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- The Text That Almost Cost My Client Her Perfect Match
One of my clients thought she asked a guy "Do you want kids?" but actually sent "Do you want me to have your kids?" 💀
I'm dying. She was ready to write him off thinking they weren't aligned... but it was just a typo that almost ruined everything.
My PointPROOFREAD YOUR MESSAGES.
The universe wants to help you find your person, but you've got to show up present and intentional. Don't let a silly mistake cost you a potential connection.
I'm all about saying bye-bye to the wrong guys, but make sure they actually deserve the bye-bye first.
Listen to the full episode to hear why being present in your messaging changes everything.
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5 min - Why "Nice Guys" Are Keeping You Single (And What to Do Instead)
You're staring at your phone after another mediocre date, wondering why you feel more empty than excited.
Here's what I realized after helping 85+ women find their forever person: We've been doing this whole dating thing backwards.
Stop Leading with Your Body. Start Leading with Your Heart.
Physical chemistry cannot be forced. It takes time. Emotional connection? That's where the real magic happens.
When I found my husband Will (the only man who made it past one hour on a date with me), it wasn't because he was the hottest guy in the room. It was because within that first hour, I felt seen. I could be completely real and authentically, zenfully me.
Stop settling for nice guys who don't make your heart sing.
Good enough is the enemy of C.R.A.Z.Y. love.
You deserve someone who doesn't just add value to your life – you deserve someone who multiplies it. Someone whose emotional security makes you feel safe to be vulnerable.
The One-Hour Rule That Changed Everything.
Give someone one hour of your time. One hour to show you who they really are.
Create space for vulnerability. Ask the deep questions. Pay attention to how they respond to your authenticity.
Do they make you feel like you can be completely real and authentically, zenfully you?
If the answer is no, you're done. Thank you, next.
Trust the Process
Your person is not missing. They're coming.
When you stop entertaining temporary people, when you stop leading with the physical, when you start honoring your worth – everything shifts.
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10 min - Why Alcohol Is Killing Your Dating Game
This episode is all about how alcohol is quietly sabotaging your path to C.R.A.Z.Y. love - and you don't even realize it's happening.
You're missing your person because you're not present enough to recognize him. That's it. That's the episode.
Every time you show up tipsy to a date, you're essentially putting a "closed for business" sign on your heart. Your future husband could be sitting right across from you, and you'd miss every single green flag because you're operating through a fog.
What You Need To Know:
"Alcohol never helps you get to that space" - the space where real connection happens. Period.
"You need to know your limit" - not to avoid embarrassment, but to preserve your ability to attract high-quality men who want commitment.
"You're gonna miss out on opportunities for sure" - every moment you're checked out is a moment you're not building the skills that lead to lasting love.
Your ideal partner isn't looking for party girl energy. He's looking for a woman so secure in herself that she doesn't need anything external to shine.
Listen to the full episode to hear my personal stories about how staying present changed everything in my dating life - and how it can change yours too.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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7 min - The Truth About No-Shows (And Why You Should Thank Them)
My client got stood up after a week and a half of deep connection. If this has happened to you, listen up.
Do NOT make it mean anything about you.
Stop spiraling into "What's wrong with me? Am I not pretty enough?"
My client is an incredible light. She's so lovable. She didn't do anything wrong.
When someone doesn't show up, it's a revelation—they weren't aligned to you.
This person is not your person. If he doesn't love himself, how will he ever love anyone?
His inability to show up has nothing to do with your worth and everything to do with his own wounds.
If you're showing up with your heart on your sleeve—that person wasn't for you.
Don't overthink it. You are enough. Let's keep going.
The universe will deliver. Unwavering faith, my friends.
You're not getting rejected—you're getting redirected to your person.
Listen to the full episode for the complete story and more insights on how to navigate dating disappointments without losing faith in love.
