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  • Pathway to Empowerment: Sensei Sheryn Gung
    • How do we increase our happiness and connection through Marital Arts?
    • As women, are we really victims?
    • And how can we help our young girls to stay safe?
    • Today on Connectedly, we are talking to Sensei Sheryn Gung a martial artist, oriental health practitioner, spiritual coach, mother, writer and presenter. Sheryn has studied with some of the world’s most renowned masters in her disciplines; her experience spans three decades in the martial arts and over two decades in the health and well-being field. Her mission is to empower, educate and inspire with the wisdom of traditional oriental martial and healing arts, and self-defence.

      I would love to invite you to please share this podcast with one woman who you think needs a little extra happiness in their life.  As my daughter says, sharing's caring.

      What We Discuss:

      00:00 Introduction

      01:55 The Role of Martial Arts in Personal Development

      03:27 The Power of Vocalisation

      04:42 A Transformation Journey through Martial Arts

      06:49 The Psychological Aspects of Self Defence

      13:55 The Balance of Feminine and Masculine in Martial Arts

      21:07 Introducing Soul Warrior: A New Program

      22:18 A Holistic Approach to Women's Happiness

      22:38 The Concept of Taoism and Effortless Effort

      23:00 The Principle of Wu Wei and its Application in Life

      25:21 Personal Rituals for Greater Connection

      25:38 The Struggle and Recovery from Postnatal Depression

      26:38 The Challenge of Losing Self-Identity in Motherhood

      28:21 Technology, Distraction and Lack of Awareness

      29:08 The Role of Awareness in Self Defence and Martial Arts

      29:30 The Dangers of Technology Distraction in Public Spaces

      31:54 The Struggle of Balancing Motherhood and Personal Needs

      33:41 Preventing Victimhood

      37:33 The Role of Martial Arts in Empowering Women and Girls

      38:16 The Importance of Assertiveness and Confidence in Children

      42:38 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

       

      Here's the takeaways:

      • Martial Arts is focused on internal as well as external.  You can learn how to gain a greater sense of self and happiness.
      •  Balance feminine and masculine in your workouts, work and life to increase your connection to self and your happiness
      •  Stay safe with awareness: Put your phone down, headphones off, be aware of your space. Listen to the noises around you. Stay aware and present.
      •  Victimhood comes from mindset.  Learn to reside in a place of power instead of victim and own your power.
      •  Keep our kids safe: Help them to understand their own power. They can enrol in Karate from young age.
      • Show Links:

        Website: www.SherynGung.com.au

        Free Warrior Woman Activation Audio: https://sheryngung.com.au/free-gift/

        Instagram: @senseisheryn

        Thanks again for being here with us.  Until next week,

        Take care. Nicole.  

        45 min
      • The Power of Consciousness with Gayatri Anderson

        If you ever wanted to learn more about consciousness and it’s relationship to happiness, if you have ever wondered why you were happy when you walked into a room, but left feeling anxious without any obvious reasons…

        Or if you want to learn about how energy impacts your emotions. AND is our consciousness held in our energy body?!

        THEN today is for you!

        Today's guest is Gayatri Anderson, whose passion is bridging the scientific and mystical understanding of human consciousness and how to uplift it. Her project The Consciousness Connection weaves scientific research with accessible, non-denominational spiritual tools to help people activate their consciousness and light up their lives. 

        Apart from her work with The Consciousness Connection, Gayatri is currently completing her PhD on the psychology of unconditional love at Leeds Beckett University. She sees clients one-on-one and works as a mindset and leadership consultant specialising in consciousness science. 

        Join us as we talk all things happiness, connection, consciousness and energy.

        What We Discuss:

        00:00 Introduction to Consciousness and Energy

        00:40 Welcome

        03:19 Gayatri's Background and Childhood Experiences

        10:07 Exploring Spirituality and Its Personal Interpretations

        13:41 Understanding Consciousness and Its Connection to Everything

        20:14 The Consciousness Connection: Bridging Science and Spirituality

        21:32 Understanding Energy Body and Its Impact on Our Lives

        27:03 Realising Our Inner Power and Capacity

        28:13 Defining Happiness and Its Connection to Consciousness

        29:36 The Pursuit of Happiness and Consciousness

        30:18 The Power of Self Compassion

        32:07 Practical Tips for Practicing Self Compassion

        33:48 Accessing Consciousness through Chakra Meditations

        37:29 Current Projects and Passions

        41:56 The Power of Metaphor and Visualisation

        42:00 Meditation - Moving Beyond Anger

        49:48 Quick Fire Round

        53:08 Takeaways

        Here’s the takeaways:

