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What if you don’t need more—you need to stop tolerating what no longer fits?
Kimberly Spencer explores how personal standards, subconscious beliefs, and your environment shape the way you lead. From a podcast studio upgrade to seven-figure client conversations, discover practical ways to support conscious business growth, strengthen team effectiveness, and create meaningful change with what you already have.
In this episode you’ll learn how to:
Your next breakthrough could begin with a better system, a higher standard—or simply moving a plant. 👑
Enjoy, sovereigns!
“Your external reality will always mirror what you have going on inside.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“You will know your evolution by the growth of the environment that you're in.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Where judgment comes into play is when we say, ‘You should do it my way.’” ~ Kimberly Spencer
00:32 — Conscious Manifestation: Aligning Your Environment With Your Inner Standards
02:50 — How to Raise Your Standards and Stop Tolerating What Holds You Back
05:11 — Upgrade Your Environment Without Spending More: Small Changes That Matter
07:31 — Align Your Workspace With Your Goals: The Power of Moving a Plant
09:46 — Set Standards for Your Space While Respecting Your Family’s Autonomy
12:07 — Conscious Business Growth: Do You Need More Resources—or Better Systems?
14:31 — Improve Team Effectiveness and Choose Deeper Business Conversations
16:48 — Your Next Leadership Move: Maximize the Resources You Already Have
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF 🙌🏼
Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com
Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media
Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk
NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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🎆 COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍
We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.
🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself
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💕 Say “hi” on social:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow
Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself
Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now
Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/
Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now
Crown Yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself
🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip
MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to raise your standards? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/ZzFhyH4XtDU
How do we embrace technology without outsourcing our humanity?
Jason Medley is the founder of Thrively, a boutique recruiting and HR firm helping fast-growing tech companies make smarter, evidence-based hiring decisions. With more than 20 years of experience in HR, organizational psychology, and leadership, Jason specializes in blending human insight with AI to modernize recruiting without losing the human connection. He's also the creator of VERDICT, an AI-powered leadership assessment tool, and is passionate about helping individuals and organizations thrive through clarity, purpose, and conscious innovation.
Artificial intelligence is changing everything—but trust is becoming more valuable than ever. Kimberly Spencer and Jason Medley explore conscious leadership, authentic communication, AI, company culture, and why your humanity is your greatest competitive advantage in today's visibility economy. If you're building a legacy brand in the age of AI, this conversation is essential listening.
Enjoy, sovereigns!
"In a visibility economy where information is literally everywhere, trust is your currency, emotional resonance can actually be your positioning strategy, and your authentic voice is one of the rarest assets that you actually have." ~ Kimberly Spencer
"The leaders who adopt strong principles, lean into their humanity, and show up authentically are the ones people will want to follow." ~ Jason Medley
"AI should be a tool that enables you to make better decisions—not the thing that makes the decisions for you." ~ Jason Medley
00:00 – Why Human Connection Is the Ultimate Competitive Advantage in the Age of AI
02:46 – The Leadership Crisis AI Didn't Create—But Is Exposing
07:33 – Why Trust Is Becoming More Valuable Than Technology
10:25 – Building Company Culture Through Emotional Resonance Instead of Burnout
14:26 – How to Hire Better Leaders Using AI Without Losing Human Judgment
19:04 – The Hidden Danger of AI-Generated Thought Leadership
23:04 – Founder-Led Brands: Why Authentic Conversations Beat Automated Content
26:12 – Depth Over Reach: The Future of Human-Centered Marketing
29:40 – Why Polarizing Ideas Build Stronger Leadership Brands
34:03 – The Golden Ladder: Are You Climbing Someone Else's Definition of Success?
