Darren F Magee

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Cluster B personalities are a group of personality disorders characterised by dramatic, emotional, or erratic behaviour. This video looks at the key characteristics, traits, and behaviours associated with Cluster B personalities, including borderline, narcissistic, histrionic, and antisocial personality disorders, and how they can look when they overlap or are co-occuring together.

Looking also at Machiavellianism and sadism, characteristics associated with the Dark Triad and Tetrad, and how these traits play out in relationships and society at large

00:00 Cluster B Personalities
00:15 Anti Social Personality
02:00 Borderline Personality
03:48 Histrionic Personality
05:21 Narcissistic Personality Disorder
07:30 Machiavellianism
07:58 Sadistic
08:30 Co-Morbidities
10:11 Cluster B Society
10:45 Destructive Nature
11:53 Cult Like Dynamics
12:50 Dark Personalities in Positions of Power

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Sara Crouson has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anti-social Personality Disorder, ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits.
She is the host of the YouTube channel 'Cluster B Milkshake' where she educates people about narcissism and predatory behaviours.
We discussed her history and how her diagnoses manifest in day to life, as well as in her relationships and interactions.

In part one of our discussion we explored the complexities of anger and regret, particularly how it can be used in relationships to test a partner's anxiety.
She also touches on the prevalence of infidelity, often stemming from workplaces or social media, highlighting how subtle manipulation tactics can impact healthy relationships.

Please be advised, it is a candid and often frank discussion, so be warned there is some explicit language and descriptions.

Part two of our discussion: https://youtu.be/Ugj48rCKEbA

Sara's channel can be found at: https://www.youtube.com/@cLuStErBMiLkShAkE

0:00:00 Intro
0:01:20 Childhood Trauma
0:04:34 Anti Social Behaviours
0:08:20 Relationships 
0:10:30 Do narcissists love their children?
0:12:09 Predatory Behaviour
0:17:15  Co-dependency and Avoidance
0:21:30 The empty void inside
0:22:35 Narcissists and Social Media
0:23:25 The journey of self awareness
0:26:35 Self Gaslighting vs Brain Fog
0:30:45 Need for admiration
0:33:39 Need for control
0:36:10 Need for Perfection
0:37:39 Emotional Triggers
0:40:47 Narcissistic Rage
0:42:29 Narcissistic Envy
0:45:45 Trauma Bonding
0:48:50 The Fantasy
0:51:05 Testing partners
0:55:00 Fear of emotional vulnerability
0:58:37 Loss of purpose

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I'll be discussing the HG Wells classic 'War of the Worlds' with @DrPaulA.Taylor (Readers of the Lost Art)

Why the story continues to be so popular, its many adaptations, and what it tells us about the social anxieties and paranoia present not only in Victorian times, but today as well.

For more content on my YouTube Channel visit https://www.youtube.com/@DarrenFMagee 

For more Readers of the Lost Art content visit https://www.youtube.com/@DrPaulA.Taylor 

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Healing from narcissistic abuse is a unique and individualized process, and the time it takes to recover can vary greatly from person to person. This video explores the complexities of narcissistic abuse recovery and provide insight into what you can expect during the healing process.

Whether you're just starting to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse or you're further along in your journey, this video aims to offer support, guidance, and validation.

Looking at the different stages of recovery, common challenges that survivors may face, and strategies for rebuilding and moving forward.

Watch on YouTube https://youtu.be/_NxnFi8yIsM 

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What does it mean to be 'woke'? Ryan Rogers is a therapist and author of the book "The Woke Mind: The Twisted Psychology of the Social Justice Movement.' In our conversation we discuss what it means to be 'woke',  is it just a trendy phrase, a slur, or a genuine state of awareness? Is it even truly a left/right issue or more a personality type?

We discuss his book, his experiences of battling with addiction, how he learned activism more than therapy in his training, and his journey towards pragmatism.

Looking into the psychology of covert narcissism in individuals who want to tear down rather than build or look for problems rather than solutions, and referencing Orwell's 1984 where basic truths are questioned.

We explore the idea of being woke and what it means for our individual and collective consciousness.

Ryan's podcast and YouTube channel: 
https://youtube.com/@ryanrogers8046?si=ilIyxFSZDR-cJeXU

X: @ryanmcrogers

'The Woke Mind'
https://a.co/d/bXVnnwP

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Mid to High range narcissism refers to someone with deeply ingrained narcissistic traits and characteristics, but doesn't meet the threshold for a personality disorder, as outlined in the DSM 5.

They can range from just being selfish pests, to being a master of emotional manipulation. This presentation looks into the characteristics, behaviours, and traits of the sub clinical narcissist and explores how they operate in relationships, friendships, and even in the workplace. 

