In this episode, we delve into the importance of Emotional Intelligence (EI) in children and its pivotal role in modern parenting. Varun shares insightful strategies for nurturing EI through storytelling, play, and intentional interactions. We explore the unique challenges fathers face, from overcoming societal expectations about masculinity to expressing emotions and building deeper connections with their children. The discussion highlights how traditional education often overlooks emotional and social skills and how parents can fill this gap to prepare their kids for the real world. We also touch on the cultural shift from communal child-rearing to nuclear parenting, the loneliness many men face today, and how building supportive communities can create lasting change. With practical advice on managing meltdowns, fostering resilience, and breaking shame-driven societal norms, this episode offers a thoughtful perspective on raising confident, emotionally aware children while navigating the evolving dynamics of parenthood.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

03:43 How Did You Realise the Importance of EI in Children?

08:08 How to Describe Emotional Intelligence?

17:00 Varun's Approach to Managing Meltdowns with His Kids

26:08 Cultural Differences in Parenting Styles

29:37 Emotional Expression from a Father’s Perspective

37:15 The Bio-Psycho-Social Method of Understanding Parenting

46:00 Impact of Social Media on Parenting and Children

48:26 Men’s Emotional Health and Its Challenges

55:11 The Role of Shame and Its Impact on Men and Women

01:04:08 Journaling: A Tool for Emotional Clarity

01:09:57 Conclusion

In this wide ranging podcast episode, we dive deep into the multifaceted journey of a parent, educator, and a seasoned professional Anustup Nayak.

From memories of a unique upbringing in Algeria to life-altering lessons learned from his parents' nurturing support, our guest reflects on a journey that shaped his views on education, parenting, and personal growth. This episode explores insights on adapting to different cultures, the importance of empathy in parenting, and the significant influence of mentors like Professor Elena Duckworth at Harvard. We also address critical themes in Indian education—such as rote learning, filtering systems, and the urgent need for holistic growth practices to prepare the next generation for real-world challenges. Whether you're a parent, teacher, or curious learner, this conversation offers thought provoking wisdom on guiding children in today’s dynamic world.

Join us for an engaging episode that covers

• The impact of early years and unique cultural experiences
• Learning from mentors and the role of empathy in education
• Challenges and strategies in parenting and education systems
• Powerful messages for all parents seeking to support their children’s growth

Chapters

01:00 Intro

02:30 Guest's Childhood & Parental Influence

12:40 Impact of Algerian Days

19:00 Influence of Professor Elena Duckworth

21:34 How Teachers Impact Students

24:20 Factors Shaping Parenting Approach

32:01 Struggles as an Educator and Parent

36:30 Shifts in the Education System

40:46 Consequences of the Filtration System

45:00 Approaches for Holistic Child Growth

56:00 Supporting Children Through Struggles

1:06:15 Parenting Discussions with Spouse

1:12:00 Reflections on Parenting in Teenage Years

1:20:58 Message to All Parents

1:25:54 Conclusion

Parenting, education reform, holistic child development, Indian education system, empathy in education, Algeria experiences, cultural adaptation, parental influence, real-world preparation, family dynamics.

Subhasis, the host of Dadsense opens up about his transformative journey into fatherhood, inspired by his own childhood experience, becoming a father away from homeland and 'on the job' learnings from fatherhood.

He highlights the joy, challenges, and profound emotional discoveries that come from candid dialogues with other dads on his show. The episode delves into raw, unscripted moments, including guest revelations about childhood abuse and family struggles with alcoholism, underscoring the significant emotional impact fathers have on their children. Discussions include the vital role fathers play, raising teenagers, and achieving work-life harmony.

Subhasis shares personal rituals and advice for new dads, emphasizing emotional presence, partner support during pregnancy, self-care, and the importance of a community in parenting. The episode ends with a call for kindness and recognition of the imperfect beauty of the parenting journey.

Chapters:

01:27 Introduction and Purpose of the Show

03:00 Personal Parenting Journey

05:20 The Joys and Reflections of Fatherhood

08:26 Professional Background

09:04 Memorable Guest Experiences

12:24 Sabbatical and Personal Growth

14:39 Diverse Range of Guests

16:24 Future Guests and Podcast Vision

17:40 One-Liner Description of Dadsense

18:09 When is the Right Time to Have Children

19:03 The Impact of Fathers on Their Children

21:17 Bonding with Teenage Children

23:26 Work-Life Balance Myth or Reality

25:32 Resources for Dads

27:13 My Parenting Style

29:24 Advice for Soon-to-Be Dads

31:57 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this poignant episode, we explore the journey of Ameya, an HR leader who boldly left his thriving corporate career to become the primary caregiver for his newborn daughter, Naomi. His story challenges societal stereotypes about fathers' capabilities, as highlighted by a taxi driver's casual remark during a ride with his daughter.

