Brandon The Dom

Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM

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Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused?   @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too.

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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:41) - Using BDSM to regain power from trauma
  • (06:28) - Exploring new boundaries
  • (18:20) - Learning to say no game
  • (21:43) - Past experiences of saying no
  • (26:15) - Speaking up for your needs
  • (28:31) - When acts are traumatic vs not
  • (36:50) - Doms can't read minds
  • (47:03) - Creating safety
  • (50:13) - Being judged as a man in the bedroom
  • (01:03:15) - Standing up for your values
  • (01:09:15) - Introducing your partner to new sex acts

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    MORE RESOURCES:
    ▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
    ▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo
    ▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc

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