Remember: Do not settle for anything less than C.R.A.Z.Y. love because it has to be C.R.A.Z.Y. love or nothing.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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6 min - Stop Putting Your Ex On A Pedestal
Today we're diving deep into something that's keeping SO many of you stuck in dating purgatory. And I'm going to be real with you because you have no time to waste.
Listen, I get it. That person you loved? They had their moments. But here's what I need you to understand... Those breadcrumbs you're still tasting? They're not a Michelin nine-course meal that you deserve.
I see you there, scrolling through old photos at 2 AM, remembering the "good times" while conveniently forgetting how they made you feel small. How they couldn't commit. How they left you questioning your worth.
Stop. Seriously, just stop.
Your brain is wired to romanticize what you can't have. Your ex isn't on that pedestal because they earned it. They're there because you put them there to avoid dealing with the reality of what that relationship actually was.
That person who "was so amazing"? They chose to walk away from YOU. They had access to your heart, your love, your energy - and they said "no thanks." That's not someone worthy of your continued admiration.
Your empathy is a gift. Stop giving it to people who don't choose you.
You deserve someone who doesn't need convincing. Someone who shows up consistently, not just when it's convenient. You deserve C.R.A.Z.Y. love - where you can be Completely Real and Authentically, Zenfully You.
The universe has your forever person ready to go. But there's no room for him in your life when you're still energetically tied to someone who chose to leave.
Stop telling the story where they're the hero who got away. Start telling the story where you're the woman who knows her worth and won't settle for less than she deserves.
Your person is out there. But first, you need to make space for him by releasing the ghost you've been dating in your head.
Ready to stop settling for breadcrumbs and start attracting the real deal? If this resonates and you're tired of your own patterns keeping you stuck, Check out the link below to book a deep dive call with me.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
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👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
12 min - Is It Too Late to Find Love?
If you're spiraling at 2 AM wondering if you've missed your shot at love, this episode will slap you back to reality. I'm addressing the question that haunts women at every age - from 29 to 50 and beyond.
Spoiler: It's not about your age, it's about your mindset. Your negative beliefs are blocking your soulmate, and I'm showing you exactly how to get out of your own damn way.
What toxic patterns are you still entertaining?
Are you dating with conviction or desperation?
Is your energy aligned with receiving love?
I believe the universe has your person waiting for you. But you have to get out of your own way. This isn't about perfection - it's about alignment, worth, and unwavering faith.
Remember: It has to be crazy love or nothing.
Time to Get Real🎧 Listen to the full episode now to get the complete breakdown on how to shift your mindset and start attracting your person today.-
Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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9 min - Why Love Languages Matter
Look, I've watched relationships crash and burn because of this one thing nobody talks about with love languages.
Don't ask "What's your love language?" on dating apps. Most people don't even know what that means. Instead, ask: "How do you show up in a relationship?" You'll get way more authentic answers.
Here's where most women mess up – they expect their partner to read their mind. You have to communicate what you need.
I'm huge on words of affirmation. Will? Not so much. I had to tell him: "I need to hear the words. I need you to tell me you miss me." His brain was like, "But I'm planning our weekend date!" And I'm like, "Cool, but send me a text that says you miss me."
If you tell someone your love language and they say, "I don't do that" – that's a bye-bye moment. Period.
But it goes both ways, queen. If they need physical touch and you're all about receiving gifts, you don't get to be like, "Nope, gifts only." You adjust. You learn. You show up.
If you're rolling your eyes at this, good. That resistance? That's exactly why you're still single or stuck with the wrong people.
Don't settle for someone who won't speak your love language. And don't be the person who refuses to learn theirs.
Remember: It has to be C.R.A.Z.Y. love or nothing.
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10 min - 17 Years Later and I'm Still Obsessed: The Non-Negotiable That Changes Everything
This weekend at Imagine Dragons with Will - watching him fist pump with pure joy, carrying his nephew, completely lost in the music... I fell in love all over again after 17 years.
