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- Why "The Materialist" Movie Gets Dating Standards All Wrong (My Honest Review)
I just watched "The Materialist" and I have some thoughts. This movie's message about dating and having standards? Let's just say I completely disagree with their approach.
The film revolves around a matchmaker trying to help her client find a person who fits their "list" of qualities they have for their ideal partner. But after watching it and seeing how it all plays out, the underlying message is: Stop being so picky and just settle for whoever shows up.
This is exactly the kind of advice that keeps women stuck in mediocre relationships.
Here's what I know for sure: I found my husband Will just one and a half months after writing my list. That clarity wasn't materialistic – it was strategic. It was me finally honoring my worth and refusing to settle for crumbs.
Your standards aren't too high. Perhaps what you have on your list shouldn’t be there like their height, which truly doesn’t matter and is one thing that the movie conveyed that I agreed with.
Want to hear my full take on why this movie's dating advice is completely backwards and what actually works when it comes to finding your person?
Listen to the full episode where I break down the real strategy behind attracting C.R.A.Z.Y. love – the kind where you can be Completely Real and Authentically, Zenfully You.
Connect with me here:👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
13 min - Love is Blind UK Reveals Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Men (Dating Coach Reacts)
Love is Blind UK just served up the most honest mirror of modern dating we've seen in years. And what it's reflecting back isn't pretty—but it's exactly what we need to see.
I'm breaking down the raw, unfiltered lessons from Love is Blind UK that expose the exact patterns keeping you stuck in situationships and settling for men who can't even spell "commitment."
💔 Katisha's Fatal Pattern: Choosing Familiar Pain
She literally said Javyn reminded her of her cheating exes—then picked him anyway. Sound familiar? This is why you keep attracting the same disappointing men. Stop choosing what feels like home when home was chaos.
🚩 The Grocery Store Test That Reveals Everything
Billy showed Ashley exactly who he was during their shopping trip—controlling, selfish, unwilling to compromise. Her gut screamed "run" but she overthought it. People show you their priorities early. The way they do one thing is how they do everything.
⚡ The Questions That Could Save Your Heartbreak
"Have you ever been in love? What's your longest relationship? Why haven't you committed before?" Sarover never asked Cal these questions—and got blindsided when his brother revealed his commitment issues. Stop getting caught off guard. Get informed.
If you're watching these couples make the same mistakes you've made, here's what I need you to understand: You're not broken. You're just using the wrong strategy.
The women who find their forever person aren't luckier than you. They simply learned how to show up authentically without desperate energy, recognize their worth and act accordingly, create space for the right person by saying goodbye to the wrong ones, and trust the process instead of trying to control the outcome.
Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts, and don't forget to subscribe to "Crazy Love or Nothing" for more no-BS dating advice that actually works.
Connect with me here:
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👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
34 min - The Real Reason He's Lurking on Your Instagram Instead of Messaging You
You know that feeling when he goes radio silent but keeps watching every single one of your Instagram stories? Before you write him off as an emotionally unavailable man-child, let me hit you with some dating advice that might sting a little.
Here's what I've discovered coaching dozens of women in modern dating: Sometimes it's not him being an asshole—it's you not being clear about your interest.
I was deep in the trenches with a client recently, and what we uncovered completely flipped the script on who was actually being emotionally unavailable in the dating situation.
Plot twist: The answer might surprise you.
In this dating podcast episode, I'm breaking down exactly how to tell the difference between a guy who's genuinely not interested and a dating scenario where YOU haven't communicated clearly enough. Plus, I'm giving you the exact words to use for healthy communication in dating relationships (and trust me, this situation will happen).
You want an emotionally intelligent partner? You have to BE emotionally intelligent first in your dating life.
Listen to the full episode to discover why you might be attracting men who aren't ready for commitment—and what to do about it for successful dating.
🔥 Join my FREE 3-day challenge: "Clean Your Dating Lens" - Three powerful hours with me to transform your dating approach 👉 https://jackieloor.com/lens
Connect with me here:👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
7 min - How Long Should You Wait for Him to Commit? (The Truth About Timing)
You're lying in bed at 2 AM, staring at your phone, wondering if this time he'll finally be ready to commit. Your heart is doing that familiar dance between hope and exhaustion.
