What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion?

In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment.

In this episode, we explore:

1. The difference between love (the Great Mother) and compassion (the Goddess of Compassion)
2. Bringing compassion to shame, guilt, and grief around sexual dissatisfaction
3. Why orgasm doesn't have to be the goal
4. How compassion softens rigid boundaries and invites safety
5. Letting go of judgment to reclaim pleasure

This is an episode for anyone who's been too hard on themselves in their pleasure journey.

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In this powerful conversation, Jaclyn Orent—a cultural catalyst and frequency architect—shares how consciousness-level transformation creates lasting systemic change in business and beyond. Discover why pleasure and intrinsic motivation are essential for exponential growth, how peer communities fuel sustainable change, and what it really means to be a "cultural catalyst" in today's world.

This episode is for founders, visionaries, and change-makers ready to build something more alive, resonant, and revolutionary.

In this episode, we explore:

1. Why high-level founders won't pursue growth unless it's pleasurable
2. The difference between "push" (masculine force) and "pull" (feminine desire) in business
3. How consciousness shifts in a leader transform their entire system
4. The loneliness of leadership and why founders need actual peers
5. What resonant leadership really means: shared vision, compassion, and energy
6. Reframing eros as pure life force — not just sexual energy
7. The being vs. doing paradox: how to stop controlling and start surrendering
8. Why women especially struggle with control as a trauma response
9. What it means to identify as a "cultural catalyst" and why it starts the change process

This is a conversation for those ready to lead differently and scale consciously.

Connect with Jaclyn Orent

1. Masterclass 'The Science-Backed Secrets to Activate Your Highest Impact as a Cultural Catalyst Without Burning Out' - https://www.culturalcontribution.com/masterclass
2. Instagram: @jaclynorent
3. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kova.orent
4. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaclynorent/

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In this solo episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, Kayla explores what it truly means to receive in a culture that conditions women to over give and stay in control. Drawing from priestess wisdom, nervous system healing, and the Great Mother archetype, she shares how safety — not effort — is the foundation of pleasure and intimacy. Anchored in the liminal energy of Imbolc, this episode is an invitation to soften, release control, and remember the body’s innate capacity to be held. A grounding listen for anyone longing to reconnect with pleasure, presence, and embodied trust.

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What if pleasure isn’t just personal — but political, ethical, and communal?

In this expansive and soul-stirring conversation, Kayla is joined by Andrew Phipps for a wide-ranging dialogue that bridges pleasure, ethics, community, nervous system safety, power, and what it means to live a truly fulfilling life in a rapidly changing world.

Together, they explore how modern systems — from capitalism and politics to productivity culture and individualism — have shaped how disconnected we feel from our bodies, from one another, and from pleasure itself. This episode invites listeners to zoom out and ask bigger questions:

What are we actually working toward? Who does our success serve? And what would change if pleasure, ethics, and connection were central rather than peripheral?

Andrew offers a global perspective on ethics, politics, and climate responsibility, naming how short-term decision-making and insular thinking have created collective harm — while Kayla brings the conversation home to the body, the nervous system, intimacy, and the longing for community many of us feel in our daily lives.

Together, they imagine a future rooted in shared resources, communal care, ethical leadership, and pleasure as a measure of quality of life — not just productivity or profit.

This episode is an invitation to soften, to question, and to remember that pleasure isn’t indulgent — it’s connective. It’s how we attune to one another, find our people, and come back into right relationship with ourselves and the world.

1. Why ethics are largely absent from politics — and why that matters
2. How arbitrary systems and borders shape disconnection and inequality
3. The difference between longevity and quality of life
4. Pleasure as a shared, relational experience — not a solitary one
5. Why community, not individualism, is the antidote to burnout and despair
6. How comparison culture erodes fulfillment
7. The role of nervous system safety in intimacy and connection
8. Reimagining success through rest, connection, and shared care
9. Tuning into “frequency” — and how resonance creates belonging
10. Why pleasure may be the most radical blueprint for the future

This is a conversation for those who feel the old ways crumbling and sense something more humane, connected, and pleasurable trying to be born.

Connect with Andrew Phipps

1. Instagram: @theintimacyinquiry and @empathyunbound
2. Listen to The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast
3. Youtube: The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast
4. Listen to Empathy Unbound Podcast

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In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Jordin Wiggins —naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control clinician, and dominatrix-trained pleasure strategist—for a powerful, nuanced conversation about desire, power, and why so many successful women feel disconnected in their intimate lives.

Jordin works with women who have done “everything right” on paper—careers, families, achievements—yet feel numb, exhausted, and unseen in their relationships. Together, we explore the concept of “super traits”: extreme empathy, loyalty, forgiveness, and over-functioning, traits that often lead women into relational dynamics where desire disappears and intimacy becomes extractive rather than nourishing.

