How often have you heard the expression, "Success is the Best Revenge." If we navigate our earthly journey with the conscious or unconscious fuel, "You hurt me, and I'll show you what I will do." If you choose to be successful because of revenge, daily, you feed your nervous system, the entity that sends messages to every cell in your body, with vengeful thoughts. What messages are you sending to your body daily?
Because we are so focused on paying someone back, we can miss the cues that our body is out of harmony and more susceptible to disease. We can ruin relationships instead of increasing our bonds through communication and spending quality energy and time doing the things we love.
If you are putting projected pain in its rightful place (someone else's pain), seeing the person's heart, and not taking their actions personally, you don't have the energy, money, and time to waste on revenge. You have everything you need to transcend experiences, and you don't need to cover up your wounds. Instead, you focus more on using your experiences for the greater good without the excess baggage.
In addition, revenge is not ours. People create present and future energy with their actions and reap what they sew. Love is healing and wants others to heal, yet, love doesn't force people to do something they are not ready to do.
Therefore, revenge is unnecessary if you heal correctly from the inside out and put your experiences in a spiritual perspective. You don't seek revenge or have ill-will towards the person and just a conviction to do what you came here to do on all levels.
As always, make this lifetime great because you still can!