Coming Out Late

By Robin Douglass

Through narrative interviews, Robin Douglass shares real, raw & relatable Coming Out Late stories as well as resources meant to support, inspire and educate you on your own coming out late jour

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Coming Out Late episodes:

July 31, 2023Ep. #97: Queer Clergy Talk About Love, Sex & the Bible, Part 2
In this Part 2 Episode, Robin picks up the conversation with the group of queer clergy-folx from her FB Group, “Coming Out Late”. Robin recorded four hours of epic clergy conversations, two of which you heard in Episodes #75 & #76 back in March. The final two hours of those recordings are here, in Episodes #96 and #97.
Patriarchy, language, pronouns and “mansplaining”..
“Doubt the defaults”, Rev. Eyde Mabanglo
What is “monotheism? According to Google, monotheism is the belief in the existence of one god, or in the oneness of God.
What are “clobber passages”, “clobber texts”? “Although the Bible does not mention sexual orientation, there are a few passages where a biblical author mentions sex between people of the same gender. These texts are often termed the “clobber passages” due to the way they have been wielded against queer people…”. (Source: www.wordmadequeer.com)
The idea of “transactional preaching versus transformational preaching.
Should we be saving the church?
Knowing your queer black history: Bayard Rustin, Audrey Lorde, Pauli Murra; knowing that Compton Cafeteria came before Stonewall, etc.
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
Struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life? Then send me an email and request my 1:1 Coaching Information Sheet. It really does make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who ‘gets you’ and who has been through it. Email me at [email protected] for my Coaching Info Sheet.
SUPPORT GROUPS:
There is a $5 cover charge to attend each meeting. Register weekly for these and all Support Groups via the Buy Me A Coffee links below:

THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:
Wednesdays, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135

WOMEN LOVING WOMEN SUPPORT GROUP:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evening, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom. Via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783

FIFTY PLUS & FABULOUS:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evening, (alternating w/Women Loving Women),
8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93024
OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL: 2024, May 31 - June 3, 2024
Look for the “Out & Wild Women’s Festival” Facebook Group.

OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL - WEBSITE:
https://www.be
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53min
July 24, 2023Ep. #96: Queer Clergy Talk About Love, Sex & the Bible, Part 1
In this episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin shares with us a second conversation she had with a group of queer clergy-folx from her FB Group, “Coming Out Late”. Robin recorded four hours of epic clergy conversations, two of which you heard in Episodes #75 & #76 back in March. The final two hours of those recordings are here, in Episodes #96 and #97.
The Rev. Wilda C. Gafney, Ph.D., also known as Wil Gafney, (born 1966) is an American biblical scholar and Episcopal priest. She is a specialist in womanist biblical interpretation, and topics including gender and race.
Rev. Rufus A. Strother Jr., The Rev. Rufus A. Strother Jr. led a predominantly African-American congregation in northern Westchester County for 38 years and was noted for his work to foster understanding between races and to improve community relations, particularly during the years of the civil rights movement.
The documentary, “Mama’s Boy” on HBO Max, by Academy Award Winning Screenplay Writer, Dustin Lance Black.
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
Struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life? Then send me an email and request my 1:1 Coaching Information Sheet. It really does make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who ‘gets you’ and who has been through it. Email me at [email protected] for my Coaching Info Sheet.
SUPPORT GROUPS:
There is a $5 cover charge to attend each meeting. Register weekly for these and all Support Groups via the Buy Me A Coffee links below:
THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:
Wednesdays, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135
WOMEN LOVING WOMEN SUPPORT GROUP:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evening, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom. Via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783
FIFTY PLUS & FABULOUS:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evening, (alternating w/Women Loving Women),
8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93024
OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL: 2024, May 31 - June 3, 2024
Look for the “Out & Wild Women’s Festival” Facebook Group.

OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL - WEBSITE:
https://www.beoutandabout.co.uk/out-wild-festival/

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1h 6min
July 17, 2023Ep. #95: Sapphic Sex Talk w/Whitni Miller, Part 2
In this Part 2 episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin continues the conversation with Pleasure Education sexpert Whitni Miller. Casting aside timidness and insecurities around the topic of sapphic sex, members of Robin’s weekly “Not Straight Support Group” participated in a thoughtful, compassionate and consented conversation about pleasure, sex and intimacy for the purposes of this podcast.
In this episode you will learn…
The difference between “performative based sex” and “pleasure based sex”.
What’s ‘spontaneous desire’ versus ‘responsive desire’.
What impacts your sexual temperament?
Why do we have limiting beliefs around sex & ask ourselves, “Where did that belief come from?”, and “How is each limiting belief serving me and why?
About the importance of needing to use our words in all situations, and in ALL types of relationships; and just learn to say, “I'm feeling a certain way.”
In previous heterosexual experiences, it’s likely you’ve experienced coercion. If you feel those familiar sensations that you're being coerced, that's a red flag.
You don't ever owe somebody your body to pay for the space that you take up. Sex and any intimate practices should never be transactional.
In order to experience all levels of ‘pleasure’, we must be present in the moment.
Self-pleasure is simply pleasure - it’s NOT guilty-pleasure.
Most think that great sex comes from the other person; sex comes THROUGH your body, therefore, great sex comes through you, not ‘from’ the other person.
People with vulvas can have arousal, non-concordance, which means the mind is turned on and the body's not, or the body's turned on and the mind is not.
When we end relationships, we are NOT supposed to manage our partner’s emotional state of being; we’re not responsible for regulating other’s emotions.
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
Struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life? Then send me an email and request my 1:1 Coaching Information Sheet. It really does make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who ‘gets you’ and who has been through it. Email me at [email protected] for my Coaching Info Sheet.

WHITNI MILLER - Sex Educator & Pleasure Coach
www.bde-moves.com
Whitni’s work can be found on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. In fact, on Tik Tok, her channel has undoubtedly become an important source of sexual health information, and pleasure empowerment for thousands of folx.
SUPPORT GROUPS:
There is a $5 cover charge to attend each meeting. Register weekly for these and all Support Groups via the Buy Me A Coffee links below:
THE NOT-STRAIGHT:
Wednesdays, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135
WOMEN LOVING WOMEN:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evening, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom. Via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783
FIFTY PLUS & FABULOUS:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evening, (alternating w/Women Loving Women),
8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Ro
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48min
July 10, 2023Ep. #94: Sexy Talk w/Whitni Miller in the Not Straight Support Group, Part 1
In this Part 1 episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin invites the infamous social media sexpert Whitni Miller to be a Special Guest at the weekly “Not Straight” Support Group. Casting aside timidness and insecurities regarding talking about sex, all the members of the support group participated in a thoughtful, compassionate conversation about pleasure, sex and intimacy.
In this episode you will learn…
How do we flirt & let them know we’re interested in them?
People-pleasing and the patriarchal society.
“I hope they like me”, is a scarcity mindset and an unhealthy mindset.
Dropping heteronormative cultural stereotypes.
Don’t allow the ostracism, shunning and suppressive behavior from lifelong lesbians.
Once you get into queer circles, you have to redefine what “sex” even means.
“Lifelong” versus “newly out” folx.
Public displays of affection - right or wrong?
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
If you are struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life. then I encourage you to send me an email and request the information sheet on my one-on-one coaching. It REALLY DOES make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who really ‘gets you’, who has been through it and really ‘gets you’. Email me at: [email protected] to request my Coaching Info Sheet.

