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  • Sleepless in Charlotte

    This episode explores the vital connection between sleep and menopause. Jess draws from her personal experiences and challenges faced by many women. She discusses the significant impact of disrupted sleep on mood, energy, and productivity, particularly following social events.

    Jess highlights five key reasons why quality sleep is essential during menopause: its role in hormone regulation, immune function, cognitive rejuvenation, mood stability, and overall physical health.

    Additionally, Jess examines how hormonal changes during menopause, including declines in estrogen and progesterone, can disrupt sleep patterns, leading to insomnia and fatigue. She provides practical tips for improving sleep routines, emphasizing the importance of consistency, a calming bedtime environment, and avoiding common pitfalls like over-the-counter medications or alcohol.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    3:06 The Importance of Sleep in Menopause

    6:44 Why Menopause Disrupts Sleep

    9:02 Understanding Sleep Cycles

    13:13 Creating a Relaxing Bedtime Routine

    18:02 Things That Hurt Your Sleep Cycle

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    24 min
  • Menopause, Mountains and Me with Lizette Totillo

    "I wanna live my life saying, 'I'm glad I did and not, I wish I had'."

    In this episode, Jess sits down with Lizette, a dynamic yoga instructor and musician now living in Croatia, who has fronted the band Blue Monday for over two decades. They explore her experiences with menopause, discussing the importance of self-education and open dialogue as women navigate these life stages. Lizette candidly shares her journey through significant life changes, including a divorce and the loss of her father, which propelled her to seek a new life in Croatia.

    As they delve into her dual identity as a performer and mother, Lizette addresses the challenges of managing menopause symptoms while on stage, showcasing her resilience and commitment to her art. She also highlights wellness practices that support her emotional and physical health during transitions. Lizette emphasizes living authentically and shares her guiding principle of embracing life with the mindset of "I'm glad I did," offering inspiration for anyone facing major life choices.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    3:30 Unique Menopause Journey

    6:50 Finding Peace in Croatia

    9:48 Embracing Change After Loss

    13:28 The Power of Manifestation

    16:25 Performing Through Menopause

    20:49 Overcoming Brain Fog

    23:37 Connecting with Nature

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    32 min
  • Dominate Your Doctor Appointment

    In this episode, Jess digs deep into the often-overlooked issue of communication between women and their healthcare providers, particularly regarding hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and menopause. She starts by sharing a friend's experience with an OBGYN who dismissed the effectiveness of HRT simply as a mental construct due to financial investment. This story sets the tone for a critical conversation about how women's concerns can sometimes be minimized in medical settings, and Jess aims to equip you with the necessary tools to assertively communicate your needs.

    This episode guides listeners on how to prepare for these appointments effectively. Keeping a symptom journal can be incredibly beneficial, and Jess recommends bringing a checklist of symptoms and mood changes to help articulate your experiences more clearly during the consultation. Knowing your family medical history is equally important, as it gives your doctor context regarding potential health risks. She also emphasizes the importance of being clear about your objectives for the appointment, whether that includes discussing HRT options or alternative treatments.

    During the episode, Jess addresses the need for active listening from both parties in the appointment. She encourages you to express your concerns firmly yet respectfully, and to advocate for yourself when discussing treatment options. Recognizing red flags in your provider’s responses is crucial; for example, if your doctor dismisses your symptoms or is unwilling to explore alternative treatment options, it may be time to seek a second opinion.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    1:58 Finding the Right Doctor

    4:33 Preparing for Your Appointment

    8:21 Setting Goals for Treatment

    9:15 Effective Communication Techniques

    10:33 Recognizing Red Flags

    14:56 Reflecting on Personal Experiences

    MENTIONED IN EPISODE:

    The Menopause Society


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    18 min
  • Eat, Pray, Love My Meno Belly

    This episode explores the complexities surrounding body image and weight gain during menopause, sharing examples from the film "Eat, Pray, Love," to illustrate the emotional and psychological struggles many women face, embracing their love for food while simultaneously confronting societal pressures regarding body weight. This narrative sets the foundation for a deeper discussion about the importance of self-compassion and the need to offer oneself grace during the transformative stage of menopause.

    Jess shares how hormonal shifts significantly impact a woman's body, leading to changes in metabolism and weight distribution. She emphasizes that weight gain during this time is not simply a matter of lifestyle choices but rather a physiological response to decreasing estrogen levels and increasing cortisol. By addressing the reality of the "menopause tummy," Jess reassures listeners that feelings of frustration are valid and that they are not alone in their experiences. The role of stress and its physiological consequences are elaborated upon, bringing awareness to how chronic stress can amplify the challenges women may face during menopause.

