In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary dissect two fan stories that prove mixed signals are alive and painfully well. One listener gets ghosted 24 hours after a picture-perfect hookup; another is trapped between flirtatious compliments and Instagram posts about other guys. The trio explores signs of emotional unavailability, gentle ways to clarify intentions, and whether it’s ever smart to reach out after being blocked.

This week on Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary are answering your juiciest fan-submitted questions—and it’s all about firsts, fantasies, and the moments that make you go “WTF?!” The trio share surprising things they are into and debate public sex, awkward dirty talk slip-ups, and who’s really more experimental in bed—men or women. 

Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary welcome a truly unique guest: Matt Barr, the official record-holder for the world’s largest scientifically documented penis—measuring over 14 inches. In this candid and honest conversation, Matt opens up about discovering his size, navigating dating and mental health, public perception, and the myths that surround male anatomy. We also touch on his experience posing nude for his upcoming book, how he responds to the “prove it” crowd, and what advice he’d give to any man struggling with size insecurity.

This isn’t just a conversation about size—it’s a conversation about what size means.

In this week’s episode, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary answer even more fan-submitted questions—from what makes a hookup truly unforgettable to how many “okay” dates is too many before moving on. They are talking sex confidence vs. physical skill, the surprising impact of rejection, and why the first kiss might—or might not—tell you everything you need to know. 

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In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary take on three fan-submitted stories that hit close to home. From being strung along by a flirty texter, to dating someone still healing from trauma, to feeling blamed after every hookup—these men are asking: “What do I do next?”
The hosts break down the mixed signals, communication breakdowns, and emotional red flags that so many of us face.

Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary explore two powerful fan-submitted stories this week on Coffee and Cleavage. First: a man’s girlfriend wants to explore her sexuality—on her terms only. Is one-sided openness ever okay? Then, another listener who's only attracted to "model-type" women and feels completely stuck—alone, frustrated, and unable to connect. Can attraction ever evolve—or are we doomed by our “type”?

Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary return with another round of brutally honest fan-submitted questions—this time diving deep into dating dilemmas, awkward sex scenarios, and emotional landmines like porn habits, body count convos, and finishing too fast. 

Lynnie, Shantal and Gary are diving into three raw and relatable fan stories that hit all the awkward spots in dating and sex. From a hookup gone wrong and the sting of ghosting, to mixed signals in the DMs and the confidence gap between sexting and real-life intimacy—this episode is packed with honesty, insight, and zero sugarcoating.

How do you reset mid-sex without bruising egos? Can watching porn together actually strengthen intimacy? And is scheduling sex the secret to ending a two-month dry spell? In this rapid-fire fan Q&A, Coffee and Cleavage hosts Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary reveal the mood-setter songs they swear by, the dating-app icks they can’t ignore, and the one compliment that never gets old. From unsolicited nudes vs. voice notes to the best guilt-free post-hookup snacks, no question is off-limits. Send in your own questions for the next round at coffeeandcleavage.com your curiosity fuels the show! 

In this fan-driven episode of Coffee and Cleavage, hosts Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary respond to a barrage of listener questions. Topics range from evolving sexual preferences, the worst flirting mistakes, and ideal pick-up lines to whether a threesome is on the table. They discuss preferred sex duration, attitudes toward body hair, and candid thoughts on pornography. Listeners also hear the hosts’ takes on spontaneous dates, public displays of affection, conflict styles, and relationship deal-breakers versus green flags. Submit future questions at coffeeandcleavage.com.