DadSense with Subhasis Mishra

Linkedin: In this episode of Dadsense, Bryan Paul, Fine, an international school teacher, and father of two sons, reflects on his journey from childhood to fatherhood, sharing how his diverse multicultural global experiences shaped his approach to being a dad.

Born in Nashville, New Hampshire, USA, he discusses growing up with a Dad who came from a Holocaust Survivor family —a bond that became even more meaningful after he became a father himself.

He shares the story of meeting his future wife in Hawaii, getting married and being parents in Shanghai and living across Asia, including Bangalore India where he and his family live now.

Bryan touches on the challenging yet fulfilling journey of parenting a son diagnosed with ADHD at an early stage. He beautifully interprets the virtues of masculinity and how it can be channeled for noble causes , how he and his wife are raising their two boys with learning inspired from Asian cultures

In this episode, Bryan traverses a diverse range of topics and takes a candid look at fatherhood, masculinity, and the lasting impact of our actions on our children

Chapters

0:00 Introductions

01:55 Welcome to DadSense

02:59 Early Childhood Memories

05:04 Moving and Family Dynamics

10:33 Inspiration from Family History

13:12 Journey to Teaching and Meeting Lindsay

17:27 Becoming Parents in Shanghai

25:49 Navigating ADHD and Parenting Challenges

31:37 Teaching Stoic Principles to Children

35:05 Understanding Adolescent Anger

35:44 Channeling Aggression Constructively

36:29 The Capable Man: Strength and Goodness

38:30 Raising Boys vs. Girls

39:41 Parenting Dynamics and Patterns

42:16 Expressing Emotions and Childhood Reflections

44:38 The Value of Attention in Parenting

49:15 Love Languages and Relationship Dynamics

52:37 Sacrifice and Personal Growth

01:00:15 Teaching Boys in Today's World

01:04:33 Practical Tips and Recommendations

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In this heartfelt episode of 'Dadsense; Vikaash Khdloya, a Chartered Accountant and erstwhile CEO of a large company with a deep connection to his middle-class roots, opens up about the journey that shaped his approach to fatherhood. Reflecting on a childhood filled with cherished memories, thanks to the quality time with his father, a busy businessman, made sure to spend with him, Vikash explores how these experiences influenced his own parenting style.

He shares candidly about the mistakes he made, particularly in his early years as a father, where the pursuit of conventional success of a father in India overshadowed the importance of being present with his kids. However, a turning point came when he realized that true happiness and success stem from within, not from external achievements. Inspired by the book Top 5 Regrets of the Dying, Vikash began to re-prioritize his life, focusing on the joys of parenting and the invaluable moments with his children.

Throughout the podcast, Vikash offers valuable insights into setting boundaries between work and family, the importance of being vulnerable with your kids, and breaking down gender biases. He emphasizes the significance of allowing children to experience joy and the importance of encouraging them without pressure. Vikash also shares his two essential mantras for a balanced life: managing time effectively and delivering on expectations with flexibility.

This episode is a must-listen for any parent striving to navigate the complexities of modern fatherhood while maintaining a meaningful connection with their children.

Chapters:

2:39 Introduction to the conversation

4:54 Cherished childhood memories

10:09 Advice from Subhasis's father

12:24 Navigating teenage years

14:49 Parenting goals

18:14 Life-changing book "Top 5 Regrets of the Dying"

20:59 Early days of parenthood

25:19 How parenting changes you

27:49 Kids mirror our behavior and balance work-life

32:09 How kids notice everything

35:54 The importance of fatherly love

39:29 Teaching vulnerability and starting a new chapter

43:04 Reliving kids' milestones

46:29 Unconditional love and support from kids

49:54 Shaping unique personalities

54:19 Raising open-minded kids

58:29 Enjoying activities with kids and managing expectations

1:02:29 Embracing imperfection and prioritizing time

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In an enlightening episode, Subhasis hosts a deep dive into fatherhood with Peter and Nadir, creators of the Pops in a Pop podcast. The trio discusses their fatherhood journeys and the inception of their podcast that offers a platform for fathers in India to share their experiences and stories. They explore how societal norms and expectations of fatherhood are shifting, underscoring the importance of a father's role in a child's life and the positive impact of storytelling in shaping new narratives around parenting. Emphasizing the need for role models and community support, the conversation aims to challenge and change the traditional norms of fatherhood in modern Indian society, making a case for greater involvement of fathers in parenting roles and fostering a supportive atmosphere for fathers to engage in meaningful discussions about their experiences and learnings.

