Connecting U Podcast

Connecting U Podcast

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  • Understanding Anxiety in Kids and Teenagers

    Connecting U: Anxiety Series


    Season 2 of the Connecting U Podcast focuses on anxiety. Mayra and Emily dive into relatable stories and advice for those struggling with anxiety.


    Summary:

    You might not understand why your child or teen is anxious, but that doesn’t mean their anxiety is not real.

    Join Emily and the first Connecting U Guest, Danielle Flint, as they discuss what anxiety looks like in children and teenagers. Danielle is a licensed therapist at Remain Connected Counseling.


    Anxiety makes us overestimate how bad something is going to be, and underestimate our ability to deal with it. Kids and teens can feel the same anxiety in terms of fear, feeling stuck, and tension in the body.


    Parent become disconnected from their kids when they forget what their ‘firsts’ felt like, and how daunting and new every challenge can seem. Anxiety in kids and teens can look like defiance, fear, laziness, and being distracted. Teenagers are in their ‘end-of-the-world’ years, and they can feel like setbacks and failures are permanent.

    How a parent responds to anxiety can shape the child's perspective on anxiety management. Parents can try stepping back and thinking, ‘How do I wish somebody responded to me when I was feeling anxious as a kid?”


    Key Takeaways:

    1. Let your kids be on the growing-edge of their capabilities and develop skills incrementally.
    2. Allow your kids to face anxiety in small doses and gain confidence over time.
    3. Parents need to balance healthy boundaries with love and warmth.
    4. Your kids are going to be okay, and you’re going to be okay.

    5. Tune in to Season 2: Anxiety of Connecting U for insightful discussions and practical advice on grounding yourself in self-awareness and surrender.

      Every episode ends with a Bible verse and prayer for our listeners. Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

      32 min
    6. Are You Avoiding Death or Seeking Life?

      Connecting U: Anxiety Series


      Season 2 is of the Connecting U Podcast focuses on anxiety. Mayra and Emily dive into relatable stories and advice for those struggling with anxiety.


      Summary:

      Anxiety feels like a bear is constantly chasing you through the forest. Even in low-stakes situations, people with high anxiety tend to engage in negative self-talk and live in a fearful state of mind.


      Anxiety often looks like an obsession with control, as a way to create the pretense of safety. Be kind to yourself by acknowledging your fear, and try to release control in uncontrollable situations. Do one small thing you CAN control (that does not harm you), like painting your nails. Doing an activity excessively means you are probably trying to avoid restlessness and unease.

      Peace is trusting that you will be okay when hard things happen. You can either live by avoiding death or seeking life.


      Key Takeaways:

      1. Learn where you are holding anxiety in your body.
      2. Find coping mechanisms to release small amounts of anxiety in a healthy way.
      3. Look for ways to make anxiety your ally.
      4. If you are constantly worried or fearful, it is time to seek professional help.

      5. Tune in to Season 2: Anxiety of Connecting U for insightful discussions and practical advice on grounding yourself in self-awareness and surrender.

        Every episode ends with a Bible verse and prayer for our listeners. Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

        31 min
      6. Why Does Anxiety Feel Like Being Attacked?

        Connecting U: Anxiety Series


        Season 2 is of the Connecting U Podcast is the Anxiety series. Mayra and Emily dive into relatable stories and advice for those struggling with anxiety.


        Summary:

        Anxiety feels like a bear is constantly chasing you through the forest, where every-day moments start to feel high-stakes. It can feel like you are having a heart attack. Gen Z will try to control the physical symptoms of anxiety with cold brews and energy drinks, also known as “anxiety juice.”


        The reaction to control is often a way to seek safety and soothe anxiety. Anxiety is often triggered in situations where we can’t control our surroundings, such as the grocery store, postpartum anxiety, and even walking your dog!

        Anxiety can look different in men vs. women. Men often don’t realize they have anxiety or depression, and it comes out in anger and irritability. Women tend to have panic attacks or shut down.


