Cr3ateYourself

Have you ever been blessed to fall down and get back up again?  Have you ever been in a controlling relationship/community such as a cult?  Do you still have childhood trauma's that you are healing through?

Many of us can say Yes to all 3 of those questions.

Michelle and I are still healing from 10+ years each of being leaders in a global cult. 

In this episode, we have a deep discussions on the sociopath/psychopath leadership in Network Marketing, our negative/positive experiences with the Indian-American culture, our feelings towards those that have excommunicated us, and how grateful we are to have the life we are living now.

Please enjoy, share, like comment.  Let us know any questions you would like discussed on the next episode.

Peace & Love,

Paul + Michelle

@cr3ateabundance

@michellegarabito

A love story that will inspire you to love more, live happier and go for the life you have always dreamed of.

This long awaited episode shares how Michelle Garabito and Paul Nelson fell in love.  While they knew each other for years building a network marketing business together, they were forbidden from spending time together and seeing if there was a deeper connection between them.

It was all kismet, as each of them had their own solo healing journeys to go on in that time since they were sent apart.  They each fell down and hit rock bottom in living lives that didn't work for themselves.  Then they each took years to rebuild themselves in a way that did work.  The big shift?  Making their own happiness and self care #1 in their lives.

Michell found God.  Paul went to the Amazon Jungle.  They both went celibate for years.  Create happy lives individually first.  And they created whole human beings that were capable of entering a romantic relationship from a position of strength, not desperation or neediness.

This story will bring you tears, make you laugh, inspire your hearts, and get you excited to hear what comes next.  It is our supreme pleasure to give this episode to you all as a Christmas present from our little Santa.

Sending love, joy and blessings to you all on this blessed day.

May 2021 bring you all your dreams and romantic relationship as beautiful as theirs.

P.S.  Part 2 will come in January, this is only Part 1 of the story :)

Welcome to 12 Years in N.M, Part 2.  In Part 1, we spoke about our experiences in N.M. and exposed the truth about the illegality of International Students on Visas building a N.M. business.  A fact that has been covered up, not discussed, and led to the mass manipulating of tax documents so as to not be discovered.  We discovered that this issue is rampantly and systematically abused across the country for decades without any regard for its effect on peoples lives and immigration statuses.

After over a month of healing, I have been able to come into this talk from a peaceful and zen state. In this episode Hugh Zhang and I do a follow up to our chat 5 weeks ago about Network Marketing. You will hear Hugh and I go deep into the System/Education Income that comes from Network Marketing.  How the income created by the top N.M. distributors comes mostly from selling of Cds/Audios, Phone Apps, Books and Conferences and not mainly from the income made from the N.M. company.  Furthermore, you will learn how this Educational system has used the last 5 weeks to cover up the truth that we spoke, through misleading their people and removing their concerns by assuring them it can be 'hidden in tax documents' so as to not be caught.

The main message of the talk is do not become a sheep so that others can manipulate you and hold your dreams/happiness hostage based on what you do or do not achieve.  Do the hard work of thinking for yourself and go create your own happiness right here, right now. Hugh and I have both taken that step and welcome each one of you to do the same. No amount of fame, recognition, business acumen, or money will bring you happiness. That is an inside job, that can be created in this moment anytime you want.

In paying homage to my African American brothers and sisters who are fighting for equal treatment right now, remember the mighty quote "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere" by MLK Jr.  Speak up, stand out.  When we do not, that is how evil triumphs.

Hope you enjoy Part 2 of our discussion. Wishing you endless love, joy, happiness and blessings.  Stay safe, and speak up.

Paul Nelson

In 2018, Hugh walked away from a million dollar Network Marketing business he invested 12 years in building.  Here is why.

Hugh and I met as freshman at University of Wisconsin -Madison back in 2006 and started a Networking Marketing business together at almost the same time.  He was a role model of mine and an example of how to work hard, stay disciplined and still have fun.  He came to the USA at the age of 16 years old from China and taught himself his forth language, English.  I was blessed to watch Hugh majestically build a million/multi-million dollar business before my eyes.  He drove many late nights, served so many and impacted thousands of people.  Huge was invited to get paid to travel to Australia and Vietnam as an acclaimed speaker.  Then in 2018, Hugh suddenly flew off to Europe and walked away from the empire he had built.  Everything continued on, without any explanation of what Hugh was doing and why.  Finally, after years of waiting I got to find out exactly why Hugh walked away from his business, what he has been up to and how he is actually doing. 

For anyone who is involved with, heard of, been exposed to or interested in a Network Marketing business, this is a must listen to gain the perspective of 25 plus years of combined Network Marketing experience.  This is not a bash nor an endorsement of the industry.  It is simply a review of the pros and cons and why both him and I decided to walk away for our own separate reasons.  It is insightful, funny, thought provoking and engaging.  You will not want to stop till you finish the full almost 2 hours. 

I applaud Hugh for his courage, wisdom and willingness to put himself out there, share what really went down and what he feels people need to know.  As a matter of respect, no names of people or companies are used as this information can be applied to any company or organization (except a few people we really share so much love for).

Do your own research, make up your own mind and do not let others control your thinking; THINK FOR YOURSELF.

Listen with love and an open mind.

All of this is in honor of our dearly departed friend, Elliott Powell Kane.  Miss you, love you buddy, RIP!

Gratefully,

Paul Nelson @cr3ateyourself