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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with Samantha Foote—music therapist, mom of three autistic children, and host of the Every Brain Is Different Summit—to explore how sound, structure, and self-compassion can transform the neurodivergent parenting journey.

Samantha shares:

🎹 How a piano prodigy became a therapy trailblazer. When Samantha realized she didn’t want to perform or teach music—she wanted to use it to heal—she became a board-certified music therapist and built her Boise-based clinic from the ground up.

👶 From therapist to mom: the plot twist that changed everything. After a decade of helping autistic kids, Samantha became the mother of three neurodivergent children herself. Suddenly, the theories became lived experience—and the gaps in the system felt personal.

💡 The behavior-behind-the-behavior. Why “bad” behavior is often just communication in disguise—and how understanding sensory overload, motor challenges, and unmet needs can de-escalate 90% of home meltdowns.

🎵 How music works when nothing else does. Whether it’s tapping a beat to improve coordination or singing pre-written social scripts, Samantha explains how music accesses more of the brain than any other stimulus—and can unlock speech, memory, and movement when traditional therapy stalls.

🧠 The Summit that started a movement. Samantha’s Every Brain Is Different Summit gathers dozens of neurodivergent experts, advocates, and therapists to help parents cut through the confusion and get real-time answers—without the overwhelm.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
 “All behavior is communication. The question is: are we listening?”

Whether you’re managing IEPs, music playlists, or meltdowns on a Tuesday morning, Samantha’s message is a balm for the burnout: You are not alone—and your child’s brain is different, not broken.

👤 About Samantha Foote
Samantha Foote is a neurodivergent, board-certified music therapist, positive discipline parent consultant, and mother of three autistic children. Through her work at Every Brain Is Different, she helps parents feel confident, supported, and informed while celebrating neurodiversity and empowering their families to thrive.

🔗 Connect with Samantha & Every Brain Is Different
📘 Instagram: @everybrainisdifferent

🎵 TikTok: @everybrainisdifferent

📺 YouTube: Every Brain Is Different

📖 Download her free parenting guide: everybrainisdifferent.com

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with speaker, podcaster, and creator of the Raising Wild Hearts podcast, Ryann Watkin, to unpack the tug-of-war between strength and softness that every mom of complex kids knows too well. Together, they explore how to step out of “CEO of the household” mode and reconnect with the feminine energy that fuels joy, love, and true presence at home.

Ryann shares:

• When strength becomes survival. From high-achieving career woman to maxed-out mom, Ryann opens up about hitting burnout when her “go, go, go” energy clashed with motherhood’s demands.
• The moment she hit rock bottom. How the split between masculine drive and feminine nurture left her depleted—and what it took to begin her healing journey.
• Embodiment in real life. Why asking yourself “Can I feel my legs?” was the first surprising step to grounding, slowing down, and reconnecting with her body.
• Turning off ‘boss mode.’ Practical shifts—like saying “What do you think, love? I trust you”—that invite your partner to step up and give you space to soften.
• The control/safety loop. Why moms of complex kids grip so tightly to schedules and responsibilities, and how learning to release just two “rocks from the backpack” can transform family balance.
• Happiness isn’t “when.” Ryann’s wisdom for every overwhelmed mom: stop waiting for someday. Joy is possible here, even in the mess and the therapy appointments.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
“Happier moms raise happier kids. Don’t wait for things to ease up—be here now, be happy now.”

Whether you’re juggling IEP meetings, medical appointments, or just trying to make dinner without barking orders, Ryann’s message is clear: reclaiming your feminine energy isn’t about weakness—it’s about resilience, presence, and love.

👤 About Ryann Watkin
Ryann Watkin is a creative professional speaker and podcaster devoted to creating a better world for future generations. Known for her insightful questions and engaging wit, she empowers individuals to share messages of resilience and joy. She is the host of Raising Wild Hearts, a globally recognized top 5% podcast exploring the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and relationships.

