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We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially.

In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when you start asking for everything (even when you can afford it yourself), and why the men who tell you "men won't do that" are just telling you what they won't do.

Ready to stop playing small and start receiving what you actually want? 

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026

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Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

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You got more questions, I have more answers. 

Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misalignment.

Ready to stop hoping things work out and start being strategic about your love life? Listen now for answers to the questions keeping you stuck.

If you’re ready to build your 2026 Roster this year

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't.

In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the end of the year. You'll discover why what you've been doing isn't working (hint: it's not bad luck or "the men in your city"), the one skill you need to focus on that's actually holding you back, and how to date multiple quality men without getting attached while letting the right one prove himself over time.

Ready to stop hoping things will magically work out and start following an actual plan? Listen now to get your 6-step roadmap.

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

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Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it.

In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You'll discover what I'm letting go of (including dating for physical attraction and feeling sorry for men), the three skills I'm sharpening at a higher level, and why working with a former sugar baby as my mentor is going to make me a better coach for you.

Work with me to stop dating without direction and start getting the results you actually want.

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

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Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved. 

But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached.

In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about. 

Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both passionate and secure, letting me connect without losing myself.

Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to experience love in a way that’s open, exciting, and free from unhealthy attachment.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

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My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date.

In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date.

In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shifted that took her from "the unlucky girl who never gets that kind of guy" to having multiple accomplished men competing for her attention. 

After listening, you'll understand why performing for men keeps quality guys away while being present makes them obsessed, how celebrating canceled dates creates more abundance than spiraling ever will, and what it actually takes to go from church girl to dream girl.

Work with me to stop being the girl next door who he friendzones and become his dream girl

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

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Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially? 

This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

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My bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants. 

The shift happened in less than one week—and it started with something as simple as letting a man put her bag in the overhead bin.

In this episode, Dr. Jasmyne joins me to talk about what actually happened on our trip to Orlando and Nashville that had millionaires at our table, a prominent head coach adjusting his game schedule around us, and wealthy men treating us like we were the only women in the room. She's breaking down the exact moments that changed how she sees herself and what she now expects from men.

After listening, you'll understand why the tiniest shifts in how you move through the world can completely change the caliber of men who pursue you—and what's keeping you from experiencing this level of attention right now.

Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HERE

Connect with my friend, Dr. Jazmyne HERE

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I can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated.

When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?"

 The answer? It's my mindset.

 I think differently about what's happening on the apps, and that changes everything.

In this episode, I'm sharing the three mindset shifts that keep me magnetic, energized, and successful on dating apps while other women are deleting them out of frustration.

You'll discover why focusing on the "wrong" men is draining your energy and what to do instead so you can stay in momentum instead of feeling stuck.

After listening, you'll understand how to stop making everything on the apps a problem, how to turn every unmatch and fizzled conversation into valuable data instead of disappointment, and why experimenting instead of complaining is the key to actually meeting quality men.

Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?

Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HERE

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I've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?”

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me with real effort and consistency.

You'll discover the strategic moves most women completely overlook when using dating apps….and some of them are the exact opposite of what dating coaches tell you to do. 

I'm breaking down the tactical things I'm doing every single day that make accomplished, intentional men show up in my rotation instead of low-effort guys who can't plan a date.

After listening, you'll understand why your current approach keeps you hidden from the men you actually want and what needs to change if you want to stop being frustrated and start getting pursued.

Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?

Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HERE

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@torahcents 

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