Confessions of a Codependent

-What is the clinical definitionBPD and what are its symptoms? Review of the "loud Mind vs the messy mind". How do we relax the effects of BPD and the accompanying coping mechanisms? What does it FEEL like to suffer from BPD? What are the 12 PROMISES of codependents anonymous?

So Unsexy - Song by Alanis Morissette

HOST JENNY E. allows you to get up close and personal inside her life, her heart and her messy vs. wise minds. With the hope of helping others heal, becoming aware of their codependence, and use real life tools for dramatic change. This is Jenny’s most personal podcast, politics-free, and a beacon of light to those still suffering from PTSD, narcissistic, sexual abuse, borderline personality, CPTSD, and codependence.

Please rate and comment! Let’s share the podcast and get as many souls into recovery as possible!

Vist:

⁠www.coda.org⁠

⁠www.slaafws.org

www.Sasa.org

Spotify:

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- What is the host/parasite relationship between the codependent and narcissist? - How does IDEALISM become a trap for the codependent? What types of narcissists are out there? Plus, a book review of Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power and why a codependent should read it to protect themselves against an abuser/scammer/manipulator.

Narcissus - Song by Alanis Morissette

Lyrics:

Dear momma's boy
I know you've had your butt licked by your mother
I know you've enjoyed all that attention from her
And every woman graced with your presence after
Dear narcissus boy
I know you've never really apologized for anything
I know you've never really taken responsibility
I know you've never really listened to a womanDear me-show boy
I know you're not really into conflict resolution
Or seeing both sides of every equation
Or having an uninterrupted conversationAnd any talk of healthiness
And any talk of connectedness
And any talk of resolving this
Leaves you running for the doorWhy, why do I try to love you?
Try to love you when you really don't want me toDear egotist boy
You've never really had to suffer any consequence
You've never stayed with anyone longer than ten minutes
You'd never understand anyone showing resistance
Dear popular boy
I know you're used to getting everything so easily
A stranger to the concept of reciprocity
People honor boys like you in this societyAnd any talk of selflessness
And any talk of working at this
And any talk of being of service
Leaves you running for the doorWhy, why do I try to help you?
Try to help you when you really don't want me to
Why, why do I try to help you?
Try to help you when you really don't want me toYou go back to the women who will dance the dance
You go back to your friends who will lick your ass
You go back to ignoring all the rest of us
You go back to the center of your universeDear self centered boy
I don't know why I still feel affected by you
I've never lasted very long with someone like you
I never did, although I have to admit I wanted to
Dear magnetic boy
You've never been with anyone who doesn't take your shit
You've never been with anyone who's dared to call you on it
I wonder how you'd be if someone were to call you on itAnd any talk of willingness
And any talk of both feet in
And any talk of commitment
Leaves you running for the doorWhy, why do I try to change you?
Try to change you when you really don't want me to
Why, why do I try to change you?
Try to change you when you really don't want me toYou go back to the women who will dance the dance
And you go back to your friends who will lick your ass
And you go back to being so oblivious
And you go back to the center of the universeSource: LyricFind

Songwriters: Alanis MorissetteNarcissus lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group

HOST JENNY E. allows you to get up close and personal inside her life, her heart and her messy vs. wise minds. With the hope of helping others heal, becoming aware of their codependence, and use real life tools for dramatic change. This is Jenny’s most personal podcast, politics-free, and a beacon of light to those still suffering from PTSD, narcissistic, sexual abuse, borderline personality, CPTSD, and codependence.

Please rate and comment! Let’s share the podcast and get as many souls into recovery as possible!

Vist:

⁠www.coda.org⁠

⁠www.slaafws.org

Sasa.org

Spotify:

https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennyredpill

Apple Podcasts:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confessions-of-a-co-dependent/id1680998955

If you'd like to contribute to Jenny's recovery from her accident, please cashApp $redpillrage

 #narc #narcabuse #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #bpd #nod #veterans #vets #ptsd emdr #therapy #therapyworks #12steps #12stepstorecovery #recovery #shadowwork #alanis #morrissette #alanismorrissette #robertgreene #48lawsofpower

This is just a little quick bonus episode. I’m not saying much just wanted to talk about having the courage to do things you’re scared of but also having the courage to walk away from things that don’t serve you. Hope you enjoy it.

21 Things I Want in a Lover - Song by Alanis Morissette

LyricsDo you derive joy when someone else succeeds?
Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition?
Do you have a big intellectual capacity
But know that it alone does not equate to wisdom?Do you see everything as an illusion
But enjoy it even though you are not of it?
Are you both masculine and feminine, politically aware?
And don't believe in capital punishment?These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I preferDo you derive joy from diving in and seeing that
Loving someone can actually feel like freedom?
Are you funny and self-depreciating, like adventure
And have many formed opinions?These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer
I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter
These are 21 things I choose to choose in a loverI'm in no hurry I could wait forever
I'm in no rush 'cause I like being solo
There are no worries and certainly no pressure in the meantime
In the meantime, I'll live like there's no tomorrowAre you uninhibited in bed, more than three times a week
Up for being experimental? Are you athletic?
Are you thriving in a job that helps your brother?
Are you not addicted?These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer
I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter
These are 21 things I choose to choose in a loverSource: MusixmatchSongwriters: Alanis Morissette21 Things I Want in a Lover lyrics © 1974 Music, Mca Music Publishing, A.d.o. Universal S

HOST JENNY E. allows you to get up close and personal inside her life, her heart and her messy vs. wise minds. With the hope of helping others heal, becoming aware of their codependence, and use real life tools for dramatic change. This is Jenny’s most personal podcast, politics-free, and a beacon of light to those still suffering from PTSD, narcissistic, sexual abuse, borderline personality, CPTSD, and codependence.

Please rate and comment! Let’s share the podcast and get as many souls into recovery as possible!

Vist:

⁠www.coda.org⁠

⁠www.slaafws.org

Sasa.org

Spotify:

https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennyredpill

Apple Podcasts:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confessions-of-a-co-dependent/id1680998955

If you'd like to contribute to Jenny's recovery from her accident, please cashApp: $redpillrage

 #narc #narcabuse #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #bpd #nod #veterans #vets #ptsd emdr #therapy #therapyworks #12steps #12stepstorecovery #recovery #shadowwork 

What plans did I have for my birthday and how did they change? How has working the steps allowed me to relinquish control and move on? What can we do as codependents to heal ourselves honor ourselves when others don't do so?

HOST JENNY E. allows you to get up close and personal inside her life, her heart and her messy vs. wise minds. With the hope of helping others heal, becoming aware of their codependence, and use real life tools for dramatic change. This is Jenny’s most personal podcast, politics-free, and a beacon of light to those still suffering from PTSD, narcissistic, sexual abuse, borderline personality, CPTSD, and codependence.

Please rate and comment! Let’s share the podcast and get as many souls into recovery as possible!

Vist:

⁠www.coda.org⁠

⁠www.slaafws.org

Spotify:

https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennyredpill

Apple Podcasts:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confessions-of-a-co-dependent/id1680998955

If you'd like to contribute to Jenny's recovery from her accident, please cashApp $redpillrage

 #narc #narcabuse #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #bpd #nod #veterans #vets #ptsd emdr #therapy #therapyworks #12steps #12stepstorecovery #recovery #shadowwork