39:50 – Designing Your Business Around the Life You Actually Want
43:11 – Why AI Can Never Replace Trusted Relationships and Wise Counsel
46:10 – The Danger of Letting AI Make Your Biggest Business Decisions
48:15 – Jason Medley's Health Transformation and the Birth of Orvo
52:59 – People First, Technology Second: The Future of Conscious Healthcare
55:39 – Why Human Experiences Will Matter More Than Ever in an AI Economy
58:04 – The End of Performative Company Culture and Forced Team Building
59:18 – How Values-Based Leadership Attracts Exceptional Talent
1:01:12 – Leadership Lessons for the AI Era: Humanity Is Still the Advantage
1:02:08 – Rapid Fire: Olivia Pope, Einstein, Money Habits & What It Means to Crown Yourself
Connect with Jason Medley
AI Tools mentioned:
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF 🙌🏼
Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com
Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media
Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk
NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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🎆 COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍
We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.
🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself
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💕 Say “hi” on social:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow
Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself
Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now
Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/
Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now
Crown Yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself
🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdipMTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to connect with humans using AI? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=doWqSD-sa3Y&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP&pp=sAgC
Do you struggle with being overly self-critical? Are you being too hard on yourself?
If you’ve ever wondered how to stop being so hard on yourself, THIS episode is for you. Having worked with high achieving leaders, entrepreneurs, and business owners for the past 5 years, and has been a recovering perfectionist who was especially skilled at being self-critical, I’ve seen so many high performers, including myself, struggle with being too hard on themselves, especially at work.
There is a difference between having high expectations and goals for what you want to achieve, and being too hard on yourself. In fact, I’ve noticed that when you’re too hard on yourself, not only does your level of happiness and fulfillment suffer but so does…eventually…your performance and results.
Listen to this episode to get some examples of being too self-critical and my strategies to stop being so hard on yourself.
And if you have a fellow high-achieving friend who you wish wouldn’t be so hard on herself, then please, share this with her.
#toohardonyourself #mindset #positiveselftalk
THE CROWN YOURSELF PODCAST PLAYLIST LINK: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
💖 RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO:
👑 Join our FREE Crown Yourself Community on Facebook:
http://bit.ly/crown-yourself-coaching-group
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BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS TO HELP YOU STOP BEING SO HARD ON YOURSELF
📚 The Undiscovered Self by Dr. Carl Jung https://amzn.to/3rEjLyH
📚 Hardwiring Happiness by Rick Hanson https://amzn.to/2PRyoQV
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Mompreneur Motivation:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3QHR59hYlE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuik-SyGWvkK-sb0eInGQkna
Queen Convos to Rule Your Life, Body, and Business:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxujWw1RjalU1InwVHg2os1KB
Mind Your Mindset
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxuiH9Qz6EoxScY8ahlOaZjth
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🎆 COACHING: Want to grow your business 150% in the next 12 months? Our Queen Team is accepting applications now to work with Kimberly 1:1. Serious inquiries only pls. Check out the deets + book a consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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💕 Say “hi” on social:
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
#CrowYourself Facebook: https://facebook.com/crownyourselfnow
#CrownYourself Twitter: https://twitter.com/crownyounow
#CrownYourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now
#CrownYourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/
#CrownYourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourselfnow
🎙 Listen to The Princess and the B PODCAST here:
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/princessandthebpodcast
Google Podcasts: http://bit.ly/theprincessandtheb-googlepodcasts
Stitcher: http://bit.ly/theprincessandtheb-stitcher
iHeartRadio: https://ihr.fm/3qFY2Ge
Spotify: http://bit.ly/theprincessandthebpodcast
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support!
🥰 Loved learning how to stop being too hard on yourself? Watch this video again: https://youtu.be/fntRB_s98u0
Why can a compliment feel uncomfortable—even when you secretly want to believe it?