🔗 Connect with Ryann & Raising Wild Hearts
Instagram: @raisingwildhearts

Facebook: Raising Wild Hearts

LinkedIn: Ryann Watkin

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with Los Angeles speech-language pathologist and author Jeaneen Tang to unpack why some kids stay stuck at “grunts and grabs”—and the everyday tweaks that turn requests into real words. Jeaneen shares how to build language without fancy tools: honor a child’s “no,” engineer practice into snacks and play, and borrow the brain’s love of music to make phrases stick.

Jeaneen shares:

• A mom’s day that changed everything. When Jeaneen’s son Che suffered a traumatic brain injury and stroke at 13 months, doctors said he might never walk or talk. Early intervention, OT/PT, and daily language reps proved otherwise—and now fuel her mission to make strategies accessible to every family.
• Why “playing dumb” works. Mindfully under-anticipate needs so kids must communicate: give a few crackers and leave the rest in sight; wait for a reach, sign, or word; then shape “more” into “more cracker,” “cracker please.” Repetition is the engine.
• Honor the “no” (and still get things done). Skip yes/no traps you can’t honor. Try choices: “Brush teeth now or in five minutes?” “Puzzle or book first?” Dignity + predictability = cooperation.
• Music makes words memorable. Rewrite nursery-rhyme tunes with target lines (“iPad away at dinner”)—melody + rhythm bridge gaps for late talkers and kids with apraxia.
• School vs. private therapy—what parents can do. Big school caseloads are real; carryover is essential. Ask for regular IEP communication, keep a home–school notebook, and start a “Team [Child]” thread so everyone aligns on goals.
• AAC, signs, and the goal of being understood. Use what your child will use—from signs to AAC—while teams model consistently. Tools are bridges, not labels.

Whether you’re supporting apraxia, autism, TBI recovery, or just late talking, Jeaneen’s message is simple: create tiny opportunities, repeat them often, and watch language grow.

👤 About Jeaneen Tang
A 24-year SLP across schools, preschools, hospitals, and homes, Jeaneen is the author of Play Dumb and Sabotage (2024) and a mother to Che, whose recovery shaped her caregiver-first approach. She believes many early speech referrals can be reduced through better training for parents, caregivers, and educators—without sacrificing support for kids who truly need services.

🔗 Connect with Jeaneen
IG: @jt808 • @playdumbandsabotage
LinkedIn: Jeaneen Tang
Facebook: Jeaneen Tang

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In this heartfelt episode, Michelle sits down with Amanda Trisdale, CEO of Autistic Wings Dance Company, to spotlight what happens when a fierce mom, a fiercely talented daughter, and a fiercely broken system collide—and how they built a sanctuary for neurodivergent dancers when no one else would.

Amanda shares:

💔 Why neurodivergent kids were getting shut out. From being told they must be verbal, potty-trained, and able to sit still—at three—to being denied jazz, tap, or ballet, Amanda knew these so-called “inclusive” studios weren’t built for real kids.

👣 How a 13-year-old designed a better way. Amanda’s daughter Lita insisted every dancer have an IEP. Yes, an IEP for dance. And what started as an idea became a waitlisted, word-of-mouth miracle.

📉 The brutal math behind their pricing. Classes start at $55 per month—not per class—because most families simply can’t afford more. Amanda’s team runs 1:1 sessions that cost more to deliver than they charge, and they're still turning families away because they don’t have space or staff.

🧱 Why they’re raising $2,800/month to survive—and launching a capital campaign to buy a building. The goal? Elopement locks, lights that don’t buzz, small class sizes, and enough dance floors to serve the neurodivergent kids no one else is making room for.

🩰 One nonverbal boy’s breakthrough. When “Otter” joined in January, he didn’t stretch, follow directions, or engage. Now? He’s doing pliés, tendus, and three-point turns—and waking up on class days asking for dance by name.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
 “This isn’t just a dance class. It’s the only place some of these kids are seen.”

