How do you know if the trust you’re trying to rebuild with your teen is actually changing anything? What might your relationship look like on the other side of these difficult years?

In Part 1, my husband Ed shared one of the hardest conversations he had with our daughter and the communication choices he made when he realized something had to change. But rebuilding trust didn’t happen in that one conversation.

In Part 2, we’re taking you into what happened afterward—and some of the moments when we began realizing our relationships with our kids really were changing. They started telling us things we weren’t sure they would tell us. They began asking what we thought. And we learned that building trust with your teen isn’t about getting them to agree with you or even take your advice. It’s about creating a relationship where they know they can come to you.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

As parents, we can’t control what our kids believe, choose, or ultimately do. But we can stay anchored in Christ, listen with humility, and trust that God is at work even when we can’t see it yet. Sometimes building a stronger relationship with your teen begins by releasing the outcome and choosing how you want to show up in the next conversation.

What could begin to change if your teen knew they could tell you the truth—even when you might not like what they have to say?

💛 Join me for my FREE Connect With Your Teen Workshop Tuesday, September 15, where I’ll walk you through a practical, Christ-anchored roadmap to communicate with confidence, restore connection, and build lasting trust:

👉 connectwithyourteens.com/workshop

I pray this episode blesses you and your family.

~Terri

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💛 See What Happened Years Later With Ed & Sharaya

You heard Ed share the story on the podcast. Now you can see Ed and Sharaya sitting together years later, talking honestly about their relationship, what changed, and what they learned along the way.

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✨ Website: connectwithyourteens.com for free resources, practical support, and more ways to build connection and trust with your teen.

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What do you do when a difficult conversation with your teen is going downhill fast—and then they say something that cuts straight to your heart?

In this deeply personal episode, my husband Ed takes us back to one of the hardest conversations he ever had with our teenage daughter—when hurt, frustration, and years of strained communication collided. What he chose in the middle of that moment shows how a few intentional communication choices can open the door to connection—even when a conversation feels like it’s falling apart.

If you’re parenting teens and struggling with defensiveness, disrespect, or conversations that quickly escalate, this episode gives you a real-life look at how communication skills build trust and connection even in the middle of a messy conversation.

You’ll hear:

Ed couldn’t control what our daughter said, how she responded, or what happened next. But he could choose how he showed up. And sometimes building a stronger relationship with your teen begins right there.

Ready to stop walking on eggshells and second-guessing what to say?

Join me September 15 for my FREE live Connect With Your Teen Workshop. I’ll give you a practical, Christ-anchored roadmap to help you communicate with more confidence, restore connection, and build lasting trust.

👉 Save Your Seat: http://connectwithyourteens.com/workshop

I pray this episode blesses you and your family.

~Terri

💛 See What Happened Years Later With Ed & Sharaya

You heard Ed share the story on the podcast. Now you can see Ed and Sharaya sitting together years later, talking honestly about their relationship, what changed, and what they learned along the way.

👉https://riseabovethesilence.com/ed--sharaya-interview-2019

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✨ Support the Podcast

If Connect With Your Teens has been helpful to you, you can now support the podcast through Buy Me a Coffee. Your support helps with the costs of producing the show and reaching more moms with practical help and hope for their families. Thank you for being part of this work!

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✨ Want to work 1:1 with me?

Book a 1-hour Communication Coaching Call. Together, we’ll identify what’s getting in the way of connection with your teen, uncover practical next steps, and create a clear plan so you can stop feeling stuck and start rebuilding trust and connection.

👉Learn More: ConnectWithYourTeens.com/communication-coaching

✨ Website: connectwithyourteens.com for free resources, practical support, and more ways to build connection and trust with your teen.

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You’ve had the conversation. You’ve prayed. You’ve researched. You’ve tried to help. And still, your mind keeps coming back to: What else can I do? What am I missing?

When you see your teen struggling, making choices that concern you, pulling away from their faith, or heading in a direction you desperately wish you could change, it’s hard not to feel responsible for making things better. And without realizing it, loving and supporting them can start turning into trying to control an outcome you simply can’t control.

In this episode, I’m sharing something God has been showing me in my own life about the difference between being responsible TO someone and responsible FOR their outcome—and how that distinction can change the way you parent and communicate with your teen.

You’ll learn:

Trusting God with your teen doesn’t mean passive parenting. You still guide, set boundaries, seek wisdom, get help when it’s needed, and keep showing up. But you don’t have to believe that if you just say the right thing, find the right solution, or parent perfectly enough, you can guarantee the outcome. You can do what God has given you to do and trust Him with what you cannot control.

💛Want to know what you can begin doing differently to build more connection and trust with your teen?

Join me for my FREE live workshop, The Roadmap to a More Peaceful, Connected & Trusting Relationship With Your Teen.

👉Save your seat here: connectwithyourteens.com/workshop

I pray this episode blesses you and your family.

~Terri

✨ Visit connectwithyourteens.com for free resources, practical support, and more ways to build connection and trust with your teen.