Looking at how traits such as a false self, fragile ego and emotional manipulation, yet without meeting full NPD criteria. Understanding these tendencies can help recognise narcissistic abuse in everyday relationships and interactions.

Exploring how comedy often exaggerates low to mid range narcissistic traits for comedic effect, and how it compares to real life.

Lastly some ideas to help manage yourself with narcissistic people you encounter.

This video was part of a presentation delivered at the Narcissistic Abuse Conference in London 2025.

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Discover the transformative and therapeutic power of stories in my conversation with Dr. Paul A Taylor, host of the Youtube channel 'Readers of the Lost Art' where we discuss narrative psychology and the 'post literate world'.

We discuss 'safetyism', internet use and social media, communication and explore how storytelling can inform, inspire, heal and foster emotional well-being. From ancient myths to modern-day conversations, learn how narratives shape our minds and lives.

Perfect for anyone interested in psychology, mental health, or the art of storytelling. 

https://www.youtube.com/@DrPaulA.Taylor 

00:00 Intro
01:20 Post Literate Age
04:45 The Matrix
06:16 The Power of Imagination
09:00 Fairy Tales
10:20 Special Effects in Stories
14:55 Connection through Shared Stories
16:25 The Sacred Algorithm
21:15 False Needs
26:27 Need vs Desire
36:00 Need to Understand
44:55 Narcissisus
48:50 Shadow Self
50:50 Need for Balance
53:00 The Drama Triangle

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This podcast looks at the complex world of incels (involuntary celibates), exploring their psychology through the Five Factor Model of Personality (Big Five). Outlining how traits like neuroticism, extraversion, and agreeableness shape their worldview, alongside the role of covert narcissism and chronic loneliness in their identity.

Drawing from psychological research and philosophical insights, this video examines the emotional and social struggles behind the incel phenomenon, offering a thought-provoking look at personality dynamics, self-perception, and the human need for connection.

References:

Cacioppo, J. T., & Patrick, W. (2008). Loneliness: Human nature and the need for social connection. W. W. Norton & Company.

Donnelly, D., Burgess, E., Anderson, S., Davis, R., & Dillard, J. (2019). Involuntary celibacy: A life course analysis. Aggressive Behavior  https://doi.org/10.1002/ab.21823

Hawkley, L. C., & Cacioppo, J. T. (2021). Loneliness matters: A theoretical and empirical review of consequences and mechanisms. The Lancet Psychiatry https://doi.org/10.1016/S2215-0366(20)30397-8

Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., Baker, M., Harris, T., & Stephenson, D. (2019). Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for mortality: A meta-analytic review. Health Psychology  https://doi.org/10.1037/hea0000759

Joiner, T. E., & Van Orden, K. A. (2022). Loneliness and mental health: A meta-analysis. Journal of Affective Disorders https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jad.2021.12.045

Pfattheicher, S., Geiger, M., Hartung, J., Weiss, S., & Schindler, S. (2020). Vulnerable narcissism and the dark side of rejection: Evidence from interpersonal interactions. Social Psychological and Personality Science https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550619878765

Primack, B. A., Shensa, A., Sidani, J. E., Whaite, E. O., Lin, L. Y., Rosen, D., Colditz, J. B., Radovic, A., & Miller, E. (2021). Social media use and perceived social isolation among young adults in the U.S. Nature Human Behaviour  https://doi.org/10.1038/s41562-021-01096-4

Twenge, J. M. (2022, May). The sad state of young men: Loneliness, disconnection, and the rise of isolation. The Atlantic. https://www.theatlantic.com

Wilson, R. E., Harris, K., & Vazire, S. (2023). Loneliness and cognitive rigidity: An experimental investigation. Psychological Science https://doi.org/10.1177/09567976221124689

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Stalking is defined as repeated and persistent unwanted communications, approaches and intrusions into someone’s life, into their privacy, and there are many levels to it. It can a form of mental assault.

This video looks at the different kinds of stalker, (rejected, resentful, incompetent, intimacy seeker and predator) as well as the difference between when the stalker is stranger and someone you know, such as an ex partner. Looking also at the impact being stalked can have on victims.

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James and Teri Craft invited mo onto their channel to discuss navigating relationships with narcissistic people, betrayal trauma and managing boundaries. They have very kindly allowed me to share our conversation.

For help and support contact James and Teri:

Get the course on Betrayal Trauma:
"What Now? The Couples Guide to Surviving Crisis in Marriage" here:
marriagehealth.org/what-now?

Link for James and Teri's course: https://www.marriagehealth.org/link/hHyGp6?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.marriagehealth.org%2Fwhat-now