Courtship Code

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Courtship Code episodes

  • Thoughts that attract better courtship and men S5E44

    How you think about courtship will impact how you experience courtship. This means if you want courtship to feel good you must think good things about meeting new men, letting them know you’re single and looking, and accepting invitations to connect with them. When you tell your brain what to focus on, you will look for ways to make it happen. On today's episode we discuss how to train your brain to focus on creating thoughts and experiences that align with the type of courtship and men you desire to attract.

    Join The Relationship Reset Waitlist

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    Take the Queen of Courtship Assessment

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    Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    30 min
  • Releasing childhood insecurities to create a better love life S5E43
    A part of resetting your love life is releasing your childhood insecurities so you can stop letting your wounded inner girl attract men. You’re not broken. You’re not damaged. You simply have some healing to do, that’s normal and okay. Stepping out of your Wounded Princess Energy will require more than writing in a journal or talking about your wounds. That’s just a start. You need to dive deep into your childhood insecurities and relationship wounds.
    Release them. Then create emotional availability and security for yourself. On today's episode we dive deep into how your childhood insecurities impacts your love life and how to heal them.
    Relationship Reset waitlist
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    Captivating Courtship Code waitlist
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    Breakup with Your Type Masterclass
    www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup
    Questions? Send a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
    27 min
  • Focusing on one man at a time when you meet a new great guy S5E42

    Anxiously attached women often find themselves putting all their eggs in one basket (the man) very early on in the dating and courtship process. When you first meet a new guy that you really like, focusing on him and pre-committing to the idea of the relationship may feel like the most natural thing to do. This often leads to cycles of hot-cold relationships, time wasted, and completely running past red-flags. But the truth is, attachment is false security. On today's episode we discuss why putting your focus on one man backfires for most women and how to shift this in new courtship experiences.


    The Relationship Reset group coaching program waitlist

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    The Captivating Courtship Code waitlist

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    https://captivatingcourtship.com/ccc-waitlist/


    Breakup with your types Masterclass

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup


    Questions? Send a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    28 min
  • How Introverts meet more men for courtship S5E41

    If you think being an introvert gets in the way of attracting a partner, let me share a secret. Introverted women can experience courtship and meeting more quality men easier than you think. Your introversion will activate your authentic ability to embody feminine energy, communicate on a deeper level, and create authentic connections with quality men. This is a good thing. When a man feels safe with a woman it opens his heart and desire to commit to her faster. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset group coaching are now open. This episode shares how introverted women can win at increasing their options quality for courtship.

    Apply to The Relationship Reset coaching group program

    www.Captivatingcourtship.com/application 


    Questions? Send a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    22 min
  • High Quality Relationship Decisions S5E40

    Right now, you may think you’ve made a lot of mistakes and feel hopeless. Or that you only attract men who aren’t ready, non-committal or emotionally unavailable. But the truth is you have to know how to qualify men and make high quality relationship decisions. Making decisions for your love life that don’t align or feel consistent with what you want is not creating the type of love life you want. You want to make decisions that feel good and get you more of what you want with men. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset group coaching program are now open. This episode shares what you need to consider in order to make high quality relationship decisions

    Apply to The Relationship Reset coaching program Enrollment dates August 15th-20th

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/application


    Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    26 min
  • 10 Mistakes Women Make pt1 S5E39
    In this episode you'll learn 10 mistakes women make with courtship and attracting a relationship and how to avoid them. We also breakdown what's inside of the Relationship Reset coaching program, who it's for, and the enrollment process.
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    46 min
  • People Pleasing vs Highly Desirable Attraction S5E38

    The gap between thinking and knowing is stopping you from attracting long-term commitment, today. Here's what you must understand, it’s not that men don’t see your real value or that men like the idea of you and not the real you. You simply aren’t communicating your value to the right men, in an authentic way, that makes your value UNDENIABLE. This is what closes the gap between thinking and knowing your worth. This is how high achieving women stop people pleasing. When you do this you will shift from desperate, convincing, low value energy to grounded, certain, high value attraction.

    What you need is to effortlessly activate your Captivating Queen energy as a part of your Being. This transforms your relationships quickly because high quality attraction pulls high quality men closer and MOVES low-quality men away from you. You can learn go-to techniques to always embody your Captivating Queen energy and attract better men, authentically, like the ones I teach my clients.

    Today's episode breaks it all down for you.

    JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP RESET WAITLIST

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    Breakup with Your Type Masterclass

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup


    Questions about coaching? DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    49 min
  • Anxiously Attaching During Courtship & Dating S5E37

    If you want to feel secure, valued and pursued by a man who wants commitment, letting relationship anxiety drive the courtship process will always backfire. Instead, you need to communicate your value without attempting to prove you’re good enough to be chosen by overthinking, overdoing, and desperate clingy energy. When you do this you will no longer overthink every interaction. You will feel safe to enjoy courtship and let him lead the way. However, when you're anxiously attached to a man or relationship attracting long-term commitment or marriage may take longer than it has to or not at all.

    On today's episode we discuss anxiously attaching to men during courtship and dating, along with one way to overcome this in the next 90 days.

    JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP RESET WAITLIST

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    Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    21 min
  • Reset your love life S5E36

    What if you could hit the reset button on your love life and start taking action, increase your confidence, and meet lots of new men…would you?

    If so, then the first step to resetting is to break the pattern of not meeting men or meeting the wrong men. You can do this by getting clear on the current patterns that’s blocking love and reignite your intuition so you can trust yourself to make better relationship decisions.

    In this episode we discuss making the decision to reset your love life and the first steps required to do it faster and with ease.

    We also make a special announcement at the end of the episode you won't want to miss.


    Take the Queen of Courtship Assessment

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    Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

    25 min
  • Courtship Series: Feeling Exhausted to Feeling Ease with Courtship S5E35

    Taking action, repeating experiences, not seeming to get past the same relationship point. You’re tired of hot-cold relationships and you've been in this cycle for years. What you really want a loving, committed relationship with a man who is emotionally available and ready for commitment without having to apply pressure or convince him. Here's the thing, you must actually believe that you can get off this treadmill and attract a partner. You have to decide that you will have a partner, or family, or whatever form of commitment that makes you feel absolutely free and happy.

    On today's episode we kick off our summer series that focuses courtship. We'll be discussing in the upcoming weeks how to get started and how to navigate courtship so you can attract the commitment you desire in less time, and feel good doing it.


    Get on the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Waitlist

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/ccc-waitlist


    Discover your Relationship Patterns and How to Break Them

    www.CaptivatingCourtship.com/breakup


    Send your Questions to Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship


    31 min

About Courtship Code

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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code.