All these years, most of us have been wasting our energy and strengths by pointing out the mistakes of others, rather than focusing on ours.
Here we are just trying to escape from our mistakes. Nothing more than that!
We all speak and try to work on getting great skills and tactical ways to progress in our life and most of have been successful to an extent, but not to complete of course.
To prove that you are truthful to the society, we are just building a big mess around us and start self-claiming to be the most truthful and honest people on this earth.
We are soo much swallowed by the laziness and lies that, these idiotic natures evolved as not our weaknesses alone, but they became our character and individuality unknowingly.
Because of which we just find fault with others, rather than looking at ours. If someone starts pointing at your mistakes, most of us don’t like it and even get angry on them... I don’t know about others, but I did in the past.
Here I don't mean that others' mistakes are not there...There might be!
Simply thinking too much of others being responsible for everything, doesn't help us much. Moreover, it results in hatred and negativity and no way it helps in our development...
Of course, we need to consider other's mistakes that are affecting us. But before pointing at others' mistakes I believe self-analyzing would be wiser and healthier. I think to do this we should think of “what mistakes in me let all my attempts fail”.
Here, it is important to keep our ego aside and start looking into ourselves. Look at your mistakes, only to realize how it affects us and others, then minimize them and does not repeat...
Guys, it's not the mistakes that matter the most, but it is your strengths that matter the most.
(I would suggest making a table of weakness and strengths)
Most of us despite knowing these simple things we fail in life, due to lack of commitment in the implementation process!
What’s Stopping you! Nothing is stopping other than YOU YOURSELF! So, Stop being Unfaithful to your SELF!
The main problem is, most of us at times become self-centered and try to become an escapist from the situation that points our mistakes...
Probably most of us do. I don't know about others, But I for sure did in my life in the past…. Which is why I failed to learn from my failures…
But dear it should not go to a level where you do only to justify your actions and to escape from the consequences or to showcase your honesty, which truly doesn't exist...
Moreover, we rarely do a post-mortem of anything that happens to us, instead of finding fault with others….
Analyzation helps, but doing just from our point of view to just for justifying your actions to save yourself is not enough! Take someone help who is dear to you...
You are born to succeed, friends...More than anything, just be truthful, both to yourself and to others who really wish your wellbeing!
Guys never lose hope! Everyone gets one chance in life to correct mistakes or to achieve something... But not always too! So, when you get such a chance, I beg you to utilize to the best and be an honest warrior…
Nothing is a piece of cake and nothing is harder too. Prepare for the worst in your battle and give the best...
There is nothing wrong with struggling strong to reach your goal and to achieve the greatness of your life... Other than this for what the hell are you born!!!
Deliver some value for the birth you got...
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