Coffee Talk with Soy

A spark in a relationship is a very important factor. The spark is what keeps you attracted to each other, what distinguishes you from just being friends and what keeps the relationship exciting. It is a sad fact that sometimes relationships just lose this spark, fall into a rut and end.  This could be a very hard moment for anyone. Sadly, however, it is something that the majority of us are going to have to endure before we find the right partner to settle down with. Understanding how to know when a relationship is over can make the end of a relationship much easier to handle.  Ultimately you will normally have a gut feeling yourself when you feel that a relationship might be over. There are many tell tale signs a relationship is ending and although you may not be at the stage of having a gut feeling, it’s worth reviewing the points we’re going to list on this show.  If you recognize a couple then perhaps the alarm bells should start ringing.

Do you have a friend who is hopeless at budgeting and you’re constantly lending him/her money?  Do you have a spouse or child that parties all night and you have telephoned their boss to call in sick for them instead of making them do it themselves?  Do you constantly find yourself completing your child’s homework assignment because they don't understand or have waited until the last minute?  Do you ignore the inappropriate behavior of a spouse, child or friend and make excuses for them?  Are you the older sibling protecting your younger sibling, hence not allowing them to stand up for themselves?  If you've answered "yes" to any of these questions, you could very well be "The Enabler"  This show explains how.

Has your life been influenced by reality TV, social media and blog sites?  Soy along with guests share their experiences in this area and the lessons they've learned.

An inspirational talk show to encourage a healthy lifesyle.

Submission is a subject that is rarely discussed.  Changes in society and changes in values are in part to blame for the topic being considered somewhat out of bounds today. Moreover, the feminist movement went to great lengths to suggest that submission was an outdated practice that is no longer germane to modern marriages. The foregoing notwithstanding, learning about submission in marriage is equal to rediscovering a fundamental Christian teaching that may quite possibly impact the way you conduct yourself in your marriage and alleviate a lot of common issues that lead to divorce today.  The word "Submissive" over time has become misconstrued as a means of considering women inferior, removing a variety of their privileges, and also greatly hampering their ability to be self determining. This is not only unnecessary but also unscriptural. It's very important to understand the difference between submissive and control.

An inspirational talk show to encourage a healthy lifesyle.

If you are spending Christmas alone then you should be listening to us.

Santa Claus, St. Nicholos, Kris Kringle is a powerful cultural symbol that is impossible to ignore.  He's known to travel around the world Christmas Eve delivering gifts to "good" children.  Should this "little white lie" be continued?  Should parents perpetuate the Santa Claus myth?  An open discussion about the pro's and con's of the beliefs of Santa.

How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~Wayne Dyer  - When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside and the kindness is returned.  Be careful what you put out there, it will surely be returned to you.  Tune in to Soy's Law's of Karma.

Setting boundaries in your life and/or your relationship with others.  Are you boundaries hurting you or helping you?  Who's more guarded men or women?