00:00 Welcome to DadSense: A Candid Chat Begins

01:17 The Journey from Listener to Podcaster

04:00 Diving into Childhood: Stories of Growth and Identity

14:02 Parenting Insights and Influences: A Deep Dive

38:55 The Genesis of a Dad Podcast: From Idea to Reality

39:46 Discovering a Shared Passion for Fatherhood

41:06 The Birth of a Podcast: From Idea to Reality

43:45 Navigating the Technical Challenges of Podcasting

44:35 The Evolution of Content and Community Engagement

47:27 Expanding the Conversation: The Growth of a Dad's Community

01:09:03 Reflecting on the Journey and Envisioning the Future

Peter and Nadir's Podcast Link: https://open.spotify.com/show/1MCf0x3...

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In this episode of DadSense, the host engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Vivek Menezes, a loving father of three and a widely published writer and photographer living in Goa. Vivek shares his journey of growing up in a multicultural environment, moving from India to the U.S., and eventually choosing to raise his children in Goa to connect them with their roots. The discussion delves into the dynamics of modern fatherhood, the evolving understanding of masculinity in India, and the challenges and opportunities contemporary fathers face. Vivek also explores the influence of literature on his perspectives and the importance of open dialogues with children about societal changes, gender equality, and the complexities of navigating identity and privilege in today's world.

00:01:24 Welcome to DadSense: A Fresh Episode

00:01:36 Meet Vivek: A Father's Journey from Bombay to Goa

00:02:55 Vivek's Childhood and the Duality of Cultures

00:03:35 Fatherhood, Masculinity, and the Indian-American Experience

00:25:55 Navigating Fatherhood in the U.S. and the Decision to Return to Goa

00:37:28 Digital Natives and the Shift in Parenting

00:39:13 Embracing Nature and Culture in Goa: A Family's Journey

00:41:05 The Challenges of Education and School Choices

00:43:16 The Richness and Messiness of Living in India

00:52:31 Navigating Fatherhood and Masculinity in Modern India

01:05:22 Reflecting on Generational Changes and the Essence of Fatherhood

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In this refreshing episode of DadSense, the host, a dedicated father Subhasis Mishra, indulges in a candid conversation with his two children, Neev and Nila. They discuss special memories from 2023, their love for sports, and art, and then kids put their father in the hot seat, sharing what they think he does well and what could be improved. It's a light-hearted, fun episode where they chat about everything from their dad's old PJs, 'stress photos', to their love for chess and cricket.

00:01 Introduction and Welcoming Guests

00:17 Chatting About Special Memories and Moments

00:25 Diving into the Hot Seat: Feedback Session

01:18 Introducing the Kids and Their Interests

01:56 Reflecting on the Past Year

02:59 Sharing Highlights and Special Memories

05:36 The Fun and Challenges of Parenting

13:29 Looking Forward to the New Year

15:44 The Funniest Moments and Memories

20:15 Final Thoughts and Advice for Parents

20:50 Wrapping Up the Episode

In this episode, as a father to a 12 year old son and a 9 year old daughter, Subhasis shares anecdotes from his parenting journey and proposes his goals for the new year. Emphasizing on the dynamic nature of the parent-child relationship, he reflects upon the need to adapt and evolve as a parent while ensuring the child's safety and well-being.

Join me on an emotional rollercoaster, as we welcome Anirban Bhattacharya to the show. In this 2 part conversation, AB, as I fondly call him, goes deep into a few difficult spaces in his life including childhood abuse, feeling of abandonment and yet how he went about overcoming those difficult experiences to create a beautiful childhood for his son Kabir in partnership with his wife Erum.

Join me on an emotional rollercoaster, as we welcome Anirban Bhattacharya to the show. In this 2 part conversation, AB, as I fondly call him, goes deep into a few difficult spaces in his life including childhood abuse, feeling of abandonment and yet how he went about overcoming those difficult experiences to create a beautiful childhood for his son Kabir in partnership with his wife Erum.

Join me on a fascinating journey as we welcome Antoine Denkhaus to the show. In this episode, Antoine shares the unique story of moving to India from Germany with his wife and three children in the middle of Covid, raising the three children instilling sensibilities about animals, nature & our planet and connecting them with new people & new cultures.

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Join me on a thought provoking journey as we welcome Pranav Bhruguwar to the show. In this episode, Pranav shares his unique life experience, of testing and trying multiple tools & tactics along his journey as a primary caregiver at home as a new Dad in a new country, while managing work at home and creating a beautiful harmony. He also shared that being there with your little ones through all the chaos and trials right from their infancy stage, to toddler stage to their teenage stage,creates a beautiful bond.

Hosted by Subhasis Mishra