On our first date, I asked Will about music. If he'd said "I'm not into it," that would've been a BYE-BYE moment. Music is my soul. He lit up talking about concerts, especially Smashing Pumpkins (we'd both been!).
Whatever lights you up - museums, hiking, deep conversations, dancing - that's not "nice to have." That's ESSENTIAL.
Stop the scarcity thinking: "What if there's no one else?" When you fearlessly own your passions, you create space for someone who celebrates them, not just tolerates them.
Ask about what matters to you. If they respond with "I hate that" or dismissive energy - that's your BYE-BYE moment. Not because they're bad, but because they're not YOUR person.
After 17 years, Will still shows up for what lights me up. That's crazy love - where you can be Completely Real and Authentically, Zenfully You.
Your person is out there, waiting to celebrate whatever makes your soul sing.
🎧 Want the full story? Listen to the complete episode where I dive deeper into why alignment matters more than compatibility and share more stories about Will and me after 17 years together.
📞 Ready to find YOUR person? Click the link below to book a Deep Dive Call with me. Let's get real about what's been keeping you stuck and create your personalized roadmap to crazy love.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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7 min - Your Dating Profile Is Broken (And 3 Quick Fixes That Actually Work)
Your dating profile is sabotaging your love life, and I'm about to call you out with some tough love.
After helping 36 women find their forever person (literally half online, half in real life), I know exactly what's keeping you invisible on the apps.
In This Episode, I Reveal:
✨ Quick Fix #1: Why your photos are giving zero energy (and the one thing that changes everything)
🎯 Quick Fix #2: The prompts that actually attract quality men who want to commit
🚫 Quick Fix #3: How being "Jaded Judy" is repelling your person
Stop saying "all the apps suck, all the men suck" and start asking: What can I do differently?
Your profile should attract your person and repel everyone else. When you're authentically vulnerable, you create space for real connection.
Remember: It has to be crazy love or nothing.
🎧 Listen to the full episode for all the juicy details and homework assignments that will transform your profile from invisible to irresistible.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
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11 min - Why My Husband Proposed on Our 6-Month Anniversary (And How You Can Know That Fast Too)
Welcome back to Crazy Love or Nothing! Today my husband, Will, joined the podcast to celebrate our 18 year anniversary since the day he proposed! We dive into why he proposed on our 6-month anniversary and how you can know that quickly if someone is your forever person.
What We're Covering
🔥 Alignment is Non-Negotiable - Stop explaining yourself to the wrong person
💭 Deep Conversations = Deep Connection - Surface talk creates surface relationships
⚡ Chemistry Can't Be Faked - If there's no spark, there's no point
🎯 Dating with Intention - Know your worth, know what you want
True partnership adds to your life. Your person should amplify your joy, not drain your energy.
This conversation reminded me why I help women find their C.R.A.Z.Y. love. Will and I didn't stumble into this - we were intentional and refused to settle.
36 of my clients have found their forever person. 5 are engaged. 2 are married. 1 is pregnant. 1 just had her first baby!
This isn't luck. This is what happens when you stop playing games.
Listen to the full episode to hear Will and me break down exactly how we've built 18 years of unshakeable love - and how you can find yours too.
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Book a call with me to see if my coaching program is the right fit for you
👉🏼 https://link.jackieloor.com/widget/survey/YQeJuW7b6N84ASCrn6vt
Connect with me here:
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👉🏼Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jackieloorlovecoach
👉🏼Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackieloor
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About Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast
From the publisher's feed
Jackie is a love and dating coach who helps women find C.R.A.Z.Y. Love, a love where you can be Completely Real and Authentically Zenfully You!
In the Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast you will hear Jackie’s unfiltered stories, her empowering advice and interviews that will inspire you to take action.
This podcast will change your life.
New episodes of the Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast drop every Monday.
To learn more about Jackie, or to submit a topic or question, check out https://jackieloor.com
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