        • Spirituality doesn't need dogma or strict rules; it's about finding a personal interpretation of spirituality that resonates with you, its an inner experience.
        • Consciousness does not solely arise from the physical brain and is not limited to the brain but encompasses various aspects of our being, including the energy body, spirit, and soul.
        • Be your best friend: Treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion you would offer a friend in challenging situations. This can be a powerful tool for shifting your mindset and nurturing your well-being.
        • Simple chakra-based meditations can be an accessible entry point for anyone, even beginners, to begin exploring their consciousness. These practices can enhance self-awareness and provide valuable insights into finding harmony and peace.
        • Show Links:

          The Consciousness Connection - https://shaktidurga.com/pathways/the-consciousness-connection/

          Gayatri on IG: https://www.instagram.com/gayatrik108/

          Gayatri's Song 'Happy For No Reason' - https://open.spotify.com/track/2B9qBopaideVVQxgrfICUH?si=9e5f6aeaeb4f4ae8

          Don’t forget to join our growing community of women who are tired of chasing unrealistic happiness goals in the WOMEN’S HAPPINESS MOVEMENT.

          Until next week, So much love to you.

          Remember, you are worthy. You are loved.

          Nicole.

          55 min
        • Happy Bites: Beyond Pleasure + Meditation

          In this episode, I share a fresh perspective on understanding happiness. Contrary to the common belief that happiness is obtained by acquiring possessions or status, I want to look at the concept that true happiness is not external but resides within us and is not dependent on external influences. Plus some practical tips on how to maintain happiness including an 8 min guided meditation aimed at finding internal stillness and peace, encouraging transformation and self-awareness.

          What We Discuss:

          00:00 Introduction

          01:30 Understanding Happiness

          01:54 The Illusion of External Happiness

          02:51 The Concept of Internal Happiness

          03:22 The Power of Perception

          04:09 The Nature of Our Being

          05:20 The Wizard of Oz

          06:14 The Shift from External to Internal Happiness

          10:04 The B List: Strategies for Internal Happiness

          13:41 Guided Meditation for Going Within

          20:57 Conclusion and Support Resources

          Takeaways:

          Happiness the emotion is fleeting and isn’t sustainable. Find a deeper more stable sense of peace and happiness, by going beyond the mind. It’s not an easy task, but as we practice, we can begin to see we are much more than just our thoughts.

          The 'B' list - Switch into a more aware state by following the B list - Be grateful, Be within, Be of service, Be a constant student, Be open, Be one with the world, and Be still.

          Show Links:

          Website - www.Connectedly.com.au

          Idea Workshop - https://www.connectedly.com.au/start-up-your-launch

          Thanks so much for joining me today.

          Lots of love, Nicole.

          x

          23 min
        • Mum Guilt & Happiness Gamification: Shannah Kennedy

          Are you looking for ways to overcome Mum guilt?

          Do you need a little refresher on how to increase your happiness and get off that mouse wheel to start choosing a better life,

          It’s time to listen in as we talk to Shannah Kennedy!

          But before we do, if have a new business that aims to better this world, join our coaching for conscious businesses - https://www.connectedly.com.au/light-up-your-launch 

          Shannah Kennedy has forged an enviable career as an author and life strategist having coached elite athletes CEOs, entrepreneurs and high performers who want to avoid burnout. She also coaches any one who wants to focus on their life plan and who wants to learn, grow and evolve with clarity, purpose and direction.

          Takeaways:

          - Invest in your happiness with intentional living- 50% of happiness I genetic, you are either half full or half empty. 10% of our happiness is external objects and pleasures, the 40% is your rhythm, your routines, and your rituals. Invest in that 40% with intentional living, focusing on what you love. because we have total control over it

          - Breathing 3 times - take your brain from stressed out fight or flight back to calmness with 3 deep diaphragmatic breathes, deep into the belly. Every time you go to the bathroom, eery time you check your phone, in the car, doing the dishes.

          - Gamification with your mind - play mind games throughout your day to create happiness. Find the opportunity to flip the script on the usual narrative eg unstacking the dishwasher, using the mind to find joy in that rather than seeing the negative. Doing the laundry, enjoy the peace in that moment. Find the good in everything.  See it as a game to see how you can flip it into happiness.

          - Mum guilt is just a story we tell ourselves - Mum guilt is something we have made up. Instead of choosing guilt, focus on how you show up for them. How do they see you? Are you healthy? Happy? Calm? Centred? Focus on how your kids see you… a confident, calm, happy woman who knows how look after her own health by going to the gym and eating well and taking time with her friends.

          - Prompters. Use prompters around the house to remind your mind to think positively and toward healthier affirmations and goals. Almost like a map for your brain so it knows where to go. Lead it toward joy and more positive thinking.