WHITNI MILLER: "Pleasure Coach"
Website: https://bde-moves.com/
Instagram: @bde.moves
Tik Tok: @bdemoves

SUPPORT GROUPS:
There is a $5 cover charge to attend each meeting, each week, and you must Register for these and all Support Groups every week, through Buy Me A Coffee, using the links below:

THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:
Wednesdays, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135

WOMEN LOVING WOMEN SUPPORT GROUP:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783
Meeting Schedule:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
July 13, 27; August 10, 24; September 7, 21; October 5, 19; November 2, 16, 30; December 14, 28.
OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL: 2024, May 31 - June 3, 2024
https://www.beoutandabout.co.uk/out-wild-festival/

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56min
July 03, 2023Ep. #93: The Out & Wild Women's Festival, Group Recap, Part 2
In this Part 2 episode of the Out & Wild Women’s Wellness Festival, Robin recaps the experiences we each had with this group of queer Festival goers, culminating the conversation asking everyone to describe one memory that has stayed with them long after they’ve returned home.
In this episode you will hear the Festival attendees reflect-on…
What is ONE word that describes your experience at the Out & Wild Women’s Wellness Festival? And why?
Who were you before the Festival, but more importantly, who were you and how were you feeling AFTER the Festival was over?
Name the one memory or experience you have taken from the Festival that stands out in your heart and in your mind above all the other possible memories?
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
If you are struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life, then I encourage you to request the information sheet on my one-on-one coaching. Email me at: [email protected].
OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL: May 31 - June 3, 2024
Look for the “Out & Wild Women’s Festival” Facebook Group.
OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL - WEBSITE:
https://www.beoutandabout.co.uk/out-wild-festival/

SUPPORT GROUPS:
There is a $5 cover charge to attend each meeting. You must Register for these and all Support Groups every week, using the links below:
THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:
Wednesdays, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135
WOMEN LOVING WOMEN SUPPORT GROUP: Beginning JUNE 29th.
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783
Meeting Schedule:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
June 29; July 13, 27; August 10, 24; September 7, 21; October 5, 19; November 2, 16, 30; December 14, 28.
FIFTY PLUS & FABULOUS: Beginning JULY 6th
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Women Loving Women),
5pm PST / 8pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93024
Meeting Schedule:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
July 6, 20; August 3, 17, 31; September 14, 28; October 12, 26; November 9, 23; December 7, 21.
COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:
Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late at:
www.facebook.com/groups/209443717714063/

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1h 11min
July 01, 2023Ep. #91: Out, Wild & Gay in Wales, Part 2
In this unconventional Bonus episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin continues telling the tale of her experience getting to the Out & Wild Women’s Wellness Festival in Wales. Three flights, four different train changes, one questionable cab ride and a thoughtful car lift TO the festival was “all it took” for Robin to eventually arrive at Out & Wild! Listen to Part 2 to the crazy ups-n-downs of Robin’s journey to Wales!
In this episode you will learn…
You are stronger, wiser and more resilient than you give yourself credit for.
Be accountable to yourself, and take responsibility for your actions.
Smile and say “please” and “thank you”. Have gratitude and show it.
Ask for help. (Most people really do want to lend a hand!)
Cry when needed; then blow your nose and go to Plan B.
Don’t give up on yourself. Growth occurs within the experiences of adversity.
Trust the process. You are exactly where you are supposed to be.
Drop ALL expectations!
Feel the fear and do it anyway.
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
If you are struggling to make sense-of your COMING OUT LATE journey, then send me an email and request the Info Sheet for my 1:1 coaching. It REALLY DOES make a BIG difference to have someone like me who really ‘gets you’, and who has been through it. Email me at: [email protected].
Here's the Support Group Weekly Schedule:
WOMEN LOVING WOMEN SUPPORT GROUP:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783
MEETING SCHEDULE:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
June 29; July 13, 27; August 10, 24; September 7, 21; October 5, 19; November 2, 16, 30; December 14, 28.
FIFTY PLUS & FABULOUS:
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Women Loving Women),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93024
MEETING SCHEDULE:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
July 6, 20; August 3, 17, 31; September 14, 28; October 12, 26; November 9, 23; December 7, 21
THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:
EVERY Wednesday, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135
WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COM
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation for bringing you this awesome podcast week after week. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!! Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:
Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late at:
www.facebook.com/groups/209443717714063/
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34min
June 26, 2023Ep. #92: The Out & Wild Women's Festival: A Group Recap, Part 1
In this 2-part Episode Robin describes what the Out & Wild Women’s Wellness Festival is all about, describing the facilities, offerings, and venue. THEN, Robin invites 15 of her closest UK-friends to join her in a recorded zoom gathering to talk about THEIR experiences at the Festival.
In this episode you will hear the Festival attendees answer…
What is ONE word that describes your experience at the Out & Wild Women’s Wellness Festival? And why?
How has the Festival transformed you, after it was over?
Name one memory from the Festival that stands out the most?
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
If you are struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life. then I encourage you to send me an email and request the information sheet on my one-on-one coaching.Email me at: [email protected] to request my Coaching Info Sheet.
SUPPORT GROUPS:
There is a $5 cover charge to attend each meeting, each week, and you must Register for these and all Support Groups every week, through Buy Me A Coffee, using the links below:
THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:
Wednesdays, 12:30pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135
WOMEN LOVING WOMEN SUPPORT GROUP: Beginning JUNE 29th.
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Fifty Plus & Fabulous),
6pm PST / 9pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/141783
Meeting Schedule:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
June 29; July 13, 27; August 10, 24; September 7, 21; October 5, 19; November 2, 16, 30; December 14, 28.
FIFTY PLUS & FABULOUS: Beginning JULY 6th
Every OTHER Thurs. Evenings, (alternating w/Women Loving Women),
5pm PST / 8pm EST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $5
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93024
Meeting Schedule:
Thursdays @ 6pm Pacific Coast Time (9pm East Coast Time):
July 6, 20; August 3, 17, 31; September 14, 28; October 12, 26; November 9, 23; December 7, 21.

COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:
Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late at:
www.facebook.com/groups/209443717714063/

OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL: 2024, May 31 - June 3
OUT & WILD WOMEN’S WELLNESS FESTIVAL - WEBSITE:
https://www.beoutandabout.co.uk/out-wild-festival/

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59min
June 19, 2023Ep. #90: Out, Wild, & Gay in Wales, Part 1
In this unconventional episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin takes a casual, unscripted approach this week, sharing with you a recent ‘thing’ she did. She did a ‘gay’ thing and she wants to share with you her ‘gay thing’ experience, AND share with you the things she learned about herself along the way. These ‘things’ Robin learned about herself are universal lessons we can all benefit from. She also hopes to recruit many of you to join her next year, to do this ‘gay thing’ together in one big happy gay group! Stay-tuned for Part 2 THIS WEEK!
In this episode you will learn…
You are stronger, wiser and more resilient than you give yourself credit for.
Drop ALL expectations and ‘life’ will run like a Swiss watch!
Be accountable to yourself, and take responsibility for your actions.
Be yourself, and everything else will fall into place.
Smile and say “please” and “thank you”.
Have gratitude and show it.
Ask for help. (Most people really do want to lend a hand!)
Cry when needed; then blow your nose, pick yourself up and go to Plan “B”.
Don’t give up on yourself.
Trust the process. You are exactly where you are supposed to be in this time and place.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Feel the fear and do it anyway.
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
If you are struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life. then I encourage you to send me an email and request the information sheet on my one-on-one coaching. It REALLY DOES make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who really ‘gets you’, who has been through it and who can help YOU decide what the best course of action is for YOU. Email me at: [email protected] to request my Coaching Info Sheet.

‘THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP’!
The Not-Straight Support Group has always wanted to just be inclusive to ALL folx who deem themselves not-straight; we wish to attract and be inclusive to bisexuals, pansexuals, questioning persons, queers, trans-, and non-binary folx. Each week we gather to talk about whatever is in our hearts and on our minds, mostly related to some aspect of our coming out journey. You can share as little-of, or as much of your story as you feel comfortable. Show up late, leave early - just come grab some lovin’ support!
The Not-Straight Support Group meets every Wednesday at 12:30pm EST
You must register, pay and use this link each and every week you attend.
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135

WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COM
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation for bringing you this awesome podcast week after week. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!! Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass

COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:
Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late at:
www.facebook.com/groups/209443717714063/

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46min
June 12, 2023Ep. #89: Coming Out Late to My Husband, Adriana's Story, Part 2
In this Part 2 episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin continues the conversation with Late Bloomer Adriana and her co-parent and current husband, Darius. You’ll hear how they walk us through their process of managing their marriage, their families and their futures during and after Adriana’s recent awakening of her sexuality. For reference, Adriana no longer identifies herself as a heterosexual woman.

