Courtship Code

Being a professional matchmaker taught me a ton of lessons that led me to creating the Captivating Courtship Code. Any of these lessons can get you one step closer to understanding what’s been making courtship difficult for you AND they will make all of your relationships better.

Because how you do one thing is how you do everything. So, by improving your romantic relationships and applying the lessons I'm going to share with you on this episode you can improve your personal and professional relationships. And, all of this is doable today.

So on this episode we discuss 5 lessons matchmaking taught me that can help you, too.

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Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code 1.0 are closing for good June 15th. Want to know how to make courtship fun again and get back in control of your love life? This episode breaks it all down for you. In this episode you'll know all the details to know if CCC is the right fit for you before the opportunity to get coached to your happily ever after goes away. 

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Getting to know your relationship patterns and breaking old patterns that no longer work for you is the first step towards attracting a stable relationship, all while not being hard on yourself. This isn’t easy. So today we have a testimonial episode of The Captivating Courtship Code student who not only broke old relationship patterns but also attracted her husband in less than 12 months.

Join us as Farah, a student of CCC, shares a sneak peak into her journey from a Wounded Princess to a Captivating Queen, leaning back on her throne and about to get married.

Being an avoidant, Farah had a tough time communicating her emotions to her partner, fearing rejection and judgment. She tells us how she learnt to create vulnerable experiences, values and vision with her partner. This is what is called intuitive dating and courtship.

She talks about the anxiety and self doubt that comes with dating and courtship and takes us through the critical mindset shifts she had to make to attract the love she deserved.

Having found support in the CCC community of women with similar goals, she learned to put herself out there in the dating world, trust the process, keep her heart and options open and choose the man who truly values what she brings to the relationship.

Listen to this episode to get clarity on the step-by-step process to move from a fear-induced relationship to a high value relationship that could potentially lead you to your future fiance.

Time Stamps for This Episode:

00:00 - Introduction

4:00 - Good News From Farah, A Student of Captivating Courtship

6:37 - When She Confirmed Her Wedding Dates

7:25 - Wedding Planning

9:45 - What Mindset Work Farah Had To Do After Joining The Program

14:14 - Her Learning To Open Up To Her Fiance

15:38 - Being An Avoidant

16:20 - How Farah Learnt To Go Out and Get New Experiences

21:54 - How Excited is She To Finally Get Married?

Links Mentioned In This Episode:

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If you have been stuck in a situationship more than once, it’s not by chance, it’s by design. It’s a pattern which you think you can’t break through because running back to the past seems familiar, safe and comfortable.

OR

You’re on the other end of the spectrum trying to desperately move on without resolving and working on your own past relationship trauma. You know you don’t feel valued or respected but you don’t know what to do about it.

Either way, this podcast is for you. In this episode we talk about how to break your own shackles and not just move on but move forward in your love life. A commitment doesn’t just happen, you have to make that decision of committing to commitment till you can say it out loud, “I’m ready to be a wife!”.

When we think we can’t have a happy love life, we’re simply operating from the past. Changing this mindset requires being uncomfortable, coachable and having faith in the possibility, the probability and the inevitability of it all working out for you.

Listen to this episode to get an insight into how to move on from painful and draining situationships and step into your receiving era.

Go to the link below to book a 20 Minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call to attract the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted to have.

Time Stamps for this Episode:

00:00 - Introduction

3:20 - Running back to the past

3:50 - Detoxing from an ex

4:55 - There is a better relationship for you

5:50 - Why you deserve more than a situationship

7:12 - Fear of abandonment

7:44 - Commitment is your decision

12:00 - What commitment is not about

13:56 - Operating from the past and why its harmful

16:36 - You have support

18:00 - Choosing intuitively and differently

18:40 - You can have the relationship you desire

20:35 - Imperfection is normal

24:30 - The power in community

27:00 - Conclusion

Links Mentioned In This Episode:

20 Minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call

https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515

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Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

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Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

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It’s hard not to feel anxious, fearful of rejection or try to control the outcome with men when you don’t know how to court for commitment.

Relationships can feel scary. You don’t want to get hurt or repeat past mistakes.And when you’re trying to figure out what you don’t know about courting for commitment on your own it’s easy to run back to past patterns or avoid meeting new men. Courtship becomes easy and attracting the right ready man happens faster when you know how to court for commitment and trust the process.

But let me tell you what makes courting for commitment feel even better…taking courtship one milestone at a time. In this episode I share with you exactly how.

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If you’re meeting men and not happy with the experiences, you have a connection block or a communication block. You can turn this around, learn to court for commitment, and feel good doing it in the next 90 days with my simple 6 step process. But right now, it’s either your communication or your connection skills that’s blocking love.

It’s simple because the Captivating Courtship Code guides you step-by-step through every courtship milestone that leads to commitment in 6 simple steps. I can teach you how to court for commitment, and trust yourself with men so you can attract a commitment ready man.

It’s not easy because you’re going to want to run back to your old patterns that’s keeping you unhappy in your love life. That’s perfectly normal, and EXACTLY why I coach my clients daily to help work through this. On today's episode we discuss the difference and what to do your connection or communication love block.

DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE COACHING ARE NOW OPEN!!

DOORS CLOSE JUNE 15TH

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