We unpack why traditional therapy and common relationship advice often fails women with super traits, how power imbalances go unaddressed in patriarchal models of intimacy, and why pleasure is not the reward for healing—but the reset that makes real connection possible.

This conversation also dives into:

1. How over-functioning and under-functioning dynamics erode desire and safety
2. Why scheduling sex, “just setting boundaries,” or trying harder often backfires
3. The role of sexual coercion and invisible power contracts in long-term relationships
4. How patriarchy harms everyone—including men—and why more men are now seeking this work
5. Pleasure as a nervous system capacity, not a performance
6. The importance of learning to tolerate sensation—both pleasure and pain
7. Feminine and masculine energy, safety, and the ability to truly receive
8. What BDSM teaches us about consent, power, desire, and embodied choice

Jordin shares how her own journey—from chronic health issues and a sexless marriage to pleasure-centered healing—led her to integrate functional medicine, trauma awareness, and embodied power work into a method that helps women move from survival-based intimacy into true receiving.

This episode is an invitation to question the stories you’ve been told about love, sex, and responsibility—and to remember that desire must be freely chosen, not managed, negotiated, or earned.

Pleasure is not indulgent.

It is information.

And it is a pathway home.

Connect with Dr. Jordin Wiggins

1. Instagram: @drjordinwiggins
2. Take the Super Traits Quiz
3. Listen to The Pleasure Principles Podcast

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In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging.

We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life, nature immersion, and embodiment practices, and why outdoor boudoir is about so much more than taking photos. What’s being offered is an experience—an invitation to slow down, shed shame, and remember what it feels like to belong in your body and on the earth.

Wren shares her powerful perspective on boudoir as fluorescence—the unfurling of a human being willing to be seen. We talk about shame as the instinct to close back into the bud, and pleasure as the courage to open, soften, and take up space. Together, we unpack how body image, motherhood, trauma, and cultural conditioning disconnect us from our sensuality—and how play, nature, and sensation help restore it.

This conversation also dives into:

1. Why embodiment and pleasure are birthrights—not reserved for “perfect” bodies
2. How nature mirrors our own “imperfections” as stories of resilience and becoming
3. The reclamation and bravery involved in being nude in wild spaces
4. Holding consent, safety, and boundaries during outdoor erotic art sessions
5. Group shoots, feminine friendship, and the healing power of shared experience
6. Men, shame, vulnerability, and the complexities of holding erotic space across genders
7. Navigating power dynamics, safety, and tenderness with integrity

We close with reflections on the divine feminine and masculine, the harm patriarchy has caused everyone, and the importance of moving toward a future rooted in embodiment, pleasure, responsibility, and collective healing.

This episode is an invitation to soften, unfurl, and remember:

Your body is not wrong.

Your scars are stories.

And pleasure begins with presence.

Connect with Wren Morrow:

1. Website: https://www.wrenmorrow.com/
2. Social Media: @_wrenmorrow

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In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure.

We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetrative sex alone is rarely enough for most women. Eve breaks down female arousal, the importance of time, blood flow, and clitoral stimulation, and why pleasure is something that can be learned, expanded, and reclaimed.

We also talk about Big Clit Energy — the confidence and vitality that comes from knowing your body and owning your desire — and how closing the orgasm gap benefits everyone, not just women.

This episode is educational, affirming, and deeply empowering for anyone ready to stop settling and start experiencing pleasure as a vital part of wellbeing.

Connect with Eve Hall:

1. Website: https://pleaseme.online
2. Contact Page and Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/get-in-touch/
3. Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com
4. Patreon (Ad-Free & Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast
5. Shameless Care: https://shamelesscare.com/

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In this episode, I begin by pausing.

Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective.

I speak honestly about what it’s been like to witness this moment as a former therapist and as someone stepping more fully onto the priestess path. I share why I am moving away from the medicalized lens of diagnosis — not because suffering isn’t real, but because so much of what people are experiencing is a natural response to living in a world that does not support human life, rest, connection, creativity, or safety.

In this reflection, I explore:

1. Why anxiety, depression, burnout, and numbness are often symptoms of systemic failure — not individual brokenness
2. What it means to hold collective grief and rage without collapsing into hopelessness
3. The priestess role of holding duality: honoring the collapse of old structures while still tending the vision of what comes next
4. Why feeling our feelings fully is not indulgent — it’s essential
5. How rage and grief can be alchemized into clarity, courage, and creative power

I talk about the necessity of fierce love — love that is tender and boundaried, compassionate and unwilling to accept what is dehumanizing. I reflect on the fear that comes with imagining an entirely different way of living, and why change will not come all at once, but through sustained courage, heart, and collective imagination.

