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You've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them?

 I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything. 

Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like grown men.

In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact mindset shift that separates women who stay invisible on dating apps from women who get quality men pursuing them consistently. 

You'll discover why your profile looks like everyone else's and what quality men are actually looking for when they decide to swipe right and invest their time.

After listening, you'll understand the three missing pieces in your dating profile that are keeping accomplished, intentional men from even seeing you—and what needs to change if you want to stop getting low-effort matches and start getting real pursuit.

Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?

If you’re ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….

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I just went on five dates in one week—including a man who drove six hours just to meet me and another who planned a seven-hour experience complete with private dining. 

Three of these men… met them on Hinge. 

When I posted screenshots, women flooded my DMs saying "that can't be my Hinge" and "dating apps don't work for me." 

But here's the thing: dating apps are just tools, and if you don't know how to use them, you'll keep attracting the same low-effort men while quality guys scroll right past you.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the five profile mistakes that are making you completely invisible to the accomplished, intentional men you actually want. 

I'm talking about the specific things you're doing right now that signal "broke boy energy" instead of attracting men who know how to pursue and plan incredible dates.

You'll discover why your profile isn't working and what's keeping the right men from ever seeing you as someone worth pursuing…but I'm not telling you how to fix it in this episode.

If you’re ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….

Join my Free Attract Him Online Masterclass HERE

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You’re relying on your pretty pictures to sell you, but quality men need more than a nice smile to know you’re worth pursuing.

If your dating profile isn’t pulling the kind of men you actually want, this episode is for you

I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes women make on their profiles and why most are just throwing content up without any real strategy.

You’ll hear me do live audits of three real profiles—showing exactly where women lose quality men’s attention and how to create an emotional experience from the first photo to the last.

We’ll talk about why listing what you don’t want makes you sound jaded and how to use every inch of your profile to speak directly to the man you do want.

By the end, you’ll know how to stop relying on looks alone and start creating a profile that makes high-quality men think, “She’s my dream woman.”

If you’re ready to stop attracting low-effort men and start getting messages from men who actually match your standards…this episode will show you how.

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“How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?” 

“How do I know whether I’m  giving too much of myself?”

“How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?”

These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it. 

I got some better questions for you to ask though…

Tune in to this episode as I share 5 questions to ask yourself TODAY so that you give to men without ever giving pieces of yourself. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• Why performing “wife-duties” for a boyfriend can be in your best interest.

• The secret to investing in men and relationships without ever feeling taken advantage of. 

• How to give freely to men in abundance so that you benefit too. 

• The best way to make romantic decisions that are best for you in any dating scenario. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Coach Faith’s Engagement Announcement 

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“When is it going to be my turn?”

“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”

“Why can’t I be married already?”

These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone. 

They think…

“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”

“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”

“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved. 

Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.

This is their responsibility. 

In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better. 

• The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire. 

• How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire. 

• Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life. 

• What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire. 

• Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Episode #19 - Dating as a Single Mother with Christina David

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If you freeze up or get triggered when men ask you questions like “Why are Single” or “WYD?”, this episode breaks down the real reason this happens and how to flip the script completely. 

I'm sharing what's actually going on when men ask these questions, the mindset shift that changes everything about how you respond, and why your current approach is telling men they can get away with low effort. 

You'll learn how to stop getting caught off guard and start turning these moments into opportunities.

I'll show you how to go from defensive and flustered to calm and confident when men try to test you.

The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

ENROLL HERE BEFORE SEPT 28TH

Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.

The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.

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The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.

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Here’s the audio replay of my most recent live training: 

Build Your Rotation: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

This training also opens the  doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed where you learn the complete blueprint for going from no dates to dating a 3 commitment ready men in 90 days. 

Check it out and enroll HERE

Want to watch the video version of this training? Go HERE to watch. 

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I hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that.

If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough. 

I'm sharing the conversation that made me realize I was "undercoached," why I invested $24,000 to level up my skills, and how focusing on becoming the woman who naturally attracts what she wants changes everything. You'll learn why being ashamed of wanting support keeps you stuck with the same disappointing patterns.

I'll show you how to stop settling for good enough and start believing extraordinary love is actually possible for you.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop being embarrassed about needing help and start getting the dating results you actually want?….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

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If you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle. 

I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start showing up in your life. 

You'll learn how to stop hoping for different results while doing the same things and start being strategic about creating real opportunities.

I'll show you how to redirect the time, money, and energy you're already spending into environments where meeting your type is actually possible.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop living in your comfort zone and start showing up where quality men actually are….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

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If you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting.

In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming keeps you stuck with men who don't value you, and my S.T.A.N.D. framework that stops you from betraying yourself in real time. 

You'll learn how standing up for yourself doesn't scare away good men - it actually makes you magnetic to the ones who want to invest in you properly.

I'll show you how to stop performing for approval and start advocating for yourself so you can finally attract men who pursue you the way you've always wanted to be pursued.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop accepting crumbs and start requiring men's best effort….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed