In this episode, J. Krishnamurti (K) answers the third question asked in Alpino, Italy on July 9, 1933. K's answer is covered partially and will be completed in the next episode (Episode 23). In this episode, K challenges the way people deal with suffering. K suggests that most people avoid confronting their inner emptiness by either escaping it or trying to fill it with experiences, both of which are forms of avoidance. This process, driven by craving and the search for satisfaction, is mistaken for progress or growth. True understanding and freedom from suffering, he says, come only by directly facing its cause—not by seeking comfort or distraction. Society may see such a direct approach as pessimism, but K views it as the only path to real insight. The first part of K's answer to the question follows.
Krishnamurti: If there is no conflict, if your life has in it no crises and you are perfectly happy, then why bother about conflicts and crises? If you are not suffering, then I am very glad! Our whole system of of life is arranged so that you may escape from suffering. But the man who faces the cause of suffering, and is thereby freed from that suffering, you call a pessimist.Each one of you is conscious of a great void, an emptiness within you, and being conscious of that emptiness, you either try to fill it or to run away from it; and both acts amount to the same thing. You choose what will fill that emptiness, and this choosing you call progress or experience. But your choice is based on sensation, on craving, and hence involves neither discernment, nor intelligence, nor wisdom. You choose today that which gives you a greater satisfaction, a greater sensation than you receive from yesterday's choice. So what you call choice is merely your way of running away from the emptiness within you, and hence you are merely postponing the understanding of the cause of suffering.