In this Encore Episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals how self-doubt and the ego’s need to be right can block praise from landing. Discover how to stop deflecting appreciation, receive compliments with gratitude, and transform an outdated self-image into sovereign confidence.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
#compliments #confidence #selfesteem
💖 RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO:
Grab your FREE LOVE Hypnosis here to start practicing receiving more love: https://crownyourselfcoaching.com/love-wins
👑 Join our FREE Crown Yourself Community on Facebook:
http://bit.ly/crown-yourself-coaching-group
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BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS TO HELP YOU RECEIVE COMPLIMENTS
📚 The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership by Jim Dethmer, Diana Chapman: https://amzn.to/2IKm92P
📚 As a Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/384rKxb
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📺 OTHER PODCAST EPISODES ON THIS TOPIC:
(#55) Need Validation? THIS is it: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-princess-and-the-b/id1452686389?i=1000452629694
(#115) Do NOT Be You: Best Self-Help Advice You’ll Ever Receive https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/115-do-not-be-you-best-self-help-advice-youll-ever/id1452686389?i=1000504305169
(#141) How to Get People to Respect You: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/141-how-to-get-people-to-respect-you/id1452686389?i=1000528605850
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🎆 COACHING: Want to grow your business 150% in the next 12 months? Our Queen Team is accepting applications now to work with Kimberly 1:1. Serious inquiries only pls. Check out the deets + book a consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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💕 Say “hi” on social:
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
#CrowYourself Facebook: https://facebook.com/crownyourselfnow
#CrownYourself Twitter: https://twitter.com/crownyounow
#CrownYourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now
#CrownYourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/
#CrownYourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourselfnow
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support!
🥰 Loved this podcast episode? Listen to it again: https://youtu.be/pcYly90ufCk
What if your business slowdown isn’t failure—but winter?
In this encore episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals how to identify your current business season, navigate cash-flow challenges and rapid growth, and prepare for sustainable success. Discover why sovereign leadership means honoring cycles of rest, creation, expansion, and harvest instead of expecting success to remain linear.
Enjoy, sovereigns!
“We are natural beings, and thus, to deny seasonality and think that we need to flatline at some point of productivity is just not natural.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Creation always follows destruction. Spring always follows winter.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Keep going, keep trusting, and keep seeing your vision and your business for the long term.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
00:00 — What Season of Business Are You In?
Kimberly introduces the natural cycles shaping business, life, relationships, and personal growth.
02:45 — Why Entrepreneurial Success Is Not Linear
How social media’s highlight reel creates unrealistic expectations of constant productivity and uninterrupted growth.
05:12 — The Four Seasons of Business Growth
Understanding winter as rest, spring as creation, summer as expansion, and autumn as harvest.
07:41 — Honoring Seasons of Rest, Recovery, and Renewal
Kimberly shares how motherhood, maternity leave, and postpartum healing reflected a personal winter season.
10:16 — Moving From Healing Into High-Performance Growth
How planting small seeds of healthy routines prepared Kimberly for a stronger, more passionate season with her body.
12:50 — Signs Your Business Is in a Winter Season
Cash-flow pressure, declining sales, team changes, and strategies that no longer work may indicate a period of business contraction.
14:14 — Turning Leadership Challenges Into Stronger Boundaries
Why difficult employees, misaligned clients, and operational friction can reveal the standards your business needs next.
15:35 — How Destruction Creates the Seeds of Reinvention
Kimberly reflects on leaving her e-commerce business and how that challenging experience helped plant the seed for Crown Yourself®.
17:04 — Beauty From the Ashes: Finding Opportunity After Loss
A powerful story of fire-damaged California hills illustrates how seemingly barren seasons can become fertile ground for renewal.
18:16 — How to Survive Cash-Flow Challenges in Business
Kimberly offers encouragement for entrepreneurs navigating revenue fluctuations, financial pressure, and uncertain growth.
19:33 — Navigating Rapid Business Growth Without Burning Out
What the passionate “summer” of business looks like—and why fast expansion needs supportive systems and sustainable leadership.
20:37 — Preparing Your Business for the Next Downturn
How mentorship, operations, cash reserves, recurring revenue, and stronger processes can make future winters less severe.
