Courtship Code

It may be a surprise for women who have figured out how to master their education, career, or business that those same skills don’t always mean they’ll figure out how to navigate courtship and relationships.

The truth is I’ve worked with lots of women who are high achievers who never learned how to attract partners with intention or are unaware they need to change how they’ve been engaging with men because their fear of failure makes them totally blind that THEY could actually need to shift...instead of blaming men. 

The reality is you can be great at accomplishing career or educational goals and totally disconnect from how to be great at love. Because what you’re really struggling with is not what you may think. Let’s dive into it on this week’s episode.

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Tired of chasing men? I hear you, sis. Here’s the thing, there’s a deeper reason why you feel the need to chase and pursue men instead of being in your feminine energy and allowing a man to show up and commit.

This pattern is definitely sabotaging you from attracting the masculine man you desire and from feeling like the prize in relationships. You’re treating men like the prize, trophy, and the BAG.

It’s not your job to secure the BAG. You need to learn to court men without feeling the need to prove you’re wife worthy or like you must control how and when things take place. It feels yucky and it feels draining. 

But before you can change anything you must need to understand why you keep doing it. We discuss this on this week’s episode.

Do you have commitment issues?

Do you find yourself starting and stopping projects? Never fully showing up for yourself? Betraying your values and boundaries?

If you’ve been struggling with commitment in your personal life you’re likely attracting men who equally struggle with commitment. Just by shifting this aspect of your life will quickly elevate and transform the types of men you attract. This episode covers what you need to know about healing your commitment issues and why you must stop avoiding this issue.

You’ve been taught to pay attention to red flags and now you’re hyper focused and overthinking every time you meet a man on high alert for any sign he’s not the one.

This is emotionally draining and backfires. When you’re in the mindset of looking for flaws you’re missing all the reasons for you to say yes to your future. 

On this episode I’m sharing the importance of shifting this approach to courtship.

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Do you try to control the outcome?

One of the most common things women tell me when they decide to join coaching is that they have a hard time not trying to control the outcome of courtship or relationships.  

This is a major block and is wrapped up with all kinds of anxiety, control, and trust issues that either repels the right men or attracts less masculine men who will leave you feeling like you did all the work to make the relationship happen which leads to resentment on the back end.

This isn’t easy to shift.

But that doesn’t have to be true for you. You can learn to relax and let the man lead you to love without the fear of wasting your time or being abandoned. Here’s how…BOOK YOUR CAPTIVATING SESSION Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply JOIN THE WOMEN'S ONLY FACEBOOK GROUP Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup

As we close out this Captivating Month I want to have a heart to heart conversation with you about the trust cost of courtship.

It’s really easy to believe you’re safe and secure with the sabotage, frustration, and rejection you’ve experienced because what’s predictable feels certain.

What’s scary is taking a calculated risk to decide you’re worth more than sitting on the sidelines feeling anxious, fearful, and in disbelief that you could actually enjoy courtship and find a partner that’s good for you.

What you may not understand is you’re paying big time right now by not having better courtship experiences. How? I’ll tell you exactly how on this week’s episode.

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Want to know how my clients transform their love lives, quickly? On this episode we break everything down and share an intimate testimony from former client, Najwa, and her new marriage. Ready to enroll in Coaching? Book a FREE Captivating Session and we'll discuss exactly what steps you need to take and what coaching option works best for you. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply follow Zara @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

Whether you’ve experienced divorce, a traumatic breakup, or years of consistent rejection it can truly start to break you down and make you question if there are any men available for you or if you’ll ever find love again?

Most will get stuck with this paralyzing question and find themselves courting and manifesting relationships from this mindset or fearful and untrusting due to being stuck in the past.

Moving on from past heartache can be difficult. It’s hard to see the other side of the unknown especially when dating and courtship feels so uncertain.

This is why learning how to maneuver courtship with a high level of certainty and clarity can not only speed up your relationship goals but also restore the love you once lost.

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It's a Captivating Month! Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program opens. You can book a Captivating Session and learn more about coaching at Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply . On this week's episode we speak with Brittiany who shares how coaching has quickly shifted her love life and had freed her from relationship anxiety. We also discuss the law of attracting emotionally unavailable partners and what you need to do to change this aspect of your love life to have a more fulfilling Courtship and relationship experiences.

Is settling a REAL thing?

When is it okay to settle and when are you simply being “realistic” about partners?

This is a question so many women struggle with and something we dive into with Captivating Courtship Code coaching.

So, I want to share with you all the deets on IF you should settle with relationships and how to think about your partner selection and courtship options.

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