Raised by a military father and an academic mother, Ameya's background shaped his approach to balancing career and parenting. The episode delves into his emotional transformation into fatherhood during the pandemic, showcasing the unique bond he developed with Naomi.

Ameya's decision to become a stay-at-home dad brought both joys and challenges. He grappled with losing his professional identity, faced societal judgments, and navigated financial realities. Despite these obstacles, he embraced his new role, finding fulfillment in the daily discoveries and growth alongside his daughter.

This compelling narrative goes beyond parenting, touching on themes of life choices, resilience, and the evolving role of fathers in modern society. It offers valuable insights for parents and anyone navigating life's unexpected turns, presenting a thoughtful exploration of contemporary fatherhood.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

03:05 Taxi Incident: Breaking Stereotypes in Parenting

05:22 His Daughter Amaya’s Childhood

06:56 Spending Time with Dad

11:05 Reflecting on Parenting Moments

13:56 Becoming a Dad and Meeting His Wife

18:35 Life After Becoming a Father

33:25 Quitting the 9-5 for Family: A Sabbatical Journey

37:35 Life After Quitting: Struggles and Reflections

46:32 The Bond with His Daughter

49:05 The Other Side of Parenting

53:07 Privilege and Parenthood

58:17 Last 15 Months: Lessons from Unemployment

1:08:57 Thoughts on a Network of Dads

1:16:59 Parenting Tools and Podcasts

1:18:48 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

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Linkedin: In this episode of Dadsense, Bryan Paul, Fine, an international school teacher, and father of two sons, reflects on his journey from childhood to fatherhood, sharing how his diverse multicultural global experiences shaped his approach to being a dad.

Born in Nashville, New Hampshire, USA, he discusses growing up with a Dad who came from a Holocaust Survivor family —a bond that became even more meaningful after he became a father himself.

He shares the story of meeting his future wife in Hawaii, getting married and being parents in Shanghai and living across Asia, including Bangalore India where he and his family live now.

Bryan touches on the challenging yet fulfilling journey of parenting a son diagnosed with ADHD at an early stage. He beautifully interprets the virtues of masculinity and how it can be channeled for noble causes , how he and his wife are raising their two boys with learning inspired from Asian cultures

In this episode, Bryan traverses a diverse range of topics and takes a candid look at fatherhood, masculinity, and the lasting impact of our actions on our children

Chapters

0:00 Introductions

01:55 Welcome to DadSense

02:59 Early Childhood Memories

05:04 Moving and Family Dynamics

10:33 Inspiration from Family History

13:12 Journey to Teaching and Meeting Lindsay

17:27 Becoming Parents in Shanghai

25:49 Navigating ADHD and Parenting Challenges

31:37 Teaching Stoic Principles to Children

35:05 Understanding Adolescent Anger

35:44 Channeling Aggression Constructively

36:29 The Capable Man: Strength and Goodness

38:30 Raising Boys vs. Girls

39:41 Parenting Dynamics and Patterns

42:16 Expressing Emotions and Childhood Reflections

44:38 The Value of Attention in Parenting

49:15 Love Languages and Relationship Dynamics

52:37 Sacrifice and Personal Growth

01:00:15 Teaching Boys in Today's World

01:04:33 Practical Tips and Recommendations

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In this heartfelt episode of 'Dadsense; Vikaash Khdloya, a Chartered Accountant and erstwhile CEO of a large company with a deep connection to his middle-class roots, opens up about the journey that shaped his approach to fatherhood. Reflecting on a childhood filled with cherished memories, thanks to the quality time with his father, a busy businessman, made sure to spend with him, Vikash explores how these experiences influenced his own parenting style.

He shares candidly about the mistakes he made, particularly in his early years as a father, where the pursuit of conventional success of a father in India overshadowed the importance of being present with his kids. However, a turning point came when he realized that true happiness and success stem from within, not from external achievements. Inspired by the book Top 5 Regrets of the Dying, Vikash began to re-prioritize his life, focusing on the joys of parenting and the invaluable moments with his children.

Throughout the podcast, Vikash offers valuable insights into setting boundaries between work and family, the importance of being vulnerable with your kids, and breaking down gender biases. He emphasizes the significance of allowing children to experience joy and the importance of encouraging them without pressure. Vikash also shares his two essential mantras for a balanced life: managing time effectively and delivering on expectations with flexibility.

This episode is a must-listen for any parent striving to navigate the complexities of modern fatherhood while maintaining a meaningful connection with their children.