From her daughter’s first pirouette to a community redefining success beyond applause, Amanda’s story is a masterclass in what happens when families build the system they wish existed.

👤 About Amanda Trisdale
Amanda Trisdale is the CEO of Autistic Wings Dance Company, a nonprofit dance studio founded by her daughter, Lita Rundle. She is also the co-host of Lita Taps Styles, a podcast about autism, artistry, and advocacy—with a splash of humor. Based in Colorado Springs, Amanda is a relentless champion for autistic kids and their families.

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• Donate to the General Fund
• Contribute to the Capital Campaign
• Buy a Tile to Leave a Legacy
• Visit Their Website
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• Instagram: @autisticwingsdancecompany
• Twitter: @autisticwingsdance

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with energy & consciousness coach Kanika Vasudeva to explore why many complex kids arrive as hyper-sensitive “old souls”—and how a one-minute grounding ritual can steady the whole household.

Kanika shares:

• A daughter’s goodbye that opened a portal. Losing her infant set Kanika on an Akashic-Records quest to understand soul contracts, karmic imprints, and the bigger purpose behind every parent-child match.
• The science of an “earthing wire.” Just as appliances shunt excess charge to ground, parents can run stress, grief, and overwhelm straight into Mother Earth—no crystals, no incense, just breath.
• Monkey tails & golden sunbeams. Kid-friendly visualizations that hitch big feelings to Gaia and pull calm back in through the crown (perfect for car-line meltdowns).
• Why speech delays and sudden rages aren’t defects. They’re often past-life lessons in empathy, expression, or war-wounds waiting to be cleared.
• The ripple effect of regulation. Ground yourself first; your child’s nervous system will mirror the upgrade in minutes.
• A free audio jump-start. Kanika’s 3-part “Soul Contracts in Parenting” series helps you discover the deeper agreement you and your child signed before birth—and how to parent from peace instead of panic.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
“Every breath you send into the earth is an instant tech-support ticket for your child’s nervous system.”

Whether your day is packed with therapies, IEP meetings, or late-night Google searches, Kanika’s message is simple: plug into the planet, invite the sun in, and watch the storms lose their charge.

👤 About Kanika Vasudeva
An engineer-turned-energy coach, Kanika is the founder of Art of Life Center. She uses Akashic Records, somatic grounding, and conscious-parenting frameworks to help families clear generational trauma and raise resilient, soul-aligned kids.

🔗 Connect with Kanika & Resources
• Free audio series: Soul Contracts in Parenting → artoflifecenter.com/parent
• Website & sessions: artoflifecenter.com
• Instagram: @kanikaenergycoach
• Email: [email protected]

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with Active Reader co-founder and former classroom teacher Rebecca McAllister to unpack why so many complex kids (and even their teachers!) still struggle with reading—and how a multi-sensory, five-minute-a-day routine can rewrite that story long before first grade.

Rebecca shares:

• From “good student” to secret struggler. Undiagnosed dyslexia left Rebecca memorizing textbooks and dodging eye-contact with contracts—until Orton-Gillingham training finally “turned the world to color” at age 36.
• Why most classrooms miss the mark. Whole-word cueing relies on memorization; structured literacy rewires the brain by fusing sight, sound, touch, and movement.
• The active-learning blueprint. How her flash-card “equations” (C—cat—/k/) + tracing + play turn toddlers’ Hot Wheels laps into letter-sound mastery.
• Red-flag behaviors to spot early. Avoidance, echo-answers, symbol confusion—signs your pre-K child might be heading for the same hurdles.
• A 30-week plug-and-play curriculum. For parents, daycares, and special-ed teams: five to ten minutes a day, zero guesswork, scripts included.
• Success without burnout. Why mixing story time, movement games, and even movie characters with a target sound cements learning for ADHD and dyslexic brains.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
“If they can feel it, hear it, and giggle while they say it, the brain keeps it forever.”