✨ Support the Podcast

If Connect With Your Teens has been helpful to you, you can now support the podcast through Buy Me a Coffee. Your support helps with the costs of producing the show and reaching more moms with practical help and hope for their families. Thank you for being part of this work!

👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/connectwithyourteens

✨ Want to work 1:1 with me?

Book a 1-hour Communication Coaching Call. Together, we’ll identify what’s getting in the way of connection with your teen, uncover practical next steps, and create a clear plan so you can stop feeling stuck and start rebuilding trust and connection.

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You’ve spent years guiding your kids, so of course you want to share what you’ve learned when you see your teen struggling. But one of the challenges of parenting teens is realizing that as our kids grow, the way we guide them has to grow too.

Sometimes giving more advice—even really good advice—can make communication with teens harder instead of easier. And if distance or shutdown has already begun, learning a different way to guide can become an important part of rebuilding connection and learning how to build trust with your teen.

In this episode, I’m sharing four practical communication skills that can help you move from automatically giving advice to becoming someone your teen increasingly wants to come to for perspective.

You'll learn:

We don’t have to force every lesson or control every outcome. We can grow in wisdom about when to listen, when to speak, and when to trust that God is working in our teens, too.

I pray this episode blesses you and your family.

~Terri

✨Ready to build more peaceful conversations, stronger connection, and lasting trust with your teen?

Join me for my FREE Connect With Your Teens Workshop on September 15th or September 22nd. Choose the time that works best for you and save your spot at 

👉ConnectWithYourTeens.com/workshop.

✨ Support the Podcast

If Connect With Your Teens has been helpful to you, you can now support the podcast through Buy Me a Coffee. Your support helps with the costs of producing the show and reaching more moms with practical help and hope for their families. Thank you for being part of this work!

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💬 Not sure how to get your teen talking?

Download Quick-Start Connected Convos for simple ways to take some of the pressure out of conversations and create more opportunities for connection.

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Do you ever feel like you’d have a better relationship with your teen if you just had more time? Between work, school, sports, appointments, responsibilities, and everything else competing for your attention, it can feel almost impossible to create the kind of meaningful connection you want with your teen. But what if more time isn’t actually what you need?

In this episode, I’m talking with Sarah Colbert, host of Balanced Mom Life and mom of three teens, about how busy moms can build connection in the small moments they already have—without adding one more thing to their overflowing schedules.

You’ll discover:

And I love Sarah’s reminder that we don’t have to get every interaction right. We can continue showing up, planting seeds, and trusting God with what He’s doing in our teens and in our relationships—even when we can’t see the results yet. Listen in, and then share this episode with another busy mom who could use the reminder that building connection doesn’t require finding more hours in her day.

I pray this episode blesses you and your family.

~Terri

Connect with Sarah Colbert: 

Download Sarah’s free Time Audit to get an honest, judgment-free look at where your time is actually going. This simple, fillable worksheet will help you identify where you can create space for what matters most — including finding your way back to you.

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✨Want some practical help creating more connection and less tension with your teen?

🎉 My next Free Connect With Your Teen Workshop is September 15th! Details are coming soon. We’ll talk about practical, Christ-centered ways to communicate with more confidence, restore connection, and build lasting trust with your teen. Details are coming soon, and I can’t wait to see you there!

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Why does your teen get defensive when you’re only asking a simple question? You ask about homework, driving, friends, or plans—and suddenly your teen is pushing back or accusing you of not trusting them. If you’re parenting teens and wondering why everyday conversations turn into conflict so quickly, there may be more happening beneath the surface than you realize.

You’ll learn:

We’ll even go back to the Garden of Eden for a surprising look at defensiveness and the human heart, and I’ll share a parenting experience that changed how I understood some of my own kids’ reactions.

If you want to build trust, improve teen communication, and have more connected conversations, listen in.

Because sometimes the issue isn’t really the issue.

✨Are you ready to stop guessing what to say and start feeling more confident in the conversations that matter most?

My new website is live! You’ll find all the ways I can help you build stronger communication, trust, and connection with your teen—from private coaching and our monthly Support Group to the Connect With Your Teen Roadmap.

👉Explore your next step at connectwithyourteens.com

I pray this episode blesses you.

~Terri

✨ The Connect With Your Teens Roadmap - The step-by-step program that helps you navigate difficult conversations and create more emotional safety so you can build lasting trust and connection with your teen. You’ll learn a complete communication framework that gives you greater confidence in what to say and how to respond—not only with your teen, but in every relationship that matters.

Learn more and enroll here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/roadmap

✨ Want to work 1:1 with me?

Bring your biggest communication struggle to a 1-hour coaching call and leave with greater clarity, practical next steps, and a personalized plan to help you rebuild connection with your teen.

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You love your teen. So why does it sometimes feel like the harder you try to help, the farther apart you become?

