In this provocative and educational episode of "Confession Time," hosts Miss Red Ness and Ieva Oshun welcome special guest Flame Hel. Unlike their previous episode featuring a submissive who discovered her kinks later in life, Flame provides the opposite perspective as a lifelong dominant.

Flame discusses his evolution from those early exploratory days to becoming a well-known figure on the fetish scene —running dungeon, organizing fetish events, doing Shibari performances.

The conversation delves into thought-provoking topics including:

• The qualities that make a good dominant and submissive
• The differences between being a submissive and a slave
• How dominants should handle communication breakdowns
• The importance of self-awareness in BDSM relationships
• How to recognize red flags in potential partners
• The emotional challenges dominants face

In the latter part of the episode, Flame reveals his recent career as an adult entertainer, discussing his approach to ethical porn production and announcing his upcoming return to Latvia for the "Baltic Summer of Hel 2025" event series.

This episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and experienced practitioners in the kink community, emphasizing safety, honest communication, and the importance of understanding one's true desires and boundaries.

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Step into the world of fetish events as your hosts share their personal experiences and essential guidance for newcomers. In this candid episode, we take you through you need to know about attending your first fetish party - from finding events to walking through the door with confidence.

Drawing from our own memorable first times, we discuss what to expect, common anxieties, and how to prepare both mentally and practically. We cover essential topics including:

• Finding events
• Understanding dress codes and event etiquette
• First-time experiences and lessons learned
• Building confidence
• Party safety and consent culture

Special announcement for our Brighton listeners: Join the community at Spank's Valentine's Special on February 14th. We share details about this upcoming event and why it's perfect for newcomers.

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In our first episode, we pull back the curtain and invite listeners into our world. Who are we? Why did we decide to create a podcast that dives deep into conversations about sex, relationships, and human intimacy?

Join us as we share our personal stories, our friendship, and the moments that inspired us to create a platform where open, honest conversations about sexuality can flourish. We'll discuss our backgrounds, our motivations, and our vision for creating a safe, judgment-free space where listeners can feel seen, understood, and supported.

Highlights:

• Meet the hosts and hear our personal journeys
• Understand the mission behind Confession Time
• Learn about our commitment to honest, respectful dialogue

Trigger Warning: Mature themes and explicit discussions about sexuality

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