Whether your child is handwriting their first “B” at 11 or devouring chapter books at five, Rebecca’s message is simple: build a sensory-rich foundation now, and reading roadblocks vanish before they start.

👤 About Rebecca McAllister

A certified teacher, literacy specialist, and co-founder of The Active Reader, Rebecca turned her own late-identified dyslexia into a mission: give every family the tools schools often skip. She leads one-to-one Orton-Gillingham tutoring across North America and designs play-based curricula that fit into real-life parent schedules.

🔗 Connect with Rebecca & The Active Reader

Website: theactivereader.com
Instagram: @the_active_reader
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/rebeccalmcallister
Email: [email protected]

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In this conversation, Michelle welcomes therapist and EmpowerMind Solutions founder Dr. Kristen Williamson to bust the myth that ADHD and autism are deficits—and to show both parents and late-diagnosed adults how to turn “weird” traits into everyday superpowers.

Kristen shares:

• The diagnosis after 30 that changed everything. A lifetime of “too much” finally made sense when Kristen received back-to-back ADHD and autism confirmations at 38 and 39—then realized her entire family tree was “neuro-spicy.”
• Why girls (and moms) get missed. Early screening tools were built for 8-year-old white boys; masking, cultural norms, and medical gas-lighting leave women and people of color labeled “anxious” or “lazy” instead of autistic.
• Lawn-mower parenting vs. life skills. Clear every obstacle and your complex kid never learns to fold laundry, shower, or self-advocate. Kristen explains how to swap “mowing down struggles” for bite-size checklists and visual timers.
• 100 percent failure, 100 percent restart. ADHD brains abandon routines—and that’s OK. From alarm sounds to shower visors, Kristen demonstrates how curiosity beats shame every time a system breaks.
• Humor as a sensory aid. Why walking backward down the street, laughing at grocery-store meltdowns, and telling the story without passive-aggressive digs defuses stigma for kids and adults alike.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
“Your brain isn’t broken—it just writes in its own language. Learn the language, and the superpowers come online.”

Whether you’re parenting a meltdown-prone eight-year-old or wondering why your own coping skills collapsed at menopause, Kristen’s roadmap proves it’s never too late to ditch shame, get curious, and build a life that fits.

👤 About Dr. Kristen Williamson
A Licensed Professional Counselor and founder of EmpowerMind Solutions LLC, Kristen specializes in supporting neurodivergent adults—especially those diagnosed with ADHD or autism later in life—through self-compassion, practical strategies, and neurodiversity advocacy.

🔗 Connect with Kristen
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kristensmith0045
TikTok: @empowerminds.solu

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with Cleverely operations lead Michael Israel to unpack the hidden reason babies and complex kids are still left in hot cars—and the 15-second fix that turns back-seat checks into second nature.

Michael shares:

• A dad’s near-miss that sparked a movement. One foggy commuter morning, a tech-savvy father forgot his son was still riding behind him. The memory lapse ended safely—but exposed a blind spot that kills dozens of U S children every summer.
• Why no one is “too careful.” Your brain can only juggle 7–8 data points at once; add work calls, grocery lists, or medical-equipment prep and any parent’s memory buffer overflows.
• Seat-belt déjà vu. How Cleverely’s $30 plug-in device swaps high-priced sensors for randomized voice prompts—training you to glance at the back seat the same way the 1970s trained us to click a belt.
• The number you never hear: 65,000 U S near-miss rescues a year—cases that don’t make national stats but leave lasting trauma.
• Easy wins for busy families. One-minute install, no app, no Wi-Fi, plus bulk programs for NICUs, CP clinics, and respite-care fleets so every caregiver hears the reminder.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
“Every time you exit, eyes to the back seat—even when the seat is supposed to be empty. That habit is the real safety device.”

Whether you’re hauling orthotics, wheelchairs, or a week’s worth of meds, Michael’s message is simple: habitualize the glance, and hot-car headlines fade into history.

