God is holy, and Jesus is Lord. It's easy to say these things, but harder to live them. If we believe God is holy, then we don't treat him casually. (Sometimes we might talk to him casually, but we must remember who we're addressing.) If Jesus is Lord, there ought to be evidence of sacrifice in our lives. We can't follow our own way and his, and at some point we ought to feel a tension that can only be resolved by making a conscious choice to put our choices last and his first.