          What we discuss:

          00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles

          00:41 Welcome

          02:05 Intro with Shannah Kennedy

          03:23 Authenticity and Comparisonsitis

          04:52 The Importance of Having a Coach

          06:49 Shannah's Personal Journey from burnout....

          09:26 The Importance of Self-Awareness

          00:28 Understanding Happiness

          13:25 Happiness Pie Chart

          17:15 Gamification with the mind

          24:20 Dealing with Unhappiness

          26:56 The Role of Connection in Happiness

          27:27 Finding Personal Connection and Understanding Introversion

          28:48 Addressing Mum Guilt and Self-Care

          29:12 The Importance of Being a Role Model

          32:54 Overcoming Time Constraints and Prioritising Self

          33:59 Who are you without your job? Self-Identity

          35:00 Legs up the wall

          41:43 The Power of Vision Boards and Mindfulness

          47:21 Quick Fire Round

          52:36 Takeaways

           

          Show Links:

          Shannah Kennedy Website - https://shannahkennedy.com/ 

          Shannah on IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannahkennedy/?hl=en

          Elevate Book - HERE

           

          Take care, and remember,

          You are loved and you are worthy.

          Nicole. x

          54 min
        • Rebellion Through Connection with Parvati

          Have you ever felt overwhelmed by societal expectations and the pressures of motherhood?

          Are you ready to break free from societal norms to rediscover the true essence of womanhood, connection, and self?

          Join us today as we embark on a journey of rebellion through connection, exploring the multifaceted world of motherhood and womanhood. Plus a 5 minute healing journey led by Parvati!

          Parvati, a wise healer and guide, shares insights on letting go of perfection, composting the patriarchy, and forging authentic connections. Together, we celebrate the beauty of imperfection and the power of community. Tune in to discover how you can embrace your true self and create positive change in your life and the world around you.

          Join the Happiness Club: facebook.com/groups/womenshappinessmovement

          Here’s the takeaways: 

          1. Rebellion Through Connection: Women can rebel against societal norms by connecting with each other and supporting one another in their unique journeys through motherhood and life.
          2. Let Go of Perfection: It's important to release the pressure of trying to be the "perfect" mother, wife, or woman. Embracing imperfections and acknowledging that we are whole beings with strengths and weaknesses is crucial for self-acceptance.
          3. Composting the Patriarchy: Instead of using old, oppressive tools, focus on creating change through nurturing and sustainable practices. By crowding out unhealthy norms and replacing them with the divine feminine and sacred masculine, we can contribute to a more balanced world.
          4. Connect with Authenticity: Forge genuine connections by being authentic, kind, and respectful. Supportive communities are vital for navigating the challenges of motherhood and life.
          5. Embrace Your Multifaceted Self: Acknowledge that being a woman involves a range of experiences, emotions, and roles. By embracing our complexities, we empower ourselves and each other.
          6. Thanks for joining us today. All my love, Nicole Sharanam.

            What we discuss:

            [00:02:00] Evolution of Purpose

            [00:04:00] Healing and Authenticity

            [00:09:00] Transformation through Healing

            [00:13:00] Recognising the Call

            [17:00] Living in Connection

            [23:00] The Power of Breath and Connection

            [28:00] Kindness and Accountability in the Journey

            [35:00] The Power of Constant Transformation 

            [36:00] The Significance of Connection in Transformation

            [37:00] Harmonious Cultures vs. Modern Productivity

            [42:00] Rebelling Against Societal Norms

            [44:50] 5 minute Meditation to connection + letting go of perfection

            [52:00] Letting Go of Perfection in Parenting

            [53:00] One actionable tip to happiness

            [54:00] Quick Fire Questions Episode

            [56:00] Takeaways

            Resources:

            Parvati Email - [email protected]

            Parvati Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sioux.burns

            Please subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.

            Join the Women’s Happiness Club: facebook.com/groups/womenshappinessmovement

            Other Links:

            connectedly.com.au

            instagram.com/nicolesharanam

            facebook.com/nicolesharanam

            1 hr
          7. Beyond Trauma + Paws for Happiness with Dr Rebecca Ray

            Are you tired of chasing fleeting happiness?

            Want to learn how to set stronger boundaries?

            How can man's best friend help us move beyond trauma?

            Today I sit down with Dr Rebecca Ray, a clinical psychologist and one of Australia’s most in-demand and authoritative voices in the personal development space. An author, speaker and frequent Today show guest, Rebecca helps big-picture-thinking people master their psychology. Over the course of two decades, she has encouraged thousands of humans making an impact on the world to live a life that's fulfilling, unapologetic, and free.