Here's what most dating coaches won't tell you—sometimes waiting IS the right move. But only if you know the difference between a man who needs time and a man who's feeding you breadcrumbs.
The Breadcrumber: Keeps you hanging on with just enough attention to prevent you from walking away, but never follows through with real commitment.
The Worth-the-Wait Guy: Has a clear vision for his future that includes partnership, but needs time to align his actions with his intentions.
Want to know which category your guy falls into?
🎧 Listen to the full episode to discover the one question that reveals everything, plus the real story of how I waited 4 months for Will (my now-husband of 17 years) and why it was worth every second.
Ready to become a dating ninja who never settles for breadcrumbs again?
🔥 Join my FREE 3-day challenge: "Clean Your Dating Lens" - Three powerful hours with me to transform your dating approach 👉 https://jackieloor.com/lens
📖 Download my Dating Ninja Guide - The exact method I used to find Will in just one hour (seriously!) 👉 https://jackieloor.com/guide-
Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
8 min - The Real Secret to Finding Your Person (My Love Story + Dating Method That Works)
Ever wonder what it actually looks like when someone finds their person using a proven dating method? In this intimate conversation, I sit down with my husband Will to share the real story of how we met 19 years ago today and what made our connection different from every other dating experience
I'd had.
This isn't your typical "how we met" story. This is a masterclass in intentional dating that actually works.
What You'll Learn:
The One-Hour Dating Rule That Changed Everything
Intentional Dating vs. Endless Swiping
My C.R.A.Z.Y. Love Method in Action
If you're exhausted by the dating apps, tired of situationships, or starting to wonder if your person even exists - this conversation is your reminder that C.R.A.Z.Y. love (the kind where you can be Completely Real and Authentically, Zenfully You) is not only possible, it's inevitable when you have the right approach.
Will and I aren't sharing our story to brag - we're sharing it to show you what becomes possible when you stop settling and start applying a proven method that actually works.🎧
Listen to the full episode now to hear all the intimate details of our love story and the exact strategies that led me to my forever person!
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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Connect with me here:
👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
14 min - Stop Playing Damsel in Distress - It's Repelling Your Person
In today's episode, I'm calling out the "damsel in distress" pattern that's keeping successful women trapped in cycles of settling for less than they deserve in love.
What We're Covering:
👉 The Damsel Trap: You're crushing it professionally, but the moment you're around a man you like, you shrink. This helpless energy repels the quality men you actually want to attract.
👉 Your Worth Is Your Superpower: Why your career success doesn't translate to dating confidence and how to bridge that gap. When you know your value, you stop seeking validation from men who can't even validate themselves.
👉 Setting Standards Without Apology: How to communicate your needs with conviction. The right man won't be intimidated by your boundaries - he'll be grateful you have them.
👉 Abundance Over Scarcity: Flipping the toxic "there's no one out there" script. When you believe your person exists and is looking for someone exactly like you, your energy shifts everything.
I'm sharing real client stories of women who broke free from this pattern and found their C.R.A.Z.Y. love - where they can be Completely Real and Authentically, Zenfully You.
Ready to stop settling for situationships when your forever person is out there? Listen to the full episode where I reveal my proven strategies that have helped 36 women find their forever partners.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
7 min - Stop Asking Everyone Else What They Think About Your Love Life
Here's what I know after 17 years of marriage and helping 85 women find their forever person: Your intuition is never wrong. Never. But we've been conditioned to ignore it, doubt it, and seek validation everywhere except from the one source that actually matters - ourselves.
You know that feeling when you're on date three with someone who looks perfect on paper? He checks all the boxes you think matter. But something in your gut whispers, "This isn't right." And what do we do? We silence that voice. We rationalize. We make excuses. We ask our friends what they think.
Stop.
Your intuition isn't mean or judgmental - it's protective. It's that fierce inner mama bear who sees what your heart-eyes can't.
In this episode, I get raw and real about times when I ignored my gut and paid the price, and the pivotal moment when I finally listened and found Will, my husband of 17 years. I share my pause practice, why celebrating your journey matters more than seeking validation, and how my one-hour rule from the C.R.A.Z.Y. Love Method can change everything.
