In this expansive conversation with Dr. Kristin Allott, we explore how our modern world shapes our relationship to pleasure, attention, and our bodies — and what it takes to reclaim them.
We talk about how screens hijack dopamine, why boredom is essential for creativity, and how we can shift from being consumers of life to active creators of joy and meaning. Kristin also shares her holistic approach to health and well-being, blending neuroscience, naturopathic medicine, and a deep respect for the body.
Together, we dive into:
✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for so many women — and how to shift it into something regenerative and nourishing
✨ The science of dopamine and how our culture trains us to numb rather than replenish
✨ The difference between behavioral addictions and genuine pleasure
✨ Why boredom is actually the doorway to creativity and innovation
✨ The unique challenges mothers and caregivers face with rest, self-care, and connection
✨ Viewing your body as your most precious three-year-old — and treating it with care, love, and attention
✨ The role of community in supporting health, vitality, and pleasure
✨ Kristin’s practices for tracking fun and reconnecting to joy in daily life
✨ The power of sexual healing work with a therapist or coach to come home to your body
This episode weaves science, story, and sacred practice to remind us that our bodies are not broken — they’re wise, powerful, and waiting for us to return.
Resources & Links Mentioned:
- Learn more about Dr. Kristin Allott: kristinallott.com
- Kristin’s book: Fuel Your Brain, Not Your Anxiety (available in print, eBook, and Audible)
- Join her newsletter and groups via her website
- Meetup Q&A on body and mental health (search “Kristin Allott” on Meetup)
- Instagram: @kristenallott
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