Chapters:

2:39 Introduction to the conversation

4:54 Cherished childhood memories

10:09 Advice from Subhasis's father

12:24 Navigating teenage years

14:49 Parenting goals

18:14 Life-changing book "Top 5 Regrets of the Dying"

20:59 Early days of parenthood

25:19 How parenting changes you

27:49 Kids mirror our behavior and balance work-life

32:09 How kids notice everything

35:54 The importance of fatherly love

39:29 Teaching vulnerability and starting a new chapter

43:04 Reliving kids' milestones

46:29 Unconditional love and support from kids

49:54 Shaping unique personalities

54:19 Raising open-minded kids

58:29 Enjoying activities with kids and managing expectations

1:02:29 Embracing imperfection and prioritizing time

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In an enlightening episode, Subhasis hosts a deep dive into fatherhood with Peter and Nadir, creators of the Pops in a Pop podcast. The trio discusses their fatherhood journeys and the inception of their podcast that offers a platform for fathers in India to share their experiences and stories. They explore how societal norms and expectations of fatherhood are shifting, underscoring the importance of a father's role in a child's life and the positive impact of storytelling in shaping new narratives around parenting. Emphasizing the need for role models and community support, the conversation aims to challenge and change the traditional norms of fatherhood in modern Indian society, making a case for greater involvement of fathers in parenting roles and fostering a supportive atmosphere for fathers to engage in meaningful discussions about their experiences and learnings.

00:00 Welcome to DadSense: A Candid Chat Begins

01:17 The Journey from Listener to Podcaster

04:00 Diving into Childhood: Stories of Growth and Identity

14:02 Parenting Insights and Influences: A Deep Dive

38:55 The Genesis of a Dad Podcast: From Idea to Reality

39:46 Discovering a Shared Passion for Fatherhood

41:06 The Birth of a Podcast: From Idea to Reality

43:45 Navigating the Technical Challenges of Podcasting

44:35 The Evolution of Content and Community Engagement

47:27 Expanding the Conversation: The Growth of a Dad's Community

01:09:03 Reflecting on the Journey and Envisioning the Future

Peter and Nadir's Podcast Link: https://open.spotify.com/show/1MCf0x3...

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In this episode of DadSense, the host engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Vivek Menezes, a loving father of three and a widely published writer and photographer living in Goa. Vivek shares his journey of growing up in a multicultural environment, moving from India to the U.S., and eventually choosing to raise his children in Goa to connect them with their roots. The discussion delves into the dynamics of modern fatherhood, the evolving understanding of masculinity in India, and the challenges and opportunities contemporary fathers face. Vivek also explores the influence of literature on his perspectives and the importance of open dialogues with children about societal changes, gender equality, and the complexities of navigating identity and privilege in today's world.

00:01:24 Welcome to DadSense: A Fresh Episode

00:01:36 Meet Vivek: A Father's Journey from Bombay to Goa

00:02:55 Vivek's Childhood and the Duality of Cultures

00:03:35 Fatherhood, Masculinity, and the Indian-American Experience

00:25:55 Navigating Fatherhood in the U.S. and the Decision to Return to Goa

00:37:28 Digital Natives and the Shift in Parenting

00:39:13 Embracing Nature and Culture in Goa: A Family's Journey

00:41:05 The Challenges of Education and School Choices

00:43:16 The Richness and Messiness of Living in India

00:52:31 Navigating Fatherhood and Masculinity in Modern India

01:05:22 Reflecting on Generational Changes and the Essence of Fatherhood

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In this refreshing episode of DadSense, the host, a dedicated father Subhasis Mishra, indulges in a candid conversation with his two children, Neev and Nila. They discuss special memories from 2023, their love for sports, and art, and then kids put their father in the hot seat, sharing what they think he does well and what could be improved. It's a light-hearted, fun episode where they chat about everything from their dad's old PJs, 'stress photos', to their love for chess and cricket.

00:01 Introduction and Welcoming Guests

00:17 Chatting About Special Memories and Moments

00:25 Diving into the Hot Seat: Feedback Session

01:18 Introducing the Kids and Their Interests

01:56 Reflecting on the Past Year

02:59 Sharing Highlights and Special Memories

05:36 The Fun and Challenges of Parenting

13:29 Looking Forward to the New Year

15:44 The Funniest Moments and Memories

20:15 Final Thoughts and Advice for Parents

20:50 Wrapping Up the Episode

In this episode, as a father to a 12 year old son and a 9 year old daughter, Subhasis shares anecdotes from his parenting journey and proposes his goals for the new year. Emphasizing on the dynamic nature of the parent-child relationship, he reflects upon the need to adapt and evolve as a parent while ensuring the child's safety and well-being.