This weeks episode is short and mostly an exert from Kane’s kids favourite Christmas Story:

How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Suess

…So he paused. And the Grinch put his hand to his ear.

And he did hear a sound rising over the snow.

It started in low. Then it started to grow.

But the sound wasn't sad! Why, this sound sounded merry!

It couldn't be so! But it WAS merry! VERY!

He stared down at Whoville! The Grinch popped his eyes!

Then he shook! What he saw was a shocking surprise!

Every Who down in Whoville, the tall and the small,

Was singing! Without any presents at all!

He HADN'T stopped Christmas from coming! IT CAME!

Somehow or other, it came just the same!

And the Grinch, with his grinch-feet ice-cold in the snow,

Stood puzzling and puzzling: “How could it be so?”

“It came with out ribbons! It came without tags!”

“It came without packages, boxes or bags!”

And he puzzled three hours, till his puzzler was sore.

Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before!

“Maybe Christmas” he thought, “doesn't come from a store.”

“Maybe Christmas...perhaps...means a little bit more!”

I suppose some of us still have an idealised vision of the festive season (even the Grinch), but to me the true importance of Christmas is simply to think only of others – how to bring the greatest happiness to others.

That is what is important about Christmas.

Merry Christmas everyone!

Kane‘s kid is a close/education contact of a COVID positive case, another kid from his kinder class.

We discuss what this means and what happens now.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

The difference between wants and needs might seem obvious: a ”want” is a thing you want to have.

Whereas a ”need” is a thing you need to have.

People need water, shelter, food, and healthcare.

However as with everything in modern life it’s often more complicated than that.

Kane discusses this in this episode.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

If you‘re feeling stressed, there are healthy ways and unhealthy ways to deal with it.

We discuss some of the ways we cope with little things that don‘t cost money.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

We often expect too much from our children (Kane and Matty included) when it pays to remember they are just exactly that children full of excitement and enthusiasm.

This week we take a page or two from W Livinigston Larned and his fantastic little speech/reading called FATHER FORGETS which deals with this exact issue.

It may be around 100 years old, but the message is still current.

You can download a copy of the text at:

http://beyondtheordinary.net.au/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/FatherForgets.pdf

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

There are around 5 weeks until Christmas and both Matty and Kane‘s families put the Christmas Trees up this weekend.

So we thought we would have a chat to our kids about what Christmas means to them as wel as what we do on Christmas and any presents they may want to ask Santa for.

As with all things kids it‘s a cute, hilarious and some times sheer lunacy.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

This week marks 1 year since Kane last had a drink of alcohol.

It definitely was not for any superficial reasons nor was it to impress people (he told a handful of people). It was just a personal choice.

Ryan, Matty & Kane discuss their relationships with alcohol and about taking a break from it.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

The ”Great Resignation” has been bandied around in the media recently. Basically on the back of the pandemic workers all over the world are rejecting their pre-COVID work patterns.

Many are unwilling to go back to the 9-to-5 office grind after having had a taste of working from home, or simply revolting against the idea that our lives should be defined by never-ending treadmills of career aspirations.

We discuss that this week and what it means to us.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

Matty has recently playing AFL 9s up in Brisbane so it prompts him and Kane to discuss playing sport as an adult and how the body copes with starting from scratch.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.

Kane and his partner discuss the:

- Melbourne Lockdown freedom

- socialising now things are opening back up

- anxiety and excitement around their son going back to kinder

- general COVID chat.

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Is the modern man a hunter or a gentleman? A manual labourer or a technophile? In today‘s culture the modern man usually is a mix of many things. The modern man must be adaptable.

Gender roles are changing and blending together and the stay-at-home dad or part time dad population is growing.

More fathers than ever are participating in their children‘s nurturing and upbringing.

The thing is that fathers and mothers come into the parenting process differently though. For the mother, the connection is biological. It‘s a part of her. 

Fathering, on the other hand, is less so. Therefore, it‘s important for men to learn the skills they need to be a good dad. For some guys it‘s more intuitive, like kicking a football, but most guys need a coach or some direction.

DADDY EATS LAST discusses what it means to be a man and a father in modern society and all the issues that comes with both.