21:58 — Understanding Economic and Industry Growth Cycles
Why your company, industry, relationships, and the wider economy may each be moving through different seasons.
23:26 — Is Your Industry Growing, Harvesting, or Entering Winter?
Kimberly uses the podcasting industry to explain how markets move through innovation, expansion, monetization, and contraction.
24:40 — How Seasonal Thinking Creates Resilience and Grace
Why recognizing the temporary nature of every season can help conscious leaders release judgment and make wiser decisions.
26:23 — Prepare During the Harvest for a More Abundant Spring
The importance of gathering resources during profitable seasons and preparing intentionally for future business challenges.
27:40 — Create a Business and Life That Rules
Kimberly closes with an invitation to share the episode, create a royal ripple, and lead from sovereignty.
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF 🙌🏼
Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com
Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media
Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk
NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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🎆 COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍
We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.
🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself
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💕 Say “hi” on social:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow
Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself
Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now
Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/
Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now
Crown Yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself
🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip
MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to thrive in challenging business seasons? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/Unf8ii3ZAug
What if achieving the dream revealed that you had outgrown it?
Tirzah Shirai is a visionary entrepreneur, conscious business leader, and founder of BlinkBar, which she grew from a small apartment pop-up into a $30 million company in less than five years. She now helps purpose-driven entrepreneurs integrate spiritual wisdom, feminine leadership, and practical business strategy to create meaningful wealth, lasting impact, and soul-aligned success.
BlinkBar founder Tirzah Shirai shares how she built a $30 million company, survived a devastating shutdown, and transformed disruption into freedom. Discover how to redefine wealth, balance feminine wisdom with masculine structure, and build a soul-aligned business without sacrificing who you came here to
Enjoy, sovereigns!
“Children don’t learn what you say. They learn who you are. They learn by what you do and how you show up in the world.”
— Tirzah Shirai
“We don’t get to take anything with us except ourselves, our soul, and what we’ve built up. So what do we want to pass on and leave behind?” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“The world needs heart-led entrepreneurs, mothers, and healers to step forward in their gifts.”
— Tirzah Shirai
00:00 – From $30 Million to Freedom: What Happens After Achieving the Dream?
05:56 – Leaving BlinkBar and Answering a Soul-Aligned Business Calling
09:06 – How to Recognize When Your Successful Business Is No Longer Aligned
11:30 – Redefining Wealth, Love, Motherhood, and Meaningful Success
15:26 – Losing a Major Investment: Why the Shutdown Became Her Greatest Gift
18:54 – Helping Heart-Led Entrepreneurs Turn Their Gifts Into Abundance
23:18 – How to Know When You Have Outgrown a Business or Identity
24:23 – Balancing Divine Feminine Flow With Masculine Business Structure
28:54 – Why Freedom Requires Structure, Strategy, and an Integrator
32:10 – The Missing Link in Manifestation: Becoming Able to Hold Success
35:00 – Golden Shadow Work: Reclaiming the Success You See in Others
37:36 – Signs You Are Climbing the Wrong Mountain of Success
42:27 – Creating a Slower Life Through Spiritual Practice and Conscious Structure
44:04 – From Housework to Home Care: Restoring Reverence in Everyday Life
47:04 – Business Life Cycles, Spiritual Detachment, and Redefining Legacy
51:08 – Bringing Divine Feminine Leadership Into the Future of Business
54:39 – Protecting Your Inner Pictures, Energy, and Subconscious Mind
57:25 – An Ancient Mystery-School Practice for Strengthening Your Will
1:00:06 – Rapid-Fire Questions: Spirituality, Motherhood, and Daily Rituals
1:02:37 – Servant Leadership: Redefining Your Queendom Through Service
1:04:27 – The Venusian School of Business and Building With Divine Alignment
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
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NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.
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🎙Subscriibe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here:
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Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nfk368ZopWo&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP&pp=sAgC
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Have you ever watched someone else receive the opportunity, recognition, or success you wanted—and quietly thought, But I’m more qualified than they are?
