What is your purpose? What were you meant to accomplish in your lifetime? Are you living life to your fullest?
In this episode of The New Music Industry Podcast, I interview Jules Schroeder of Unconventional Life. She shares how she came to understand her purpose in this world, how she encourages others to live a life of passion, what we can do to find a platform for our message, and much more.
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Podcast Highlights:
00:14 – Introductions
00:25 – How would you describe what you do?
02:08 – Multipotentialites and the traditional model of success
04:10 – Creating a connection through passion
06:16 – Near death experience
10:24 – Spiritual experiences and living life to the fullest
15:05 – What does music entrepreneurship mean to you?
20:04 – Being unreasonable
21:46 – The unconventional life is becoming the conventional life
26:37 – What is your number one tip for building a podcast audience?
30:28 – How do you find a platform for your message?
35:43 – Are there any books you recommend?
37:11 – Closing thoughts
Transcription:
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David Andrew: Today I'm chatting with the founder of Unconventional Life, Jules Schroeder. How are you today, Jules?
Jules: I'm doing wonderful. Good to be here. How are you doing?
David Andrew: I'm doing great. Thank you for asking. So you're an entrepreneur, musician, speaker, and podcaster. I'm sure there are other things you do and other titles you have, but just so we can create a bit of a context for my listeners, how would you describe what you do?
Jules: Yeah. Um, well at times, uh, people have come to my website and said, it's a little ADD. It's kind of sporadic. Like, who are you? Cause you'll see stuff like, On my Instagram, you'll see travel photos. You'll see me leading workshops. You'll see me in the recording studio performances. You'll see me snowboarding.
I was a sponsored snowboarder for a while. And I think at the essence of [00:01:00] it, I'm a very multi passionate. And for so long, I used to think that was a problem that, you know, like I like doing all these different things and that I didn't have much focus. And what I actually realized is that as I've learned to own all of the different areas of self expression, Literally created my company unconventional life almost as a, a home to embody the non traditional it's allowed me to, uh, not only create more impact in the world, but also just have a lot of more fun in the process.
And so, you know, for me, I'm someone that really believes that this conventional frame we've been inherited, you know, that I inherited, which was, you know, go to school. Get good grades, get into a good college, get a good job and then get a better job and then eventually die, um, is outdated and there's a million and one ways to make money in this world and to create a life that you love in this world and I love storytelling and I love giving people permission using my own self as an example so that more of us can do what we want, um, with our lives and ultimately take these gifts that we have inside of us and really create structures and, uh, ways to, to play, um, so that we have more fulfillment and more fun.
David Andrew: Mm-Hmm. And by way of a couple of comments. You know, I think that movement is beginning to grow. The whole thing about Multipotentialite, I think Emily Watnick at uh, putty like.com, that was one of the first times I'd heard it's okay to be, you know, involved in whole variety of different things and.
And pursue what it is that you want to do and enjoy every aspect of that, which is really cool. And then the other thing that you touched on was that traditional model of success that so many people still subscribe to. It's actually incredible to me, but my first exposure to something outside of that was network marketing.
And I've talked to others who share that experience and some people have had it. you know, huge success in network marketing. I never did. I would love to say that I exceeded in every area of life. And that hasn't necessarily been the case. I felt like I felt more so that everything that I was involved in pushed me to what I'm doing today.
Push me closer and closer and closer towards the music entrepreneur HQ and being engaged in that side of things. So everybody's story is unique in that regard, but it's, it's cool to hear that. I think a lot of people do need to hear that and just to wake up to that reality.
Jules: Absolutely. And especially like as creatives, you know, I find that part of being the artist is one that allows emotions or forms of expression or gifts to flow through them.
And often I've felt misunderstood. In my life many times, uh, just because of how I interacted with the world and how I create in the world, it's just different. Um, and being that artist side and even how do I make money and how do I deal with the practicality of life and how do I deal with those conversations?
I find, um, there could be a lot of misunderstoodness and I think that's part of the beauty of your podcast and conversations like this, that we're not alone. Even if you felt like the lone wolf or the odd one out, definitely another narrative that I really related to in my life. You know, it's people like us coming together and saying, yeah, we're different.
We, we process things differently, but in so many ways, we're kind of like, it's our, our superpower. It's our advantage that we get to feel and create, um, in these capacities. At least that's been true for me. So
David Andrew: It's so true. And in some ways it's actually really hard to avoid like I've put together videos before for patreon another thing that I never did very well at I might try it again, but Uh, they would just say like, Oh, you're kind of sabotaging yourself in this video.
Like, why are you putting yourself down? And I said, I don't understand what you're, there's no part of my language that I use where I'm putting myself down. But you're right. It's like, you really do have to think about how you're coming across to, to others, but as you begin to find what it is that you're doing, I think it becomes easier that.
Passion just begins to show through.
Jules: Absolutely. And I find too, am I like, I have a slogan that's like, word creates our world. It is through what we say and how we share that our world and our opportunities and things get created. And, uh, you know, I find so often it's like, I'm not having the success that I want to have used to be a conversation that I'd have, or I'm not getting the results that I want to have.
And I find most of the time, if you're hearing this and that is something, you know, a narrative for you too, is that most of the time people just don't know who they can count on you for. What you're actually doing and how to support you. And I find that in your sharing, in your willingness to expose yourself and be vulnerable and put yourself out there and actually tell people what you're up to in the world.
It gives that invitation and opportunity for people to actually show up. And so often, you know, I talk to friends and Like I won't make more money or I don't have enough money. And I'm like, well, how many ways or invitations do you have for people to pay you? And they're just like, you know, Oh, well, okay.
I could actually have, you know, um, explicit ways for people to contribute. So definitely another area that I like as well.
David Andrew: Totally. And I've shared about that on the podcast before, just saying like, there probably are people. Willing to spend two, 300 with you at a time just for some kind of packaged up deal of all of your catalog, or maybe even a thousand dollars if you offered like a package of performances for them.
You know, it's, it's pretty incredible when you begin to think about it. It's just, you have to put that offer out there or else nobody can buy it.
That's what exists. So many great rabbit trails we could go down, but, uh, I wanted to touch on this for sure.
Your bio mentions a near death experience that caused you to identify what you were meant to do. So talk about that experience.
Jules: Yeah. So that happened three years ago, straight up, like had a near death experience. experience and launch this next phase of my life. That was, uh, that happened. It was, uh, about three years ago as a wakeboarding accident.
And, uh, I was out in Colorado and full on, um, just remember coming out of the MRI and the hospital and was approached by this white figure and six black shadow council member. And we had this conversation and it was Jules, you have more work to do in the world. Do you want to do it? And at the time they thought I might have been paralyzed.
I thought my neck might've been broken. And I just remember saying, yes, as long as I don't come back as a vegetable. And literally in that next moment, got zap back into my body. I felt this energy forge my neck back together and shoot down my spine. And the moment that I woke up, I feel like everything altered.
And, uh, it was very much before it was like life before. It felt like it was being created by me in life. Since feels like it's been coming through me. And, uh, you know what I mean by that specifically is that it's like allowing myself to be an instrument for life and allowing things to come through rather than being this person who I was for so many years before I had success at a young age, ran my first six figure company at 18 and seven figure company at 22, had a business puzzle.
Partner embezzled a bunch of money at 24, went to 200, 000 worth of debt. Like I was very much on a mission of one success peak to another success peak before, and I could never actually appreciate the success I had. And I always felt like I had something to prove, like no matter what I did, it never felt like it was enough.
No matter what I was creating,