        You cannot heal from something you are not aware of, and counseling makes you aware. Most people go to counseling after they have had a panic attack, but it doesn’t have to get that far before you seek help.


        Key Takeaways:

          1. Make anxiety your ally. It's important to find a way to befriend your negative emotions. They are trying to warn you that something is off. 

          2. Shock your system when you start to feel anxiety. Go outside, put ice on your forehead, or any action that can shock you into being in the present.

          3. Shifting your mindset. Stop trying to control others and the situation. Show up as you, and know that you are good enough to be loved. If a situation doesn’t go your way, it wasn’t for you.

          4. Tune in to Season 2: Anxiety of Connecting U for insightful discussions and practical advice on grounding yourself in self-awareness and surrender.

            Every episode ends with a Bible verse and prayer for our listeners. Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

            32 min
          5. Finding Peace During Grief

            Connecting U: To Peace

            Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate.
            Mayra spoke at the UGA Wesley Foundation on the topic of cultivating peace in your life. Grief during her mother’s passing left her questioning how to invite peace back into her life. She discusses how questioning “Why?” something happened will never heal your pain. Mayra advises on how to pray with a heart of thanksgiving during hard times, as well as journaling your history with God. The peace of God will guard your hearts and your minds.


            Stay tuned for Season 2, where we dive into anxiety at different life stages.

            Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

            23 min
          6. *Bonus* Love Is Blind Reactions, Part 2

            Connecting U: To Healthy Relationships (Bonus: Love Is Blind, Part 2)

            Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate.

            In this final bonus episode of the Healthy Relationships series, we delve into the relationship dynamics behind the reality show on Netflix: Love Is Blind.


            Summary:

            We explore the intricacies of relationships using Netflix's "Love is Blind" as a backdrop. We open by discussing how unresolved feelings of being unloved or misunderstood lead to relationship conflicts, illustrated by Chelsea and Jimmy's journey on the show. We stress the importance of taking responsibility for one's happiness, even if it means having the courage to leave when necessary.


            We emphasize the significance of authenticity in relationships, drawing inspiration from Alix Earle on TikTok. Being grounded in your personal identity, embracing vulnerability, and owning imperfections are key elements in fostering genuine connections.


            The episode wraps up with a moment of vulnerability from the hosts, as we share our own experiences with podcasting. By showing our own struggles and growth, we aim to inspire listeners and reassure them that learning and improvement are ongoing processes.


            Key Takeaways:

            1. Self-awareness and Accountability: Take responsibility for your own happiness and recognize when a relationship isn't meeting your needs.
            2. Authenticity Breeds Connection: Embrace your true self, eccentricities and all, to cultivate genuine connections in relationships. Genuine confidence and kindness can be more powerful than you may think.
            3. Shared Vulnerability: By sharing our own struggles and growth, we aim to inspire listeners and remind them that it's okay to stumble along the journey of self-discovery.

            4. This exploration of Love Is Blind serves as a lighthearted continuation of our past discussion on expectations and control in relationships. We are concluding the Healthy Relationships series, which shed light on the complexities of modern dating dynamics and the pursuit of genuine connection. Stay tuned for Season 2, where we dive into anxiety at different life stages.

              Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

              30 min
            5. *Bonus* Love Is Blind Reactions, Part 1

              Connecting U: To Healthy Relationships (Bonus: Love Is Blind, Part 1)

              Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate.

              In this bonus episode of the Healthy Relationships series, we delve into the relationship dynamics behind the reality show on Netflix: Love Is Blind.


              Summary:

              In the first half of our bonus episode on Love Is Blind, we delve into the intriguing dynamics of this Netflix reality show where individuals get engaged before ever seeing each other. As we analyze the interactions and decisions made by the contestants, several key themes emerge.


