Chasing Edges

Darleen Santore: Mental Skills Coach: MENTAL RESILIENCE, EMOTIONAL AGILITY, DEVELOPING FOCUS & PRESENCE, NEVER ARRIVING, SHEDDING IDENTITIES, COMBATING LONELINESS & ROCK BOTTOM, THE HEARTBEAT OF LIFE.


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1:00

Occupational Therapist – Patients with TBI

Hope Dealer

1:47

Had Stroke due to chiropractic adjustment

Could Die any day

No fear, could die any day

2:50

Ran health care industry

Went back to school

Ran health care company, record label

3:50

Left business world, gunna start my own practice and help people

Walked into mental skills world since 2008

Coach pro sports and CEOs

And create greatness

No limitations

6:30 

Irony of mental skills world

How do I hack my mental game

Phonenix Suns mental skills coach

How to handle life

The higher up you go, the lonelier it gets

How to sustain

7:41

Loneliness is the biggest epidemic

Kobe/Jordan social skills

10:00

Trust

Conquered everything, but have no joy

Want to be known

Loneliness Sport to Sport

You can still be in a crowd and be super lonely

12:15 

Action Steps to combat loneliness

Develop your tribe, gives you confidence

Blue Zones, places where people are the happiest

13:50

Physical Touch and Human Interactions

People that have a connection to faith feel less alone

Faith

15:40

Scaling of tribe

16:55

Quality over quantity 

18:05

Distractions

Information

18:30

Raising the bar is in reference to what you’re good at

Master your niche

BOOK: Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, by Mark Manson

Commitment

20:00

People getting offended

Identifying with these mental health issues, and letting it consume you

Move towards awareness and resiliency

Tendency or experience vs victim identifying with emotion

22:00 

Need to get momentum

Reinforcing 

BOOK: AWARENESS BY ATHONY DE MELLO

23:00

Identifying with emotion, I’m depressed vs I’m experiencing depression

Reinforcing words and narratives is good and a problem

25:15

Experience the person not the labels

25:45 

Keep an open curious mind

What is going on?

Part of you, not all of you.

26:30

Where is anxiety coming from?

Acknowledge don’t identify with it

Grit, life happens

27:20

Situational Stress is part of life

Ride the waves

Everyone experiences trauma

Adjust and make a choice

28:00

Boundaries/clock on your emotions

BOOK: GRIT BY ANGELA DUCKWORTH

28:50

Developing Positivity

30:00

Learned grit, had pain, but still had joy

30:45

Never Arriving

Found strength in struggle

31:00

Have a mentor for every decade, 10 years old, 20 years old, all the way to 90 years

Choosing your circle and your perspective, lead to resiliency

Don’t be extremist, don’t identify so harsh with label

32:30

Emotional Agility & Resiliency are trained behaviors

Stay at it, it’s a tolerance

Tangibilze mental struggle

35:00

Kids these days? Or is it on Leaders these days?

36:20

Social media principles

Just because we can quitify likes and followers, doesn’t mean it holds value.

37:30

Where you spend your time is where you see your results

38:30

TONY ROBBINS – If you don’t feel growth, you’ll feel stuck, need movement

What you do matters

If you don’t feel like youre not contributing on field, in house, in friendships

How can you contribute, add value

40:00

Free knowledge, add value

When the world shuts down, find a way to add value

Don’t wait for opportunities

40:30

Your title doesn’t matter

You can add value somewhere or to someone at any time

No identity, nothing to take away from me

Can awaken Greatness anywhere

41:45

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