Controversy and Chaos

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 50, we’re putting our spin on marriage talk! Were we ready when we said “I do,” or were we just out here winging it? 👀 We’re unpacking growing pains, debating if love is enough to walk down the aisle, and spilling the tea on how to spot someone who’s marriage material (hint: it’s not just vibes). Grab your wine and join the convo—it’s real, raw, and full of laughs!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Let’s Snap a Selfie, Shall We?
0:31 - Welcome to Episode 50!
1:30 - If You Could Rename Yourself, What Would It Be?
9:50 - Yearly Vow Renewals?
12:39 - Follow Us on IG for a Little Something-Something
17:30 - Should You Marry for Love?
29:30 - Relationship Growing Pains
32:25 - Were You Really Ready for Marriage? 
47:45 - How to Spot a Partner Who’s Marriage Material
51:17 - We Need More Healthy Marriage Examples i
54:43 - Our Favorite Parts of Being Married
50:50 - Final Thoughts: Love, Growth, and Episode 50

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 49, we dive into nostalgia, spicy debates, and unfiltered honesty! We chat about our favorite beauty eras and vent about what’s been grinding our gears (girls doing boy things ). For the main event, we tackle the age-old question: sex on the first date—yes, no, or depends? Get ready for laughs, truths, and plenty of opinions!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Welcome to Episode 49 
049 - Introducing our daughters to makeup 
4:50 - Random question: Favorite era of Beauty 
7:22 - Diana Ross vs Donna Summers 
8:53 -  Our Jamaica Ave Visit 
11:12 - What grinds our gears: Girls doing boy things 
16:50 - Main Topic: Sex on the first date 
46:45 - Episode final thoughts 

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re switching things up with Episode 48! In a fun GRWM-style video, we did our makeup while chatting about our entrepreneurial journey, beauty, hot topics, and fashion predictions for 2025. From Jayda Cheaves’ lip kit and Cardi B & Offset’s breakup phases to being in business with your partner and the audacity of public cheating, we left no stone unturned. We also shared our favorite brands of the month and 2025 fashion vibes. Tune in for glam, laughs, and unfiltered conversations!


Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - 32 Flavors/ Our IG captions 
5:15 - Welcome to episode 48
9:09 - Our Entrepreneurial Journey 
12:26 - Jayda Chaves Beauty 
30:33 - Can you really Beat your face? 
32:51 - Cardi B & Offset! The phases of a breakup
43:29 - Dearra & Ken! Being in business with your boyfriend 
55:06 - Why don’t men cheat in private 
59:40 - Have you found your soulmate 
1:13:15 - 2025 Fashion Predictions 
1:20:50 - Favorite Brand or Product this month 
1:25:23 - Final Thoughts 

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re kicking off 2025 with Episode 47, and it’s packed with everything from laughs to real talk! Of course, we couldn’t let this episode slide without crowning Beyoncé as the GOAT and sharing what we’re most excited about stepping into 2025. Finally, we open up about some changes for the podcast as we prioritize our friendship and say goodbye to our third member. It’s a new unfamiliar chapter, and we’re ready to embrace it. Let’s talk about it!


Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - A Hispanic MAGA Supporter 
3:50 - Welcome to Episode 47 
5:45 - How Much is too much for Stationary? 
16:05 - Beyoncé is The GOAT!
48:16 - Hello 2025! What are you looking forward to?
59:06 - Controversy & Chaos will be going through some changes. 
1:16:00 - Final Thoughts

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re closing out the year with a good old-fashioned brain dump! There is no agenda or structure—just unfiltered rants, random thoughts, and all the vibes. This episode is as real as it gets, from what’s been on our minds to what we’re leaving behind in the new year. Pour a drink, kick back, and let it all out together.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Are you from the DMV
1:10 - Ciara is a true internet kid
2:40 - LeBron was singing Watermelon 
3:50 - White people don’t hear the drum 
4:44 - Welcome to Episode  46 
5:10 - Atlanta is a simulation 
9:54 - Tarré is giving 2010s Baddie 
12:19 - We BEEN wearing wigs 
19:10 - We listen and we don’t judge 
22:18 - It’s finally the end of the year 
27:00 - Who is Khadi Rhad 
28:40 - What day is your reset day 
34:54 - Nail Salon Woes 
40:40 - Men lack social queues 
53:54 - It should never be this cold   
57:20 - Christmas Decor 
1:00:00 - Tarré is an over consumer 
1:06:33 - To be a Girl Mom
1: 10:00 - Tarré the
1:13: 36 - Final Thoughts  

