Today, weāre diving into a simple but powerful mindset shift: changing āI have toā into āI want to.ā This tiny tweak can unlock motivation, gratitude, and a deeper sense of purpose, helping you energize your day and stay in the flow.
Key Takeaways:
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Reframing tasks from obligation to choice empowers you.
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Saying āI want toā taps into gratitude and intrinsic motivation.
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Purpose-driven language energizes you and boosts well-being.
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This mindset shift reduces stress and improves emotional resilience.
Have you ever started your day feeling low energy, looking at your to-do list with a heavy heart?
I had one of those mornings recently. I sat down to write my tasks, but instead of just listing them like usual, I tried a little experiment. I rewrote each task by connecting it to a bigger āwhyā ā and most importantly, I started with āI want to,ā instead of āI have to.ā
For example, instead of writing āreview lease agreementsā ā which sounds dry and boring ā I wrote: āI want to have a steady and profitable income, so I want to carefully review these agreements.ā
Instead of āschedule doctorās appointmentā ā which I had been putting off ā I wrote: āI want to take care of my health, so I will schedule my doctorās appointment.ā
And you know what happened? Boom. Energy. Motivation. Excitement.
Suddenly, my day wasnāt full of chores ā it was full of choices I wanted to make for my future self.
Psychologists have found that when we frame activities as āwant toā rather than āhave to,ā we activate intrinsic motivation ā the kind that comes from within.
Research from Self-Determination Theory (Ryan & Deci, 2000) shows that intrinsic motivation boosts well-being, engagement, and resilience.
When we say āI want to,ā we tell our brain we have agency ā we are choosing our path, not being dragged down it.
On the flip side, āI have toā creates pressure. It triggers stress, resistance, and sometimes even resentment.
But āI want toā brings gratitude, empowerment, and flow.
So next time youāre writing your to-do list, try this:
Connect every task to your bigger purpose. Start each one with āI want to.ā Watch how your energy shifts.
Remember, itās not about forcing false positivity. Itās about honestly finding your reason ā your why ā and stepping into the power of choice.
When we move from obligation to desire, life feels lighter, richer, and way more fulfilling.
When you choose to connect your actions to your deeper purpose, you donāt just get things done ā you build the life you actually want.
Itās a small shift with a massive impact.
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Keep leading your days with intention ā and as always, stay in the flow. š
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