Being exceptional isn’t enough if no one remembers you. Kimberly Spencer reveals why talented leaders remain invisible—and how subconscious safety patterns, unclear positioning, perfectionism, and trend-chasing dilute their authority. Discover how to turn your expertise into unforgettable stories, communicate your convictions with clarity, and become known without sacrificing your integrity or performing for attention.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Enjoy, sovereigns!
“Popularity does not necessarily equal profitability.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Authority is something that you assert.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Trendsetters are trendsetters for a reason: they set the trends. They don’t follow the trends.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
00:20 — Why Talented Entrepreneurs Get Overlooked
Why greater expertise doesn’t automatically lead to recognition, opportunities, or business growth.
01:22 — Hidden Excellence vs. Remembered Excellence
The uncomfortable truth about visibility—and why becoming known matters as much as becoming exceptional.
02:44 — Build Authentic Authority That Attracts Customers
Why followers and popularity don’t necessarily create profitability, revenue, or sustainable success.
03:22 — The Invisible Beliefs Blocking Business Visibility
How subconscious patterns—not a lack of talent—create visibility ceilings for successful founders.
04:12 — Unclear Brand Positioning Dilutes Your Expertise
Why inconsistent communication, sporadic content, and disconnected personal brands make exceptional leaders easier to overlook.
06:13 — Why Your Nervous System Chooses Safety Over Visibility
Understanding the biological fear of rejection, criticism, and standing out from the crowd.
08:32 — Enter the Arena: How to Handle Online Criticism
A counterintuitive way to prepare your subconscious mind for judgment, negative reviews, and greater exposure.
10:51 — Normalize Visibility and Survive Being Misunderstood
Why growth requires accepting that you won’t satisfy everyone—and that criticism doesn’t make you unsafe.
11:33 — Stop Shrinking and Communicate with Authority
How people-pleasing, perfectionism, and watering down your message weaken your sovereign leadership.
12:39 — Stop Hiding Behind Credentials and Certifications
Why qualifications may support authority—but transformation, results, and meaningful stories create it.
14:41 — Imperfect Action Creates Confidence and Clarity
Why confidence doesn’t come first—and how testing your ideas reveals what actually works.
16:05 — Stop Chasing Trends and Lead with Originality
How following every social media trend can turn an authority into a follower—and why true leaders communicate original perspectives.
18:41 — Make Your Expertise Impossible to Overlook with KNOWN
How to articulate your convictions, position your expertise, build trust, and scale beyond your constant presence.
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF 🙌🏼
Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com
Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media
Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk
NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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🎆 COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍
We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.
🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself
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🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here:
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What if your self-sabotage isn’t a character flaw, but a nervous-system response inherited through generations?
In this Encore episode, Dr. Valerie Rein reveals how Patriarchy Stress Disorder can affect women’s visibility, wealth, wellbeing, and leadership. Discover why mindset work may not be enough—and how to make power, pleasure, and success feel safe in your body.
Dr. Valerie Rein is a psychologist, women’s mental health expert, business consultant, and creator of Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD). Through her science-backed approach, she helps women heal the intergenerational trauma of oppression so they can experience greater success, happiness, and fulfillment. She holds advanced degrees from Columbia University and the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology and is the bestselling author of Patriarchy Stress Disorder. A sought-after speaker, Dr. Valerie specializes in the intersection of deep inner work, leadership, business, and human potential.
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💖 RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO:
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Mompreneur Motivation:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3QHR59hYlE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuik-SyGWvkK-sb0eInGQkna
Queen Convos to Rule Your Life, Body, and Business:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxujWw1RjalU1InwVHg2os1KB
Mind Your Mindset
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxuiH9Qz6EoxScY8ahlOaZjth
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🎙 Listen to The Crown Yourself Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBhCXTH-7qQ&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP&pp=sAgC
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support!