We've been taught to seek approval from others, ignore red flags for potential, and override our instincts with logic. But what if your intuition is actually your greatest dating asset? What if trusting your inner voice is the GPS guiding you toward your forever person?
The bottom line: Stop asking everyone else what they think about your relationship situation. Start asking yourself. The answer is already there, waiting for you to be brave enough to listen.
🎧 Ready to discover how to trust your intuition completely and become a dating ninja? Listen to the full episode now!
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
11 min - Your Meet Cute Won't Happen Through a Screen
Listen up. If you're feeling burnt out from the dating apps, that's completely normal.
Maybe it's time for a refreshing break. You've been swiping, crafting messages, analyzing responses - and honestly? Your energy deserves better right now.
Here's what I know:
The man meant for you isn't hiding behind another swipe.
17 years ago, I met Will not because I was hunting, but because I was BEING. Living fully, authentically, unapologetically.
That first hour together? Pure magic. No games. Just two souls recognizing each other.
The plot twist? I had stopped looking and started trusting.
When you're constantly swiping, you're operating from scarcity.
When you step into your full, radiant life? You become magnetic.
What Actually Works:
✨ Tell your people you're open - Not desperate. Open. There's a difference.
✨ Do what lights you up - That pottery class, hiking group, book club. Happy people attract happy people.
✨ Show up authentically - No masks. Just you, beautifully human.
✨ Say yes to group activities - Remove pressure, let real connections develop.
Your meet cute isn't going to happen through a screen. It's going to happen when you're living your most authentic life - at that coffee shop you love, the bookstore where you lose track of time, the dog park where you're laughing at your pup's antics.
Ready to ditch the apps and create your own magical meet cute? Listen to the full episode where I break down exactly how to make it happen.
Stop hunting. Start BEING. Your person will find you.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
10 min - AI in Your DMs: The Line Between Help and Deception in Modern Dating
Today we're diving into something that's been blowing up my DMs lately - using AI in your dating life.
Listen, I know some of you are side-eyeing this topic already. But before you write me off, hear me out. The world is changing, and pretending AI doesn't exist in our dating landscape is like pretending the internet never happened.
Here's what we're covering today:
Why your why matters more than your what when it comes to using AI
The difference between using ChatGPT as training wheels versus a permanent crutch
How to know if you're enhancing your communication or hiding behind technology
Look, if you're using ChatGPT because you genuinely want to communicate better and show up as your best self? I'm here for it. But if you're using it to catfish someone into loving a version of you that doesn't exist? We need to talk.
Your person - your real person - wants to fall in love with YOU. Not the AI-enhanced, perfectly polished version. They want your quirky texting style, your random thoughts at 2 AM, your authentic voice.
Remember: Tools are only as good as the intention behind them. Use AI to become a better communicator, not a different person.
Want the full unfiltered conversation? Listen to the complete episode where I break down exactly when AI helps versus hurts your dating life.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
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👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
7 min - Why "Don't Put All Your Eggs in One Basket" Is Bullsh*t Dating Advice
I'm calling out the most ridiculous dating advice that's keeping you stuck. If you're anxiously attached and exhausted from juggling multiple "maybes," this is your wake-up call.
What We're Covering:
Why dating multiple people when you're anxiously attached drains your energy
How to date with razor-sharp intention instead of scattered focus
The magic of full commitment when you've found true alignment
Why clarity on your worth changes everything
When you know your worth and have clarity on your ideal partner, putting all your eggs in one basket isn't risky—it's strategic.
Ready to ditch the scattered dating approach? Tune in for the complete breakdown of why focused intention beats playing the field every time.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
👉🏼Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thejackieloor/
👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
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About Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast
From the publisher's feed
Jackie is a love and dating coach who helps women find C.R.A.Z.Y. Love, a love where you can be Completely Real and Authentically Zenfully You!
In the Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast you will hear Jackie’s unfiltered stories, her empowering advice and interviews that will inspire you to take action.
This podcast will change your life.
New episodes of the Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast drop every Monday.
To learn more about Jackie, or to submit a topic or question, check out https://jackieloor.com
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