Free yourself, forgive others 4.
One of the important elements of life is to learn to forgive others so that we could be free from all the consequences of unforgiveness. The advantage of forgiving others is enormous. It affords us enjoyment of a life free from health and spiritual consequences of unforgiveness.
Interestingly, we cannot run away from human relationship, it is an essential fabric of our existence. We must therefore, commit ourselves to understanding the dynamics of human relationship. The lack of this understanding drives us to the point where either get hurt or put ourselves in a position where we will have to deal with toxic emotions. This may lead to us carrying the weight of bitterness and unforgiveness throughout our lifetime.
Jesus said in John 2 vs 23-25(TPT);
23 While Jesus was at the Passover Feast, the number of his followers began to grow, and many gave their allegiance to him because of all the miraculous signs they had seen him doing! 24 But Jesus did not yet entrust himself to them, because he knew how fickle human hearts can be. 25 He needed no one to tell him about human" nature, for he fully understood what man was capable of doing.
This scripture is emphasizing the essence of understanding the human relationship. Jesus, the God in human flesh knew all men. He loved all men and was willing to do anything to be of help. One of the things that set apart was that He did not entrust His life to anybody. Jesus had full grasp of human relationship.
Now there are three things we can learn from the story of Michal and David. The first thing we must know and be aware of is that people have right to be wrong. We must recognise people's right to exercise the power of choice. They have right to exercise that will at any time. Therefore, do not expect that people will return back the favour you have offered them. Sometimes, they can and sometimes, they may not.
Secondly, you are complete in God. People may give you positive compliment, that is good. You do not need to attach your life to anybody to live a fulfilled life. Depend on God.
Finally, defeat bitterness. Bitterness could be worse than betrayal. We cannot run away from the issues of life. Issues will always come up. Michal did not understand the dynamics of the issues between her and David. She was over-powered by bitterness and became worse for it.
Human beings will always be human beings. We have the capacity to protect ourselves from unforgiveness when we truly understand human relationship and not to put ourselves in position where we are consistently hurt.
I pray that the Lord will give us strength to be objectivs and do the right thing in every relationship.
God bless you. Enjoy the rest of your day.