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! It’s the most wonderful time of the year! In this episode, we’re diving into all things holidays—our favorite gift-giving tips, how to start your own family traditions, and what makes this season so magical. Plus, we share what we’re looking forward to as we step into the new year. Grab some cocoa and tune in for cozy vibes and plenty of cheer!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Young Miami & Santana Deserve a Show 
2:00 - We don't drink off Kids 
3:53 - Welcome to episode 45
7:19 - The burden of the Holiday Season 
16:45 - Let's start some new Holiday Traditions 
30:35 - Who really likes the snow?
34:49 - Let's be optimistic about 2025 
42:41 - Why does Sza Lie so much 
48:53 - Our Least Favorite Signs 
53: 16 - Episode Final Thoughts 

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Let’s face it—sometimes the receipts don’t lie. In this episode, we get real about the allegations women can’t seem to shake and the importance of holding ourselves accountable. From double standards to the art of owning up, we’re breaking it all down with humor, honesty, and hard truths.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Welcome to episode 44
2:40 - Being Sick as A Mom
5:27 - Disciplining & Raising Kids 
19:20 - As Women Why Can't We Apologize or Take Accountability? 
26:05 - How Can Men get Into Fights and then Go back to being cool 
31:40 - Women Learn to manipulate emotionally 
35: 36 - Women letting things build-up 
42:43 - Not using our emotions to unleash our men 
46:20 - Final thoughts on the Main topic 
50:23 - When did you realize you could cuss good? 
56:57 - Ginger Ale Owes us a check 
1:00: 02 - Beyoncé & the NFL Christmas halftime 
1:04:00 - Final Thoughts 

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into the spicy debates around prenups and postnups—are they smart planning or a recipe for disaster? Plus, we tackle the polarizing idea of “letting the man lead” in relationships. What does it mean, and does it really work in today’s world? Tune in for honest takes, real talk, and a little bit of side-eye.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Welcome to episode 43
0:38 - Our two weeks post-election thoughts
4:05 - The Diaspora Wars- Are people from the UK brainwashed?
18:50 - Why is the doctor's office always behind schedule?
28: 58 - Quavo's teeth 
32:14 - Main Topic: How Do you feel about Prenups or Postnups 
49:00 - Letting the Man Lead 
1:19:00 - Our Lack of ability to apologize 
1:23:58 - Final Thoughts: One Year of Podcasting

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into the dos and don’ts of guiding your child’s dating life. How do you know when it’s time to step in or step back? We discuss when to intervene, how we learned who’s worth bringing home to meet the family, and when it’s best to let them learn on their own. It’s all about balancing love, boundaries, and a little discernment! 

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Welcome to our 42nd Episode
0: 50 - Time isn't real 
2:00 - Posting Your Kids on Social Media 
5:38 - Introducing your kids to HBCU Culture 
7:50 - We are T- Shirt Hoarders 
13:48 -  Four Eyes is ready for Lasik 
18: 25 - Main Topic: Do you Intervene with your kids dating? 
52: 58 - Scary AI ChatBox Story 
59: 56 - Our Kids dating outside our culture 
1: 02: 54 - Final Thoughts 

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Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind of the 2024 election, sharing our thoughts, predictions, and hopes for the future. We're covering everything from hot-button issues to the key players and how social media will shape this year’s voting landscape. Tune in for our take on what’s at stake and where this election could take us.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro 
0:18 - Welcome to our 41st Episode
0: 38 - Tarré never updates her apps 
1:15 - Jan 2025 TikTok Ban 
15:00 - Peeping Tom's are Voyers 
18:55 - Tarré Got her voice back 
21:40 - Why can't you pronounce confused?
25:00 - The only long-form content she can watch is True Crime. 
30:50 - Our 2024 Election thoughts/ predictions 
54:40 - Final thoughts 

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