              Key Takeaways:

              1. Basing Worth on External Validation: Women in the show tended to seek external validation to base their self-worth, rather than finding it within.
              2. Conscious Choice: Dating should be approached as an intentional process, like an interview. You need to consciously choose if you want the person sitting across from you. You have to bring logic into dating to see whether your values and goals align.
              3. Overcoming Insecurity: Insecurity can hinder you from showing up authentically in relationships, preventing you from fully embodying the person God created you to be. Recognizing and addressing insecurities is crucial because they can spiral into many unhealthy patterns. You do not grow out of unhealthy behaviors, you have to work through them.
              4. This exploration of Love Is Blind serves as a lighthearted continuation of our past discussion on expectations and control in relationships. We will be concluding the Healthy Relationships series, which shed light on the complexities of modern dating dynamics and the pursuit of genuine connection. Stay tuned for the second half of our bonus episode where we delve deeper into the Love Is Blind themes and their relevance to real-life relationship dynamics.

                Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

                30 min
              5. Managing Your Expectations in Relationships

                Connecting U: To Healthy Relationships (Part 3)

                Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate.

                In Episode 3 of the Healthy Relationships series, we delve into the intricate dynamics of expectations within relationships and the internal conflicts they can create.


                Summary:

                Join us as we explore how unmet expectations can lead to internal questioning and feelings of inadequacy. From societal pressures to personal beliefs, we discuss the various sources of expectations in relationships, ranging from marriage timelines to caregiving roles.


                Discover the importance of grounding yourself in your identity and understanding your worth beyond the fulfillment of expectations. We highlight the significance of self-awareness and acceptance in releasing control and finding inner peace amidst life's uncertainties.


                Key Takeaways:

                • Unmet expectations can lead to internal conflicts and feelings of disappointment.
                • Basing your worth on external factors, such as relationship dynamics, results in sadness and dissatisfaction.
                • Recognize the difference between setting healthy boundaries and relinquishing control over outcomes.
                • Embrace self-awareness and a grounded sense of identity as tools for releasing expectations and surrendering control in life.

                • Tune in to Episode 3 of Connecting U for insightful discussions and practical advice on navigating expectations in relationships and grounding yourself in self-awareness and surrender.

                  Every episode ends with a Bible verse and prayer for our listeners. Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

                  28 min
                • Maintaining Your Identity & Connection in Relationships

                  Connecting U: To Healthy Relationships (Part 2)

                  Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate.

                  Part 2 of the Healthy Relationships series begins with signs of enmeshment - How can we know if we are losing our identity in a relationship? Mayra and Emily discuss the importance of maintaining your individuality in relationships before delving into the slippery slope of lying.


                  Even small lies disrupt the sense of safety in a relationship. Lying leads to lack of culpability, shame, and secrecy. If you aren't proud of your partner, get out!


                  We end with 3 keys to maintaining connection with your partner - Vulnerability, Support, and Thankfulness.

                  Every episode ends with a Bible verse and prayer for our listeners. Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected.

                  23 min
                • Finding Your "Why" In Relationship Problems

                  Connecting U: To Healthy Relationships (Part 1)

                  Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate.

                  Part 1 of the Healthy Relationships series defines what fun looks like in a stable relationship. We analyze the importance of finding the "why" behind relationship struggles, which fuels healthy communication. The goal of a healthy relationship is connection, which is reached through feeling heard and validated. If you aren't actively searching for connection, you and your partner will become disconnected. Stay tuned for Part 2, where we discuss signs of unhealthy enmeshment and tools for increasing connection in relationships.

                  Every episode ends with a Bible verse and prayer for our listeners. Subscribe to remain connected to God, yourself, and others. Follow us on IG and FB @ RemainConnected. TikTok @ ConnectingUPodcast. Hosts are @ Em.Robinsonnn and @ Mayra_Richards_ on IG.

                  21 min

                About Connecting U Podcast

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                Welcome to Connecting U, where you belong. Hosted by Mayra Richards, CEO of Remain Connected Counseling, and Emily Robinson, Harvard graduate in Psychology. The Connecting U Podcast is a space where…