I discovered this one principle: We seem to attract the things that we focus on We attract the behaviour, the situations, … the kind of relationship that we focus on. Would you agree with me? Let me tell you a quick story why I think this is true. I was going for a beer with ...

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Quick question: Did you ever buy a car, a then noticed the same type of car suddenly appearing everywhere, in your street, in your city, in advertisements, in the news? I had the same feeling a couple of years ago – and I led me to realize something very strange about my relationship with my ...

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How many times every day do you have to enter a password on your computer, or your smartphone? Today, I’m gonna show you how you can use a secure password to  get in a mindful, loving state in your relationship Does that sound weird? Well, I’m gonna tell you how it works. You may think ...

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Do you know Hans Zimmer? If you don’t know him, I’m sure you have seen some of the movies where he composed the score, the soundtrack. Blockbuster movies like The Lion King,Gladiator,Inception,Batman vs Superman,or Pirates of the Caribbean And some time ago, Hans Zimmer was on tour, live with a band, a huge orchestra and ...

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Do you know how most card tricks start? That’s right, “Pick a card, any card.” I had a period in my life where I was completely into magic. Gosh, I don’t know how many hundreds or probably more likely thousands of dollars I spent on magic tricks. And in my magical studies, I stumbled across ...

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Do you know what the Eurovision Song Contest is? It’s the longest running annual TV Music Competition, with acts from over 40 countries, from all over Europe, with over 200 million viewers watching at home from all around the world. And every year, it becomes an even bigger show, with more lights and more dancers ...

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If you are someone who jumps out of bed in the morning completely awake and powerful and ready to start the day this is not for you. But if you are like the rest of us –  the first thing I do when the alarm clock goes off is – I hit the snooze button. ...

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What’s the most important thing when you take a picture to post on social media, and what does this have to do with your relationship? When you take a picture, you point your smartphone camera in the right direction. You try to frame the picture perfectly. You try to make sure that nothing you don’t ...

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Do you know that feeling when you are arguing in your relationship, the longer and more heated an argument gets, the more you feel like you have to win this fight against this enemy? But you know who the real enemy is? It’s your brain. A researcher studied couples by filming them during a fight, ...

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How three decisions made in one evening in 1993 shaped my destiny for the rest of my life. Have you ever heard of the saying ”Decisions shape our destiny”? It sounds like a cliche, so selfhelp-y right? But let me tell you about three decisions that truly shaped my destiny, with unbelievable consequences for the ...

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