build a career and business that aligns with your passion
✅ The importance of writing yourself out of a job to grow and empower others
✅ What it really takes to lead through uncertainty and change

David also shares powerful insights on why finding your "why" is crucial, how to stay motivated through setbacks, and why success is often about failing more than others.

🎧 Listen now!

🔗 Learn more about David French and PMC:

• PMC Website: https://pmctraining.com/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/j-david-french-9a217aa/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and AI in Podcasting

04:38 David French's Background and Career Journey

05:54 The Importance of Soft Skills

07:48 Teaching Resilience and Emotional Intelligence

10:31 Embracing Failure and Enthusiasm

15:14 Understanding Failure and Its Degrees

20:41 The Vision for PMC and Community Impact

In this episode, I sit down withChristine Miles, expert inThe Listening Path, to explore the skill thateveryone thinks they have—but few truly master: listening.

Christine is on a mission tochange the way the world listens. With only2% of people worldwide ever receiving formal listening training, she’s making it her life’s work toteach organizations, leaders, and even children how to listen to understand—not just to respond.

We dive into:
✅ Whylistening is the most underrated leadership skill
✅ Thebiggest mistakes people make when trying to listen
✅ Howgreat listeners guide conversations to uncover real insights
✅ TheCompass Method—a simple tool to help you listen more effectively
✅ The staggeringcost of poor listening in organizations, relationships, and life

Christine also sharesher personal journey—how she learned to listen differently as a child andthe life-changing impact of truly hearing others.

🎧Listen now and transform the way you communicate!

🔗Connect with Christine Miles:
🌎 Website:The Listening Path
🔹 LinkedIn:Christine Miles
📷 Instagram:@christine.miles.listens

Chapters

00:00 The Power of Listening

03:34 Teaching Listening Skills

06:30 Empathy and Listening in Children

09:16 The Story Behind the Story

12:10 Consequences of Poor Listening

14:52 Navigating Emotions in Conversations

17:43 Listening as a Sales Tool

20:30 Future Goals for Listening Education

23:22 Essential Skills for Leaders

26:07 Reflections and Recommendations

In this episode, I sit down withCarolyn Shaw, co-founder, president, and chief creative officer ofHumanity, a brand transformation agency that helps organizations tell powerful, authentic stories.

Carolyn shares her journey of launching and scaling a business during the pandemic, thepower of leading with values, and how to tell stories that truly resonate. We explore:

✅ How todefine your core values and use them to guide leadership decisions
✅ Theart of storytelling—and how brands can tellauthentic, relevant stories
✅ The challenges and lessons ofbuilding a business from scratch
✅ Whylegacy brands struggle with relevance and how to reconnect with their audience

We also dive intoa powerful project she recently worked on—theLGBT Purge campaign, a story that had been hidden in Canadian history for decades.

If you want tolead with purpose, tell better stories, and build a brand that truly connects, this episode is a must-listen!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Humanity and Values

03:03 The Importance of Values in Leadership

05:50 Growth, Well-being, and Courage in Work

08:16 Telling Powerful Stories

10:27 Making History Relevant

13:16 Building a Business During a Pandemic

15:56 Achievements and Lessons Learned

18:33 Rapid Fire Questions and Reflections

In this episode, I sit down with Eric Pfeiffer, executive coach and founder of MPWR Coaching, to talk about what it really takes to get unstuck and step into the driver's seat of your life. 🚀

We explore:
✅ The limiting beliefs that hold people back
✅ The difference between good suffering vs. bad suffering in personal growth
✅ Why most people consume self-improvement content but never change
✅ How to build a leadership operating system that actually works

If you’re ready to stop waiting for life to change and start making it happen—this episode is for you.

📖 Episode Chapters:

⏱ 00:00 – The Eric Pfeiffer I Never Knew (Funny Icebreaker)
⏱ 00:33 – What’s the Key Message Eric Wants to Share?
⏱ 02:00 – The Power of Becoming a Better Version of Yourself
⏱ 04:00 – Eric’s Personal Journey: From Feeling Stuck to Taking Ownership
⏱ 07:00 – Why Most People Stay in the Passenger Seat of Their Own Life
⏱ 08:45 – How to Get Unstuck (Even If You’ve Read All the Books & Listened to All the Podcasts)
⏱ 12:00 – Suffering as a Path to Growth – Good vs. Bad Suffering
⏱ 16:00 – Why People Struggle to Take Action (And How to Fix It)
⏱ 18:45 – The Leadership Operating System: What It Is & How It Works
⏱ 22:30 – The Problem with Downloading “Apps” Before Upgrading Your Operating System
⏱ 28:00 – The Hidden Limiting Beliefs That Block Success
⏱ 31:00 – Eric’s #1 Habit for Success
⏱ 33:00 – The Best Advice Eric Ever Received