The first of three steps for couples struggling with different sexual desires is provided and expounded upon. 1-ensuring each partner differences in sexual desire are accurately seen and respected.

In this podcast Dr. Hughes talks about the high sexual desire/low sexual desire problem and avenues for change. Most couples fall into the gap of fighting for their spouse to be more like them. This may be the case for some couples where there is an unhealthy relationship with sexuality that gives rise to either a high or low sexual desire, but for many others differences need to be respected, bids for connection need to be accepted, and the couple embarks on a new way of exploring sexuality.

The 4 low desire partner types are discussed. These include Inaccessible/Cold; Accommodating/Disengaged; Misguided/Wanderer; and Engaged/Open types. How the low desire partner and their high desire partner experience this type is also highlighted.

The broad overview of what doesn’t work and what does work in high desire/low desire marriages is explained. The listener will be able to see why their high desire type doesn’t work and which one does work. You will quickly see what fundamental characteristics are requisite for a happy sex life for high/low desire marriages

Dr. Hughes goes over the 4 different kinds of high desire partners, what high desire partners that aren’t jerks are really looking for, and the impact of rejection.

Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. Part two is brief

Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. This is part 1. Part two is brief

Dr. Hughes talks about little known facts and research about the vulva and vagina and what arouses them

Dr. Hughes talks about some new research related to the clitoris. This stuff is exciting and is certain to draw your attention

Dr. Hughes talks about what is required for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to transform into sexual beings/couples that have healthy sexual relationships. Specific examples of how people transform are provided and related to the sexual journey individuals and couples are on as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.