            Join the Women’s Happiness Club: facebook.com/groups/womenshappinessmovement

            Here’s the takeaways:

            1. Happiness is a Transient Emotion It comes and goes in moments, and it's not something to be constantly pursued or chased.

            2. Place emphasis on Meaning and Unconditional Love: Find meaning in your life through your values, relationships, and creative pursuits and unconditional love.

            3. Boundaries & Self Care Be discerning about where your energy goes, where your time, where your attention and your care goes. Lead with intention on a daily basis - ask yourself…Did I sleep well last night? Have I had breakfast this morning? Am I nourished? And therefore, what do I have available for this day? Do I have availability for something outside the kids today?

            4. Embrace Grief and Allow Yourself to Feel: When facing significant loss, whether it's a relationship, a job, or a beloved pet, it's crucial to allow yourself to grieve. This process is essential for honouring the emotions ensuring you don’t sweep things under the rug.

            5. Create Space for the Unknown: Sit with uncertainty and don’t rush into finding the next step. Allowing spaciousness. Boredom even. It can lead to new opportunities and perspectives that may not have emerged otherwise.

            All my love, Nicole Sharanam.

            What we discuss:

            [00:05:00] Pursuing Meaning

            [00:10:00] The impact of unconditional love

            [00:13:00] Transformative Connections

            [00:17:00] Balancing Motherhood & Self-care

            [00:28:00] Boundaries & Personal Capacity

            [00:35:00] What Dogs can teach us

            [00:42:00] Coping with Anxiety

            [00:47:00] Finding Happiness & Meaning After Loss

            [00:52:00] Getting Comfortable with Discomfort

            [00:55:00] The Takeaways

            Episode Resources:

            Dr Rebecca Ray Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrebeccaray/

            Dr Rebecca Ray Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drrebeccaray/

            Book - Setting Boundaries - https://www.panmacmillan.com.au /9781760982423/

            Please subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.

            Join the Women’s Happiness Club: facebook.com/groups/womenshappinessmovement

            Other Links:

            connectedly.com.au

            instagram.com/nicolesharanam

            facebook.com/nicolesharanam

            59 min
          8. Is happiness a lie?! Nicole Sharanam

            Is all we've been taught about happiness a lie? 

            Do you feel like there is more to walking this path of happiness?

            If you are seeking something more in this life, more connection, more happiness, this is the show!

            Today we talk about the importance of sustainable happiness in this world and how connection plays a vital part in this innate happiness.  Plus a few tales from the Story Book of Nicole.

            In this episode, you'll learn:

            • How Nicole lost her happiness
            • Who is Nicole Sharanam (or shall we call her Nicole Dickmann?!)
            • Various meanings of CONNECTION and how it impacts us
            • Have we built a cake with an empty middle?
            • What is to come in the future of Connectedly
            • We have so much ground to cover and every minute of it is going to be delicious! It's wonderful to have you with us.

              With so much love and gratitude,

              Nicole Sharanam,

              What We Discuss:

              • 00:00 Intro
              • 01:16 The heart of the show - The Why?
              • 04:02 The Kitchen Crumble - Falling from happiness and the dark night of the soul
              • 7:26 The Cake Analogy
              • 10:11 Who is Nicole Sharanam (or should we call her Nicole Dickmann?)
              • 11:49 Confessions from a Big Brother Intruder
              • 13:06 Happiness a lie?
              • 15:54 India vs Australia - The hectic calm
              • 17:33 How I lost my body in Vipassana meditation - energy highway 
              • 21:54 What does connection mean?
              • 26:00 How to find happiness? That is the story!
              • 28:00 The Happiness club - Women's Happiness Movement
              • Join the women's happiness club-  https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenshappinessmovement

                Ask a question here - www.connectedly.com.au

                Connect https://www.facebook.com/nicolesharanam

                 

                30 min
              • Episode 0 - Welcome to Connectedly! Trailer

                If you are ready to find your way to more happiness, peace and freedom from the things that pin us down; the anxiety, the fear, the expectations and the never ending To Do list...Then join us on Connectedly.

                We are a community of women eager to move toward more peace and happiness through wholehearted living and an exploration into connection.  If you feel ready to light up your life and the world with more happiness, then come and join us on Connectedly as we explore the ancient wisdom of Self through a modern lens. 

                Thanks for joining us!

                Don’t forget to join us in the private group:

                facebook.com/groups/womenshappinessmovement

                 

                Other Links:

                connectedly.com.au

                instagram.com/nicolesharanam

                facebook.com/nicolesharanam

                 

                 

                3 min

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              If you are ready to find your way to more happiness, peace and freedom from the things that pin us down; the anxiety, the fear, the expectations and the never ending To Do list...Then join us on Connectedly.