Jesus tells us that when you do something for the "least of these" you do it for him, and that the inverse is also true. There's a danger of allowing this scripture to become a carrot or stick—Do good, go to heaven, fail to do good suffer eternal consequences. But, if our focus is there, we miss a critical invitation. The first opportunity that we have in any relationship is love. Consider what difference love has made in your life. How did it change you when someone cared for you, carried you, sustained you? This is our grand opportunity. Jesus is inviting you to respond in love to his family—all those around us. If we are to emulate Jesus' model then every interaction begins with love. It's the order of operations: First, LOVE.