Most moms don’t struggle because they don’t care enough.They struggle because the communication habit that feels the most loving can unintentionally create the very distance they’re trying to avoid.

In this episode, we’re uncovering one of the biggest reasons conversations break down—not because your intentions are wrong, but because your communication style may be sending a message you never meant to send.

You’ll walk away with a fresh way to think about your conversations, practical communication skills you can begin using today, and one simple shift that will help you and your teen experience more understanding, safety, and trust.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

As moms, God’s given us a unique opportunity to shape the kind of relationship our teens carry with them into adulthood. We won’t do it perfectly, but every conversation is an opportunity to reflect His grace, patience, and love helping our teens feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.

💛 Need a safe place to keep growing? 

If this season with your teen has left you feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or wondering where to even begin rebuilding your relationship, I want to invite you to our next Connect With Your Teens Support Group on August 11th..

My heart is for you to leave with more clarity than you came with. More hope than you walked in with. And practical next steps you can use the very next time you talk with your teen.

👉Save your seat at connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup. 

I hope this episode is a blessing to you and your family.

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✨ Want to work 1:1 with me?

If you’re feeling disconnected from your teen, this 1-hour coaching call will help you uncover what’s really creating the distance and give you Christ-centered communication tools to begin rebuilding connection. You’ll leave with greater clarity, practical next steps, and a personalized plan so you can move forward with confidence and hope.

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Every conversation with your teen starts before either of you says a word.

Most moms don’t realize what’s shaping those conversations—or why the same patterns keep repeating. If you’ve been trying to build connection and build trust, but still feel like you’re missing each other, there may be something happening long before the conversation even begins.

In this episode, you’ll discover a simple shift that can strengthen your communication skills, improve family communication, and deepen your relationship with your teen. It’s a perspective that can change the way you approach everyday teen communication this school year—before you ever say a word.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

As followers of Christ, we’re invited to see people the way God sees them—not defined by today’s struggles, but by who He is continuing to shape them into becoming. When we begin seeing our teens through that lens, our communication naturally becomes more grace-filled, hopeful, and life-giving.

What if one small shift in the way you see your teen could change the conversations you have all year long?

👉 Join us for our free monthly Connect With Your Teens Support Group, where you’ll find encouragement, practical coaching, and a community of moms who understand what you’re’re walking through. Reserve your spot at connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup.

I pray this episode blesses you!

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Have you been using the wrong scorecard to measure yourself as a mom?

Parenting teens is challenging and if you’ve ever wondered if you’re doing enough, you’re not alone. Building trust and connection during the teen years isn’t about getting every conversation right. Sometimes the greatest growth is happening in ways you can’t yet see.

In this episode, you’ll discover why your willingness to keep learning communication skills, seeking God’s wisdom, and showing up with love is one of the strongest signs you’re doing better than you think. If you’re looking for practical parenting tips to build connection, strengthen trust, and improve communication with your teen, encouragement is on the way so that you can see yourself—and your parenting—through God’s perspective instead of your own scorecard.

I pray this episode is a blessing to you and your family, reminding you that God is still at work in you—and that you’re doing far better than you think.

If you’d like personalized support as you navigate your unique situation, I’d be honored to walk alongside you through a one-on-one Communication Coaching Call. You can learn more and schedule your call at the link below. 

👉ConnectWithYourTeens.com/communication-coaching

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📖Need a place to start? 

Download my Building Connection Beyond Screen Time: A Quick Guide for Moms to help you build trust with your teen, strengthen communication, and create more meaningful everyday conversations.

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Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. 

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You love your teen and want the very best for them. So why do your conversations sometimes leave them feeling criticized, controlled, or misunderstood when your heart was trying to encourage, protect, and help?

Terri shares a powerful coaching story that reveals one of the biggest communication blind spots in parenting teens: the gap between our intentions and our teen’s experience and why they take what you say the wrong way. You’ll discover why your teen may react differently than you expect, how one simple perspective shift can strengthen communication with your teen, and a practical way to build trust with your teen while creating a deeper, lasting connection.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That isn’t what I meant,” this episode is for you.

I pray it's a blessing to you and your family!

✨Ready for personalized support?

If you find yourself replaying conversations, wondering what went wrong, or wishing you knew how to respond differently, I’d love to help. In a 1:1 Communication Coaching Call, we’ll identify what’s creating distance, strengthen your communication, and create a personalized plan to help you build lasting connection and trust with your child.

👉ConnectWithYourTeens.com/communication-coaching

💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box?

Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Insider Newsletter

🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? 

Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group

📖Need a place to start? 

Download my Building Connection Beyond Screen Time: A Quick Guide for Moms to help you build trust with your teen, strengthen communication, and create more meaningful everyday conversations.

👉https://connectwithyourteens.com/build-connection-screentime

💛 Interested in ongoing support? 

Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. 

Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup

🎧Would you like inspiring worship music to anchor you in your journey?

This is a collection of songs that have brought me peace and helped me anchor my heart in Christ. You can go straight to this link to get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b

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