👤 About Michael Israel

A former tech-startup strategist turned safety advocate, Michael leads U S partnerships for Cleverely, an Australian-born company dedicated to ending pediatric hot-car deaths through habit-building reminders.

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with author and psych-nurse T.L. McCoy to unpack how a single genetic mutation—and a determined grandma—sparked the inclusive middle-grade adventure Delilah versus the Ghastly Grimm.

TL shares:

• The diagnosis that changed everything. Her granddaughter’s first-year seizures led to a Dravet-syndrome finding—and a crash course in gene mutations, med trials, and 40-minute seizures that land kids in the ICU.
• Why representation can’t wait. Only 3.4 percent of children’s books feature disabled protagonists; TL set out to fix that by giving complex kids a hero who battles villains and seizure triggers.
• Electric powers & indigo doors. How Delilah’s electro-chemical brain storms became literal lightning bolts in a fantasy world—and why kids on the spectrum of any disorder immediately “get” the metaphor.
• The advocacy playbook. From pushing past “it’s probably nothing” to finding the off-label med (Fintepla) that delivered a seizure-free year, TL explains why parents must “be a Karen” when instincts say something’s off.
• Grace for the grown-ups. Care-giving is a 24/7 marathon; TL’s practical reminders help moms and grandparents claim support, community, and rest without guilt.

Whether you’re drowning in therapy schedules, hunting for medically accurate fiction, or wondering how to pitch your hospital library, TL’s journey proves inclusive stories heal more than we realize.

👤 About T.L. McCoy

Founder of Blue Round Book Group, LLC, TL is a 30-year psychiatric nurse and former special-education school director. Her debut novel Delilah versus the Ghastly Grimm blends fast-paced fantasy with an authentic portrayal of life-threatening seizure disorders.

🔗 Connect with TL

• Facebook: T.L. McCoy
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• Website: Blue Round Group Book

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In this conversation, Michelle sits down with veteran speech-language pathologist Dinalynn Rosenbush—creator of the Language of Play podcast—to unpack what happens when an over-worked school SLP, a fired-up mom, and a “mama-gut” hunch all meet at the IEP table.

Dinalynn shares:

• School vs. private therapy—decoded.
  Why public-school SLPs have to wait for an academic “hit,” how 62-kid caseloads force group sessions, and the simple question her principal always asked: *“Is it good for kids?”*🏫
• Her high-frequency hack for apraxia.
  Ten-minute hallway “card-blitz” drills that gave one-on-one intensity—without blowing up the bell schedule. 🃏
• The power of “team emails” and fearless follow-up.
  How Michelle’s bi-weekly “Team Drake” updates model the kind of parent–therapist loop every complex kid needs. 📬
• Why early intervention beats perfect answers.
  Hear the story of a mom with a one-year-old and a brain malformation—and how saying yes to services before a rock-solid label can change the trajectory. 🌱
• Ditching the yes/no trap.
  Practical language swaps that demand real words (or signs) and open the door to bigger conversations. 💬
• Bravery isn’t optional.
  “When fear is present and you move forward anyway—that’s bravery.” What that looks like when you’re doubting your gut, juggling therapists, and rewriting bedtime to fit sensory needs. 🦸‍♀️

Whether you’re waiting on an evaluation, wondering how to actually partner with the school SLP, or just need permission to trust your intuition, Dinalynn’s 30-years of wisdom will show you how to turn everyday play into powerful speech therapy—and why no parent should have to do it alone.

👤 About Dinalynn Rosenbush

Consultant & parenting coach • 30-year public-school SLP • International best-selling author • Host of the top 1.5 % podcast The Language of Play. Dinalynn empowers parents to weave speech and language practice into ordinary routines—even when a delay is present. She lives in Minnesota near her children and grandchildren.

🔗 Connect with Dinalynn

Instagram: @dinalynnrosenbush
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dinalynn-rosenbush-b5750854
YouTube: The Language of Play