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Cultivating Meaningful Connections with Your Preteen: The SHOW UP Framework by Marcus Aurelius Higgs


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As parents, we often find ourselves navigating the uncharted waters of child-rearing, searching for guidance and inspiration. In a captivating conversation on the LOA Today podcast, Walt Thiessen and Anne-Marie Young were joined by Marcus Aurelius Hicks, a Communication Coach dedicated to empowering parents of pre-teens. This insightful discussion delved into the profound impact of parenting, the importance of embracing our children’s individuality, and the transformative power of communication.

The conversation began with Walt’s fascination with Marcus’ unique name, which was inspired by the stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius. Marcus shared how his father’s encounter with a Jim Rohn tape led to the decision to bestow this powerful moniker upon him. This serendipitous moment set the stage for a discussion that would explore the depths of personal growth and self-reflection.

Anne-Marie, a mother of two, resonated deeply with Marcus’ focus on pre-teen development. She shared her own struggles and triumphs, acknowledging the challenges of navigating the delicate balance between guiding her daughters and allowing them to flourish independently. “I think for me, it was the overall reminder of our children are independent, and our children of our houses and we. It’s embracing them as their personalities, in their individuality, rather than us, and giving them that freedom.”

Marcus’ “show up” framework emerged as a central theme, highlighting the importance of starting with a strong identity, holding space for collaboration and critical thinking, and ultimately unveiling the potential within. He emphasized the need for parents to put on their own “mask” first, ensuring they are emotionally and mentally equipped to support their children during the tumultuous pre-teen years.

Walt, who has experience in founding alternative schools, shared his insights on the power of student-driven education. He recounted the remarkable transformation of a young girl who had faced adversity, blossoming into the school president. This story underscored the profound impact that can occur when we trust our children’s innate abilities and allow them to take the lead.

The conversation delved deeper into the concept of perfection, with Marcus offering a nuanced perspective. “To be perfect actually mean perfect in growth. We’re not complete. We’re not finished. So we’re not that perfect, but we’re the type of perfect that it’s about growing.” This reframing resonated with Anne-Marie, who shared her own journey of embracing her imperfections as a parent and using them as opportunities for growth.

The discussion also touched on the challenges posed by the digital divide, with Anne-Marie and Marcus acknowledging the impact of technology on the “anxious generation.” They emphasized the importance of fostering in-person connections and teaching essential life skills, such as ordering food or making purchases independently.

Throughout the conversation, the speakers emphasized the power of communication, both within the parent-child dynamic and across generations. Marcus shared his vision for a future where an app could facilitate meaningful dialogues, allowing families to explore their identities and cultivate a shared family culture.

As the conversation drew to a close, Walt expressed his gratitude to Marcus, not only for his contributions to the podcast but for the positive impact he has had on countless lives through his work. “On behalf of those people you’ve never met, never seen, never will meet, never will see, you’ve been influencing with all the different content you’ve been putting out there in ways that help them, that you don’t even know about. On their behalf, thank you for what you’re doing, because you’re making a difference in this world.”

This powerful exchange serves as a reminder that the journey of parenting is not one to be undertaken alone. By embracing the wisdom and experiences of others, we can unlock the secrets to raising resilient, confident children who are empowered to navigate the complexities of the modern world.

His website:  https://marcushiggs.com/

Episode Page: https://www.loatoday.net/marcus-aurelius-higgs-2

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