🥰 Loved learning how to breakthrough Patriarchy Stress Disorder? Listen to this episode again + share it with a friend: https://youtu.be/sxW0B-_OokM
What if the drama draining your energy isn’t random—but a subconscious pattern keeping you seen, busy, or safely stuck?
In this ENCORE episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals how high achievers unconsciously create chaos through avoidance and how to shift from drama and perfectionism into excellence, conscious leadership, and progress. Discover the simple framework: Approach. Decide. Create progress. Your next level doesn’t need more drama—it needs your leadership.
What you will learn from this episode…
Enjoy, sovereigns!
How you will know if you are healing is by what you feel inside. Your triggers are your teachers. ~ Kimberly Spencer
All we have control over is ourselves and so, in our own projections, it's always you versus you. ~ Kimberly Spencer
Excellence is a practice. It's a skillset, and it's a constant, moving, infinite goal. Because it's an infinite goal. You will probably never reach it in this lifetime, but we can still chase it. ~ Kimberly Spencer
Avoidance gets to create drama. That's the foundation of drama. Drama is created when you avoid the problem. ~ Kimberly Spencer
Drama and Visibility (00:00:00) Discussion about the impact of drama on visibility and attention, especially in the context of social media and business.
Childhood Trauma and Drama (00:01:25) Personal experiences of trauma and its influence on attracting drama, and the subconscious belief that drama can provide validation and attention.
Subconscious Beliefs and Drama (00:02:34) Exploring the possibility of subconscious beliefs around drama and the attraction of drama for visibility and attention, especially in the context of recent world events.
Conscious Scrolling and Self-Reflection (00:03:45) The importance of conscious scrolling and self-reflection in managing drama and negative comments on social media, and the role of triggers in assessing belief systems.
Shifting Beliefs from Drama to Excellence (00:05:56) The process of shifting beliefs from drama and perfectionism to a focus on excellence and setting higher standards, and the impact of these shifts on personal growth and success.
The decision to progress (00:25:05) Kimberly discusses the shift from drama to results and making decisions for financial growth and personal progress.
Avoidance and drama in different areas (00:26:45) Kimberly talks about avoiding financial issues, business chaos, and body drama by engaging with problems and making decisions.
The energetics of avoidance (00:27:45) Kimberly shares her personal experience of creating drama through avoidance and discusses the impact of avoidance on creating drama.
Eliminating drama through engagement (00:30:10) Kimberly encourages listeners to identify areas of avoidance that lead to drama and engage with tough conversations for personal growth.
Invitation to high-performance consultation (00:31:23) Kimberly invites listeners to book a high-performance consultation to identify subconscious success strategies and create a power profit plan.
Conclusion and call to action (00:32:28) Kimberly concludes the episode by encouraging listeners to subscribe, share, and connect with her on social media for more inspiration.
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For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF 🙌🏼
Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com
Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media
Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk
NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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🎆 COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍
We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.
🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself
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🎙Subscriibe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip
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Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself
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AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to stop being a "drama queen" and start thriving? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/AnzflqqsVVc?si=S30SndSnXOiBqzjM
Could your identity be limiting your income?
In this powerful Encore episode of the Crown Yourself Podcast, you'll discover why your next level of income isn't determined by how hard you work—it's determined by the subconscious beliefs shaping your identity. Kimberly Spencer unpacks the hidden mindset patterns that silently cap revenue and shows you how sovereign leadership begins with expanding your capacity to receive.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Queen, if this episode unlocked something inside you… imagine what happens when you do this work weekly.
Inside The Collective, we don’t just identify subconscious beliefs — we transform them.
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If you’re ready to stop chasing $100K and start magnetizing it…
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Enjoy, sovereigns!