In this episode you will learn…
Wanting something more for yourself, or something different for yourself, doesn’t mean leaving what you have is ever easy.
Who leaves the house when a ‘separation’ is the next step?
How do ‘things’ FEEL in your body? Your body never lies to you - it just takes getting very still and very honest with yourself to ‘feel the truths’ it offers.
We ALL have those, “...what the hell am I doing?” moments. All of us!
If you’re not sure about ‘separation’ - try moving into a spare bedroom, or set up a space and a place for you to sleep other than the marital bedroom you share.
Continuing the strong post-marital bond long into the future, and how do future partners fit into that scenario?
“...Leaving for a feeling and a thought…? What am I, crazy?”
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS
If you are struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life. then I encourage you to send me an email and request the information sheet on my one-on-one coaching. It REALLY DOES make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who really ‘gets you’, who has been through it and who can help YOU decide what the best course of action is for YOU. Email me at: [email protected] to request my Coaching Info Sheet.

‘THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP’!
The Not-Straight Support Group has always wanted to just be inclusive to ALL folx who deem themselves not-straight; we wish to attract and be inclusive to bisexuals, pansexuals, questioning persons, queers, trans-, and non-binary folx. Each week we gather to talk about whatever is in our hearts and on our minds, mostly related to some aspect of our coming out journey. You can share as little-of, or as much of your story as you feel comfortable. Show up late, leave early - just come grab some lovin’ support!
The Not-Straight Support Group meets every Wednesday at 12:30pm EST
You must register, pay and use this link each and every week you attend.
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135

WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COM
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation for bringing you this awesome podcast week after week. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!! Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass

COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:
Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late at:
www.facebook.com/groups/209443717714063/

FOLLOW ROBIN ON INSTAGRAM AT:
To follow Robin on Instagram, go to: @late.blooming.lesbian
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48min
June 05, 2023Ep. #88: Coming Out Late to My Husband: Adriana's Story, Part 1
In this Part 1 episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin welcomes the married duo of Adriana and Darius to talk about how Adriana’s recent awakening to her sexuality has impacted their marriage, how they have navigated this journey together, and how they plan to move forward.

In this episode you will learn…

How important it is to listen to those little whispering voices inside us.
The vital nature in which “communication” really does play a role in the success of all relationships.
Take things slowly, and talk things out - talk everything out!
Be true to YOUR needs and boundaries - even if it costs you your marriage.
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:

PRIVATE ONE-on-ONE COACHING w/ROBIN DOUGLASS

If you are struggling to make sense-of and MANAGE this new aspect of your COMING OUT LATE life. then I encourage you to send me an email and request the information sheet on my one-on-one coaching. It REALLY DOES make a BIG difference to have someone like myself who really ‘gets you’, who has been through it and who can help YOU decide what the best course of action is for YOU. Email me at: [email protected] to request my Coaching Info Sheet.

‘THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP’!
The Not-Straight Support Group has always wanted to just be inclusive to ALL folx who deem themselves not-straight; we wish to attract and be inclusive to bisexuals, pansexuals, questioning persons, queers, trans-, and non-binary folx. Each week we gather to talk about whatever is in our hearts and on our minds, mostly related to some aspect of our coming out journey. You can share as little-of, or as much of your story as you feel comfortable. Show up late, leave early - just come grab some lovin’ support!

The Not-Straight Support Group meets every Wednesday at 12:30pm EST

You must register, pay and use this link each and every week you attend.

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