Courtship Code

Have you ever examined the REAL cost of courtship? Meaning, the impact of not making significant, long term changes in your relationships has on your overall life? You may be surprised there are things you're totally ignoring and preventing yourself from achieving simply by not knowing the impact and importance of the the things we're discussing on this episode. I'm going to share with you three things wealthy people know about courtship and relationships that you're probably underestimating. Ready to start coaching? Apply to join the 12 month Captivating courtship Code coaching program and shift your love this in the next 12 months. Go to captivatingcourtship.com/coaching ...join the FREE Facebook Group: Captivating Courtship Code or visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup to keep the discussion going. Follow Zara @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram.

So your friends and family been telling you to let things come naturally, again? 🤔 While you sit and stress about your love life and possibly missing out on marriage connection, a family and deep intimacy...they're telling you to just wait and be patient? Or they'll pray for you...but no real action being put behind it?

That sounds really good, but let's talk about the numbers of love...I'll call this the #50centcourtship

Because letting things come naturally gives you a 50% shot of success...and 50% chance at failure.

Why?

Because 50% of women aren't married by 40 (and if you're over 40 you already know something needs to shift NOW).

50% of couples meet "Naturally"...public places, work, friends and family...all combined consistent showing up...doesn't sound to bad, right? 50% chance? Sis, 50% is a failing grade. Plus how many were intentional and ACTUALLY compatible?

Not to mention...50% of people have an insecure attachment style. Meaning you're 50% more likely to sabotage your courtship/dating life with anxious or avoidant behaviors. Meaning 50% have too many red flags. Yup...HOW you're showing up and WHO you're attracted to is on autopilot and likely to end up in a toxic or emotionally unavailable...emotionally unstable relationship due to your patterns...but wait... IF you're in the 50% of women with relationship anxiety...AND you consistently allow yourself to be in the 50% who meet naturally...PLUS you don't allow your anxiety to place you in the 50% who will sabotage themselves...then your family and friends are right! Letting things comes naturally should work... But do you want to place yourself in those odds...or do you want to be intentional, break your attraction patterns, and br 100% intentional to shift your love life for good? Are you ready for this year to be the year you break your #50centcourtship cycle and commit to you.

Girl, keep it 100! 100% bet on you! This is your year to shift. Are you ready? DM me to learn how.

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Who are the negative influences on your love life and relationships? How are they impacting your dating and courtships? If you're unaware of the impact or in need of a new circle of influence this episode will breakdown why the impact of the people around you are keeping you stuck in a major way. Join the FREE Facebook Group www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup to keep the discussion going. Want to join the 12 month Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program? Go to www.captivatingcourtship.com and complete the application and book a call.

Are you waiting for the pandemic to end before you put yourself back into the courtship and dating world? Are you tired of online dating and feel you've done everything you can do and nothing is working? That's because you're focused on the wrong step. You're more focused on where to meet partners that you're completely ignoring how you're showing up and the thought process you currently have that's consistently attracting the same experiences. This week's episode dives deep into finding love when covid19 ends and what to do now about it. Join the FREE FACEBOOK Captivating Courtship Code www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup and keep the discussion going. Leave me a comment on this topic. Follow Zara J. On Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

Are you struggling with relationship anxiety during dating, courtship, and relationships? Are you aware of what relationship anxiety is? How will you manage it? If you're a woman who struggles with managing anxiety in relationships this episode is for you. We discuss how to identify if you're feeling relationship anxiety, why you have it, and what to do about it. Join the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group for women and keep the discussion going. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup. Follow Zara J. On Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship send a dm or book a call to join the NEW captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Have you ever felt like you're consistently attracting toxic, emotionally unavailable, narcissistic men? Do you feel you keep attracting the same kinds of partners and experiences, just with different faces? There are reasons why this is happening AND you can shift this and turn your love life around. We're discussing this challenge on this week's podcast so you can dive deeper into your accountability in this circumstance and why you need to this this now if you truly want a leveled up love life.

Intimacy, courtship, and love can be extremely scary. Especially for those with a deep fear of being seen, heard, or rejected. It doesn't have to be such a major marriage and relationship challenge, you just have to learn to communicate from a place of courage and less fear. Join the FREE Facebook group for women and post your relationship questions. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup BOOK YOUR CALL to join the proven 6 step coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching ......follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

This week we discuss the problem and challenges of being a hopeless romantic and how focus on romance over reality usually leads to major red flags in love, courtship, dating and marriage. Join the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group and apply for coaching at www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Today we discuss a few reasons high achieving women tend to show up low value and with low standards despite feeling confident in other areas of their life. We cover topics such as compatibility, narcissistic partners, respect, materialism and the sabotaging mindsets that keeps this pattern going. To learn more or book a coaching call visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Follow Zara J. On Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship and Join the FREE Facebook group for single women, Captivating Courtship Codeand keep the discussion going.

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