“Familiarity is your subconscious mind’s definition of safety, not success.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“If your belief system isn’t aligned with your next level, no strategy will stick.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Imposter syndrome means you’re playing in a bigger room. It’s a sign of growth, not inadequacy.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
00:00 – The Identity Behind Your Income (Powerful Opening Insight)
Kimberly challenges the belief that income is tied to effort and introduces the concept of identity-driven wealth.
01:10 – The Book That Started a Podcasting Revolution (Authority Positioning)
Kimberly spotlights Make Every Podcast Want You, reinforcing her credibility and mission.
02:00 – Welcome to Crown Yourself: Conscious Leadership & Sovereign Success
Setting the tone for the episode—mindset, sovereignty, subconscious transformation, and high-performance identity work.
03:32 – What’s Really Holding Back Your Next $100K? (Episode Overview)
Introduction to the five subconscious beliefs capping your income and keeping you in patterns of overwork.
04:40 – Case Study: The Client With a Hidden 250K Business (Revelatory Moment)
A powerful client example showing how identity—not strategy—was blocking her from activating the 250K business she already built.
06:05 – Hidden Belief #1: “I Have to Work Harder to Earn More” (Worthiness Wound)
How tying self-worth to performance keeps entrepreneurs exhausted, undercharging, and avoiding systems that create scalability.
08:00 – The 66.7% Revenue Increase: What Happens When a Belief Shifts (Proof of Transformation)
Kimberly reveals the exact revenue change that occurred once her client rewired her core belief.
09:50 – Hidden Belief #2: “More Money Will Change Me” (Fear of Rejection & Identity Loss)
Exploring how money triggers fears of losing friendships, acceptance, or your sense of self—and why this belief sabotages visibility and pricing.
13:40 – Success Illuminates More Than Just Your Path (Projection & Relationships)
Kimberly discusses how your success mirrors others’ insecurities—and why their reactions aren’t about you.
16:48 – Hidden Belief #3: “I’m Not Ready Yet” (Imposter Syndrome Reframed)
Why imposter syndrome is actually a sign you’re entering a bigger room—and how modeling success accelerates growth.
20:30 – The Truth About Posturing vs. Authenticity (Energetics & Integrity)
A story about a new coach posturing success — and how authenticity immediately shifted her momentum and trust.
23:55 – Hidden Belief #4: “If I Receive More, I’ll Have to Give More” (Caretaker Programming)
Why high-achieving women fear abundance because it feels like added responsibility—and how to reclaim overflow without depletion.
27:10 – Wealth, Nervous System Safety & The Mother Metaphor (Embodied Expansion)
Kimberly compares financial expansion to pregnancy—your body must feel safe stretching into the next level.
30:35 – Hidden Belief #5: “It’s Safer to Stay Where I Am” (Familiarity vs. Success)
How the subconscious clings to what’s familiar—even scarcity—and how to expand your capacity to hold more.
33:50 – How to Normalize Bigger Amounts of Money (Emotional Calibration)
Why holding wealth in your awareness without rushing to spend it is a critical step in identity evolution.
36:45 – Awareness Isn’t Enough: You Must Take the Aligned Action (Systems Work)
The pivotal moment when Kimberly helped her client build systems—turning belief shifts into actual income.
39:00 – The Tactical Upgrades: Email Systems, Referral Systems & Follow-Up (Business Infrastructure)
How building simple systems created quantum leaps in confidence, revenue, and scalability.
41:20 – Releasing the “Hard Work” Narrative for Good (Identity Integration)
The energetic shift from “hard equals worthy” to “overflow equals impact.”
42:55 – Invitation to The Collective: Transform Your Beliefs Weekly (Signature CTA)
Kimberly introduces The Collective and explains how weekly activations + monthly coaching help you rewire the beliefs keeping you from your next $100K.
44:40 – Final Words of Sovereignty: Own Your Throne (Closing Message)
A powerful reminder to embody your next-level identity and create a life that rules.
For a full episode transcript, you can find it here.
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF 🙌🏼
Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com
Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media
Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk
NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes! http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself
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🎆 COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching
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