Come Back Brighter

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  • How a narcissist gets between you and loved ones

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    How a narcissist gets between you and loved ones

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x



    24 min
  • Narcissists prevent love in your love

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Narcissists prevent love in your love

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x



    18 min
  • Beware the aging narcissist

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Beware the aging narcissist

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x



    13 min
  • It all starts to make sense

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    It all starts to make sense

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x



    15 min
  • Big life events and the narcissist

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Big life events and the narcissist

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x


    16 min
  • Being afraid of the narcissist

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Being afraid of the narcissist

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x

    22 min
  • Hating a narcissist

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Hating a narcissist

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x

    15 min
  • The clues about what is most important to a narcissist

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    The clues about what is most important to a narcissist

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x

    22 min
  • Healing after narcissistic abuse is possible

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Healing after narcissistic abuse is possible

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x

    12 min
  • Feeling safe

    Hi everyone,

    Here is my new podcast about:

    Feeling safe

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Hi! I’m Clare.

    It is my mission in life to help people heal after narcissistic abuse.

    As an adult daughter of narcissist parents, sadly I have decades of experience of narcissistic abuse

    My father is an overt narcissist and my mother is a covert narcissist. Neither of them has been formally diagnosed by a health professional.

    I reached this conclusion after hours of research because for years I knew that my family set up was not healthy or normal.

    How can I help you?

    My intention in setting up Come Back Brighter is to let everyone suffering know that they are not alone and that it does get better.

    I know the heartbreak, utter despair, the loneliness and the deep vulnerability you feel.

    My desire is to help in any way I can and to accelerate your healing process.

    You are an incredible person who can achieve anything you dream of. You just have to believe.

    Through many mistakes and much time wasting, I have got to a good place.

    I want to save you this time and energy, by sharing my experiences and knowledge with you.

    If you have any questions please drop me a comment or email me at [email protected].

    If you are interested in hearing my vlog here is the link to my vlog playlist:

    🎥 My vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAYiMpCKIO9iKxRthWbn6YEjyjVvQ-JXC

    For more information there is also:

    😍 Patreon! 😍Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/clarelane

    💟 Coaching Session & Coaching Packages SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY OFFER From ONLY 80 €

    💖https://comebackbrighter.com/coaching-services/

    📖 I’m on Medium https://clarelane-comebackbrighter.medium.com/

    👀 YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJGGrJYny9EwmmcOuIjmKGw

    👂 My Google podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80NmJlZmYzYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    🔈 Apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-back-brighter/id1588224250

    ❓ Quora : https://www.quora.com/profile/Clare-Lane-12

    ✒️ Here are my blogs https://comebackbrighter.com/latest-blogs/

    💻 More information on my website https://comebackbrighter.com/

    💌 Or contact me at [email protected]

    You are not alone, Clare x

    21 min

About Come Back Brighter

From the publisher's feed

This is a podcast about healing after parental narcissistic abuse.