This episode is also a reminder of why I created this podcast in the first place: to help seed new blueprints for how we live, love, heal, relate to money, steward technology, and care for the earth and one another. The change we are longing for does not come from outside authority — it comes from within us, and then between us.

Toward the end of the episode, I share about my upcoming eight-week beta course Sacred Desire, and why I believe reclaiming desire, pleasure, and embodied truth is deeply radical work in times like these. I speak to how women reconnecting with their desire, boundaries, and inner fire is not escapism — it is world-changing.

Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here!

Inside Sacred Desire, we focus on:

1. Reclaiming your relationship to sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure
2. Understanding the barriers that have disconnected you from your desire
3. Healing in community rather than isolation
4. Rising together, supported and witnessed

If you feel a pull toward this work, I invite you to join the waitlist. When you do, you’ll receive:

1. My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure
2. A FREE 45-minute Desire Discovery Call with me
3. Space to discern, without pressure, whether this container is right for you

Above all, this episode is an offering of presence. A reminder that you are not alone, that your feelings make sense, and that even in the heaviness, something new is trying to be born.

Hold your grief.

Honor your rage.

Do not abandon hope.

We are still creating what comes next — together.

Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here! The course begins January 21st, 2026.

If you cannot make this round AND want to be on the waitlist for future launches of this course, please also join the waitlist and we can begin your reclamation journey through a free desire discovery call and being in my newsletter community before future launches.

Please send this to a friend that you think may benefit from this work as well. I am so grateful to anyone that is spreading the word about this sacred work and helping those that are ready step into the divine fire and collective love and liberation.

In this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us.

I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing, desire, and pleasure into spiritual remembrance. I talk about how patriarchy didn’t just distort the masculine — it violently erased the feminine, forcing all of us into hyper-masculine survival modes that were never meant to sustain us.

In this episode, I unpack:

1. What the Sacred Feminine and Divine Masculine actually are as energetic archetypes
2. How patriarchy fractured both, leading to domination, hyper-vigilance, burnout, and disconnection
3. Why reclaiming the Sacred Feminine is the first step toward true balance and healing
4. How pleasure, rest, intuition, and embodiment are foundational to feminine remembrance
5. What it would mean for the masculine to hold safety, integrity, and sacred containment rather than control

I reflect on how women have been forced to lead from trauma and over-functioning, and how healing the feminine allows us to soften, receive, and create from truth rather than survival. I also speak to the grief, anger, and rage many women carry — and why those emotions must be honored rather than bypassed as part of this reclamation.

This episode is also deeply connected to the current energetic moment. I speak about the new moon in Sagittarius, the winter solstice, and the womb-space of the dark — a zero point where death and rebirth meet. This is a time of reflection, rest, and conscious birthing, not pushing or proving.

I share my long-term vision for this work: beginning with healing the Sacred Feminine through sexuality, desire, and pleasure, and eventually moving toward Sacred Union work — where both partners are supported in embodying healed feminine and masculine energies together, free from patriarchal scripts.

I also talk about why community and sisterhood are essential in this process, and why healing the feminine must happen collectively, not in isolation. This is why my work continues to center women gathering together — witnessing, resourcing, and remembering side by side.

At the end of the episode, I share an update about the upcoming beta launch of my newly renamed course Sacred Desire (formerly Not Broken). This foundational container is a death-rebirth journey designed to help women shed shame, reconnect to their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and remember who they are beneath conditioning. I explain how joining the waitlist includes:

1. My Sacred Body Workbook
2. A free call with me to explore your personal barriers to desire
3. A gentle, no-pressure entry into the circle

This work feels essential to birthing a new world — one rooted in embodiment, pleasure, reverence, and truth. I believe this remembering is not optional anymore. It’s the foundation of what comes next.

I’ll see you in the new year, beloveds.

If you’re feeling called Join Sacred Desire starting on January 21st, 2026

1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course

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In this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner, a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine.

We explore spinal energetics—how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intuition, and open us to guidance from our ancestors and spirit allies. Tiffany shares how group work, couples sessions, and ancestral healing ripple out to transform families and communities.

We also talk about collective shifts and intuitive downloads happening right now—how gratitude, connection, and reciprocity are reshaping the way we show up for ourselves and each other. Plus, we dive into Celtic goddess guidance, warrior energy, and star-beings, and what it means to remember our power while moving toward love, softness, and leadership.

This episode is full of wisdom, activation, and inspiration for anyone ready to reclaim their body, their intuition, and their inner strength.

Connect with Tiffanie Miner:

• Website: https://rootedrevivalholistics.com/
• Sign up for Tiffanie's December Energetic Detox
• Dive in and Check Out Tiffanie's Bringing Yourself Home -Nervous System Healing package
• See Tiffanie in action and follow her on Instagram: @intentiallyrootedinhealing

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

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