    Breaking down the effects of elevated cortisol, Jess explains its multifaceted role within the body, including its connection to blood sugar regulation, inflammation, and memory formation. Stressors are categorized into three groups: physical, environmental, and medical, illustrating how each can trigger cortisol production and contribute to weight gain. She highlights that even common experiences like intense exercise, lack of sleep, and environmental stresses can serve as catalysts for increased cortisol levels, complicating the weight management process.

    Women are encouraged to actively fight back against these changes by adopting a holistic strategy involving diet, exercise, and stress management. Jess shares practical recommendations for dietary adjustments, the importance of weight-bearing and strength-training activities advocating for finding enjoyable physical activities and suggests incorporating flexibility and balance exercises. Stress management techniques are introduced as critical components of the menopause journey, with mindfulness, yoga, and social connections being presented as powerful tools for mental well-being.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    1:52 The Reality of Menopause Weight Gain

    3:59 Understanding Hormonal Shifts

    5:15 The Role of Cortisol

    6:56 Stress and Its Impact on Health

    9:08 Types of Stressors in Menopause

    12:36 The Importance of Diet

    16:16 Exercise: A Key Component

    20:38 Managing Stress Effectively

    22:36 Embracing Body Positivity and Self-Image

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    25 min
  • HRT: Beyond the Headlines

    In this episode, Jess discusses the transformative impact of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) during menopause and shares her personal hormone journey.

    She shares the history of HRT, addressing its evolution, benefits, and the common fears that prevent many women from utilizing it. Importantly, Jess debunks the myths surrounding HRT risks, clarifies misunderstandings from past studies, and emphasizes the importance of personalized treatment options.

    By the end of this episode, Jess' goal is that you become more empowered to seek support and engage actively in your menopause journey.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    2:32 Understanding HRT Basics

    4:18 The Evolution of HRT

    7:19 The Women's Health Initiative

    10:27 Different Types of HRT

    12:28 Delivery Methods for HRT

    14:30 My Personal HRT Experience

    19:19 HRT in 2022 and Beyond

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    22 min
  • The Menopause Birds and Bees

    This episode provides an in-depth exploration of menopause, detailing the roles of key hormones and their impact on women's health. It clarifies the differences between perimenopause and menopause, dispels common misconceptions, and emphasizes the gradual decline of hormones and its effects on quality of life.

    Jess discusses the long-term health risks associated with reduced estrogen, particularly for bone and cardiovascular health, and advocates for lifestyle adjustments to mitigate these risks. Listen in for a deeper understanding of menopause as a pathway for health management and personal growth.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    4:45 The Relay Race of Hormones

    6:20 Defining Menopause Transition

    8:41 The Journey Through Perimenopause

    10:35 The Role of Estrogen

    14:26 Effects on Bone Health

    15:42 Impact on Skin Health

    16:37 Brain Function and Mood

    17:32 Metabolism Changes

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    20 min
  • My Journey: Embracing My Menopause Misadventures

    In this first episode of Conquer the Change, Jess tackles the often-ignored subject of menopause, aiming to empower women during this significant transition.

    She shares her personal experiences with the onset of menopause, including struggles with symptoms like hot flashes and sleep disturbances, as well as the emotional toll it has taken on her life and relationships. Through her journey of seeking support and exploring hormone replacement therapy (HRT), she highlights the importance of understanding hormonal changes and their implications.

    This episode serves to validate the experiences of women navigating menopause and encourages exploration of new lifestyle approaches for a fulfilling post-menopausal life. Future episodes will dive deeper into specific symptoms and insights from other women, fostering a supportive community where we can collectively redefine menopause.

    HIGHLIGHTS:

    5:55 My Menopause Journey Begins

    9:03 Discovering Hormone Replacement Therapy

    11:11 Embracing Lifestyle Changes

    13:29 Understanding Menopause and Symptoms

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    17 min
  • The Excitement is Building!

    Listen in and find out what all the buzz is about!

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    2 min

About Conquer the Change

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Tired of wading through the sea of misinformation and misconceptions about menopause? Let's cut through the crap together. I'm Jess Carney, your menopause coach, and I'm here to empower you with the facts and the reality often overlooked in traditional healthcare.