Dasagrandhi Charan Talks

In the age of social and digital media, the identity crisis is a serious problem.

People want to be identified and talked about, they are imbibing the same in children too which is a seriously worrying factor. In this process to get the attention people are doing some insane things to get attention!

They are forgetting the fact that by craving for wrong attention they are getting mislead from the true Identity one is gifted with.

People to get the attention they feel they have to be something special than what they are gifted with! Understand every creation is unique, by being somebody or by trying to be supernatural we are spoiling our own identity and we are just mimicking others and not being truthful to us.

This identity crisis problem is driving mob mentality in everyone!

People don't understand individuality and misunderstand it as to be being different and to be called different..

This shows a sense of insecurity in them and the same reflects in society too in every aspect of life. That's why we are not progressing as society! Nations compare with other nations and try to mimic some other nation, rather than trying to understand its social structure is different from the others, which is unique and they should work up on. With this a Nation cannot be built as the soul of a nation that is individuality will be missing..

This is the reason why marketing theories are driving human thought!

The basic questions of who actually are we?

and what actually are we gifted with?

What we should be doing with this life?

And how are we connected in this web of life?

How we are being screwed and how this is disturbing the society web, which is a chain of everyone?

These questions proceed endlessly..

So as to shape a person into an Individual and character that is wisdom driven...

People should come out of the identity crisis and should stop being someone else in the name of being different.  and start being themselves to understand what they are actually good at!

Let us not become blind followers of some untruth and misfortune. At the end of life when you ask yourselves what you are you find others, not what actually you are

Finally I would like to conclude with a statement from movie Departed which says:

I don't want to be a product of my environment.. I want my environment to be a product of me..

-The Departed Movie

In our previous episode, we discussed why mistakes are the capital of a successful life and how to realize mistakes. Here we discuss how to work on fixing mistakes. 

The realization of mistakes and weaknesses tend to usually put us into thinking how not only one is affected, but also how people and the environment around us are affected. There is no exception to committing mistakes. Everyone does! But directing energy towards overcoming that weakness to make it stronger is what makes a successful person.

What’s next? One might argue that the shortcoming has been identified and one shall put efforts into it. It’s all resolved. Really? How much committed are we in implementing correction measures?

The question arises – are we so self-centered that we cut off slack to ourselves and try to escape from our mistakes/shortcomings?

Justification for an action to escape facing our weakness – is it really the right thing to do? How honest we really are? How often do we assess, scrutinize, and evaluate in-depth our failures?

The answer lies in an honest self-analysis. Analyze situations, consequences, and effects of an action honestly and without the fear of accepting mistakes – this is what is important. It helps us grow as a person. With an open mind, welcome criticism from the ones you trust. Being strong enough to analyze constructive criticism and modify weakness into a strength. After all, we are all born to succeed. Committed efforts and positive feedbacks are the boosters that drive us towards success. The harder one works, the sweeter are the fruits of success. Amplify your spirits and spread positivity around! Shun laziness and set an example for your kids, dear and near ones, society, and humanity!

Time to Awaken the true self in you …

Awaken the true self in you. Believe in your Unique strengths, keep up your spirit, honesty and route your efforts with no drain of enthusiasm and commitment!

My dear friends, life is too short and precious for regrets. The day we are born is the day when we start our journey towards death…Make it a wonderful journey. Set an example for people around you to draw inspiration, joy, and happiness!

Hurry up, you are never too late! Start burning your energy to perceive your passion…

You begin your journey towards success the day you accept your weakness and make it your strength…

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In life, we come across many unpleasant situations that irritate us, make us angry, and push us into depression. at some point in time in life, most of us might have faced such situations at least once. We all struggle to get out of these unpleasant things, but unknowingly we carry them more than pleasant things. Some take this baggage so intense that they even go to the extent of losing a life. It is estimated by WHO that  800,000 people are committing suicide every year. This clearly shows how people get lost in their past happenings are losing life rather than for preparing for a better future.  Most Rather than the unpleasant thing, it is our reaction to it all the time in our brain spoils the things. There is no point in remaining hurt by the unpleasant events over and over again after it is over. Doing so you are spoiling your present. The present is very precious to build your future, so utilize it to the best before it becomes past! All we need to learn is to move on in life, leaving negativity behind, instead of carrying it like a king in a chariot!

In this podcast, I present the story of two monks to understand better how to overcome the past and build our future..

Article: http://www.dasagrandhicharan.com/forget-past-and-build-future-learning-from-story-of-two-monks/

It is natural for everyone to make mistakes. But, the percentage of people who do mistakes knowingly is more! Here we are going to introspect and understand how this is happening and how to correct it! Being bound in endless illusion, we pretend and convince ourselves that what we do, and what we think is right! Moreover, we think we are progressing rather than understanding the mistake. So, let us start fixing mistakes! Correcting is an act of courage; it is not weak or coward.