Consciously Unbecoming

Hi dear ones,

This episode I am chatting radical acceptance and foresee this being a topic we will hang out with for a few episodes. Radical acceptance is the crucial step in healing and awakening. Plus, it is one of my favorite exercises to begin finding true peace in certain areas of my life. 

I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to give the podcast a follow on Instagram: @consciously.unbecoming.

With love and radical acceptance,
JKV

Well hello there!

I'M BACKKKKKKKKK! 

Standing on our own two feet can be pretty difficult when we do not trust ourselves or when we think the answers are outside of ourselves. So, that's what we are talking about on this episode. Oh and these things, too! 

Getting real about:

• Doing things alone
• Trusting our decisions
• Finding the answers within
• Confidence and joy anchors
• Asking for help

As always, THANK YOU for listening, I am beyond grateful that you are here! 

With love,
Jess Kiely-Vogelpohl

Hi lovely listeners,

Spoiler alert - you're amazing, exactly as you are. Nothing needs to change about you in order to be worthy of love. Deserving of love. And, to feel as if you are enough. Because you are.

All too often, we are desperately attached to things outside of ourselves. Or people outside of ourselves. That we tie our worth and self-esteem to them or this one thing. We dig into why this is such a problem and how to remember your worth. 

With love,

Jess and Lauren

Hi. 

So, the head, the heart (not to be confused with the band), the brain, the soul. We treat all of these as such separate entities when they are all so interwoven. 

On this episode we talk Soul Retrieval and how we can find those bits and pieces of ourselves we've lost throughout our life. 

Thanks for listening!

Jess and Lauren

Hi Difference Maker, sup? 

Aiiiiight, if you are a parent, you are gonna like this one.  And, hey, if you aren't a parent, you will still really enjoy it because we talk A LOT about the tools we weren't given as kiddos that NOW translate into our adult lives as we try to parent our children and/or build relationships with others. 

Ever heard of your inner child?
What about Inner Family Systems?
Ooh this is a good one, have you ever been super triggered by your child, lose your cool, and then felt shame after? 

Then ya might wanna give this one a listen. 

Please follow us on Instagram: @consciously.unbecoming.

Check out Lauren Thew's Highest and Healed Program. Spots still open for April.  Jess will be a student in this class so come learn alongside of her! 

https://my.forms.app/laurenthew/highest-healed-application-form

See you later, loves! 

With gratitude,
JV & LT 

OHHHH HI! 

There's a jazzy lil surprise in this episode! 

Ever have those times in life where you feel restless for people, places, things, yet unsure of what you are specifically yearning for? 

Could be because you are not living out your life's purpose. Your soul's mission. That thing that ignites you.  

On this episode, we dig into how to find that purpose and what to do when you don't quite believe you can accomplish that goal! Or that it will ever actually happen...

With Love,
JV and LT 

Hi there, 

For me knowledge is always power. Ya know, "the more you know." Cue rainbow shooting star.

Knowledge solidifies really "out-there" concepts that we can't seem to wrap our brains around but want to. Show us the evidence. OR explain it in an understandable way and BOOM, suddenly, this knowledge can be integrated in our lives rather than just some info we have.

Knowledge helps us understand our mental health, especially when we are in the darkness. 

So, this episode, is all about da brain and mental health hurdles we all face but are increasingly heavier the longer we are in the middle of the pandemic.  Because maybe if you understand a little more about how your brain works - then you won't beat yourself up when your anxiety has its grips in ya or when depression has rendered you a muted version of yourself.

Talk soon,
JV

Hello you beautiful badass! 

Read the Bible or go to hell
Go to confession or go to hell
Believe what we believe and don't you dare ask questions....or go to hell

^^^any of that sound familiar?  I know it does to me and my amazing guest on this episode. 

Join Lauren Thew, my Shamanic Mentor and Shadow Work Expert, and myself as we discuss our relationship with organized religion and how it pushed us to learn more. And, unlearn even MORE! 

How to learn more about Lauren and her amazing work:
Instagram: @Lauren.Thew
linktr.ee/lauren.thew

With love,
Jess

Whattttt upppp, welcome back to episode 5 of the Consciously Unbecoming Podcast where we are getting to core of our self. 

Taking a look at all of the beliefs that have been thrust upon us and deciding, is this a belief about myself, about others, about the world, that I want or do I need to relearn this belief and see it through my own lens. 

Most of our beliefs, we didn't choose:

• They were just there. 
• Inherited from our families, our ancestors, our upbringing, the neighborhoods we grew up in, our religions, society, the states, the countries, we live in. 
  • There are so many sets of social standards within each of those things that I just mentioned. 
  • It’s uncomfortable to take our masks off that have forced us to conform to all of those societal standard.
  • For some of us, its’ so uncomfortable, we go our entire lives never truly leaning into our identities. Never truly embracing who we are. Never truly speaking out loud to the world and saying THIS IS WHO I AM. 
  • What’s worst than stepping outside of those norms, and removing the mask, is staying hidden, keeping a piece of yourself hidden, denying who you are, to fit a BS standard.
  • We get to change our minds about the direction our lives are headed. We get to course correct. We get to step back and decide who we are in the season of life we are in. There’s no set path. 

Texts from last night:

Today we are going to see where this conversation takes us but, Lisa, I wanted to touch on something we were texting about last night because I think it pertains to the ultimate theme of this episode which is addiction. 

• Energy shifts in the lunar cycle
• Setting intentions
• I am a big believer in energy. I believe the moon controls A LOT of energy. And, that when ppl mention they are setting their intentions for this full moon cycle, or the new moon cycle, it’s not some BS thing. It’s science, bebe. 

Addiction:

• Addiction to chaos
• Addiction to numbing our feelings
• Addiction to work
• Addiction to the pursuit of something, someone, MPRE
• Addiction to being better

We as a society have to DO instead of simply just being!

ENJOY,
Jess and Lisa

Hi-ya, friendly reminder - you have everything in you to weather any storm! 

• Today we are talking about self-esteem and where our inner critic comes from. 
• We dig into the top 4 areas our inner critic shows up/comes from.
• We chat about "shielding" and protecting our selves from external criticism.

Enjoy! 

With love,
Jess and Lisa