Confetti and Cocktails

Today we are having a conversation with Ramon. He is a Engineer, entrepreneur, day trader, husband and so much more. He is the definition of what a highly successful person looks like. I thought it important to talk to him about what makes him tick? What makes him keep going and how does he get it all done? Developing the grit to keep going is not a easy task. Ramon gives us his principles on life and how to get it all started.

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Millennial women are now choosing to love on themselves and prioritize themselves, and not relationships and not everyone’s happy. I’ve chosen to prioritize myself, and not settle.

Every year it seems that we set goals and we never get it together but that’s OK because my new mantra is progress over perfection. I’m not looking to be perfect out the gate. I’m looking to build a discipline in order for me to achieve all the goals in which I set for myself I’m looking for me to create action plans for all of the things that I want in my life. Don’t let society Rush your process

Today’s episode, we’re going to talk about how we suppress ourselves to fit in society. The way that we talk the clothes that we buy the things that we say are often times not our own and only what is deemed acceptable by society how much of the things that you wanna do you haven’t done because you’re so afraid of what someone else is going to think about it? I talk about my struggle and wanting to be excepted by society and how I have suppressed myself in many ways because I don’t want to look crazy or I’m afraid that people are going to have an opinion about me and that I was taught that other peoples opinions of me is way more important than what I feel about myself.

I know the title sucks because often times we are our circumstances or so it feels however, our lives is our own and whatever it is that we want we can have we design how it’s gonna look what we’re gonna do what we’re gonna say and what we’re gonna be. It’s up to us to choose who we are and what we want and so design your life the way that you want it and don’t be mad at someone else for designing their life the way that they want it you’re either a dreamer or doer.

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I’m gonna say this once you can ask a man to respect you and then also ask him to feed you. You can’t continue to request someone to respect you, but at any chance for any amount of money you’re willing to disrespect yourself. If you want someone to respect you, you have to first respect yourself and then have your own shit. Often times I feel like my community keeps getting it wrong and begging to be taken care when we have all the tools to take care of our self.

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For some of us, our entire lives, we’ve been told that we are to put ourselves on the back burner in order to make others feel comfortable. I discuss here how I’ve decided to honor myself in doing the things I want to do, and choosing not to do the things that I do not want to do. learning to love yourself outside of the noise. You are just as important as everyone else and how you feel it’s just as important as how everyone else feels, and I’m here to say that we no longer need to stretch ourselves in ways that feel unnatural to us or do the things that we do not want to do. When others do not understand.

In life we aren’t given the tools to manage life. We aren’t taught how to manage stress or when things just don’t go away. It’s one of the things that you have to learn just by living life and how you want to cope with living an unpredictable life. We can’t always control what happens to us but we definitely can control how we respond to those things that do happen to us

From birth we are told what we should want and how we should live our lives. But I’m here to tell you that not everyone wants the ““ American dream. You get to live your life exactly the way you wanna live it

It’s funny how everybody is a guru on something. No one it seems today has the proper qualifications to give advice online but yet they do. I’m sick of it