In this episode, I sit down with my friend Ixiana, a professional photographer and mom entrepreneur, to explore her incredible journey of building her photography business. We dive into her story of resilience, discussing how she never gave up but instead learned to pivot throughout her career, finding new ways to stay aligned with her passion.

Ixiana shares how vital it is to stay connected with your purpose and true self when it comes to achieving your goals, and why it's perfectly okay to let go of the idea of being a "superwoman" mom—because that’s just comic book stuff! We also talk about how essential it is to seek joy and fun in the business ventures and goals you pursue. Tune in for a conversation full of wisdom, inspiration, and laughter as Ixiana reminds us to embrace the process, stay flexible, and always choose joy!

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In this episode, I sit down with my best friend Lydia, a former elementary school teacher turned homeschool mom, to discuss her unique approach to parenting. Lydia shares the three key pillars she believes every parent should implement to foster a healthy, nurturing environment:

1. Be Kind – how kindness shapes our children’s emotional intelligence.
2. Monitor What They Consume – the importance of being mindful of what children see on screens and consume in food and drink.
3. Model the Behaviors You Want – the critical role parents play by self-regulating their own emotions before guiding their kids.

Lydia's insights offer practical, compassionate strategies for parents striving to avoid "bad parenting" and raise emotionally well-rounded children.

To find out more from Lydia visit her pages and links below:

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In this episode, we dive deep into the reasons why so many of us struggle to use our voice and set boundaries, often finding ourselves saying "yes" when we really want to say "no." We'll explore the psychological roots of people-pleasing, backed by research on how it affects our mental health and relationships. You’ll learn about the societal and cultural pressures—especially for women—that make assertiveness feel daunting, and the high costs of always putting others' needs before your own.

But it’s not all bad news—there’s power in learning to say no, and I’ll walk you through practical tips on how to reclaim your voice, one step at a time. You’ll discover how to set boundaries with confidence, stop feeling guilty about prioritizing your well-being, and watch your relationships thrive when you start showing up as your authentic self.

Ready to stop people-pleasing and start living on your own terms? Tune in for research, real-life examples, and empowering advice to help you break free from the cycle.

"I knew I should say something. Every instinct inside me was screaming to speak up. But when my neighbor approached my son and got too close for comfort, I reacted with body, but not my voice, I was on autopilot. I didn’t want to seem rude or overreact, but the longer I kept using my body over my voice, the more uncomfortable I felt. What would I do next? Would I finally use my voice to protect him? Tune in to hear how I navigated one of these awkward boundary-setting moments in my life..."

Costs of Not Using Your Voice:

• Emotional exhaustion, stress, and loss of self-respect.
• Long-term dissatisfaction in relationships.

Why We Struggle to Say No:

• Fear of rejection, conflict, and perceived judgment.
• Loss of personal identity due to always accommodating others.

Practical Tips for Using Your Voice:

• Reframe saying "no" as an act of self-care.
• Start small with manageable boundaries.
• Practice saying no to little things
• Use this list of ways to say no in different circumstances. 
• A default answer for anything people request of you could be, " Hmm...let me think about that and get back to you." 

Benefits of Saying No:

• Greater authenticity and freedom.
• Higher self-esteem and improved relationships.

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In today's episode, I share a deeply personal story about my son's frightening emergency trip to the hospital—a moment filled with uncertainty and fear. As a parent, there's nothing more terrifying than seeing your child in distress, but in the midst of all the chaos, I found a way to stay calm. This calmness not only helped me manage the situation, but also brought comfort to my son during a time when he needed it most.

I reflect on how maintaining peace in the face of the unknown can make all the difference, not just in moments of crisis, but in everyday life. To illustrate this, I draw a parallel to a powerful scene from Finding Nemo, where Marlin and Dory are swallowed by a whale. Just like Marlin, I faced the overwhelming fear of not knowing what would happen next. But by embracing the uncertainty and letting go, I found a deeper sense of faith and peace—one that I believe we can all tap into during our most challenging moments.

Join me as I explore how letting go of our need to control the uncontrollable can help us navigate life's toughest trials with grace, and questioning my thoughts with staying present helped me and my son through a moment we’ll never forget.


Here are some questions I used during the episodes that were my lifeline.

Questions to ask yourself in a scary scenario.

What can I do right now in this moment to be safe?
Who can help me right this moment?
call 911


Questions to ask yourself if you want to change how you are feeling and/or thinking:

1. Is there a stress-free reason to keep this thought?
2. Other than what I am thinking and believing, am I ok?
3. Can I see a reason to drop this stressful thought?
4. How do I react when I think these thoughts?

Here are the links I discussed in the podcast.
Jonah and the Whale bible versus
The 'Great Fish' article


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In this gripping episode, join me as I recount a spine-chilling encounter at the lake where a snake's charge towards my son and me taught me a lesson about fear. Discover how this rational fear led to a pivotal moment of bravery that still sends shivers down my spine. But the story doesn't end there. I'll also take you on a deeply personal journey through my pregnancy, where irrational fears crept in, and the one piece of advice that has guided me through many irrational fears. From the lake's edge to the uncertainties of impending labor and delivery, this episode dives deep into the nature of fear and how we can use it to our advantage and when to notice that it's not being a helpful emotion. From the laughable to the profound, these stories will keep you on the edge of your seat. Don't miss out!


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Episode Description:
In this episode, we dive deep into the art of saying no. It's a skill many of us struggle with, often fearing that we'll come across as rude or uncaring. But learning to say no is essential for our mental and emotional well-being. Join us as we explore why we say yes when we want to say no, the pitfalls of people-pleasing, and why "no" can be the nicest word in our vocabulary.

Key Takeaways:

1. Why We Say Yes When We Want to Say No:
   - Seeking Approval: We often say yes because we crave approval and want to be liked. This desire can be summed up in the prayer: "God spare me from the desire for love, approval, and appreciation. Amen."
   -Wanting to Be Liked: Our need to be liked can override our true feelings, leading us to agree to things we don't want to do.
   - A Desire to Be Helpful:We genuinely want to help others, but sometimes we simply can't, and saying yes anyway can lead to burnout.

2. People Pleasing:
   - People-pleasing is a common trap that many fall into. We explore how this behavior can be detrimental to our well-being and how to break free from it.

3. "No" is the Nicest Thing You Can Do Because It's True:
   - Saying no is often the kindest thing you can do for yourself and others. It's a way of being honest and respecting your own boundaries.

4. Why Saying No is Great:
   - Saying no allows you to prioritize your own needs and well-being. It helps you avoid overcommitting and feeling resentful.

5. Do You Notice Trespasses?
   - Have you allowed the gate to stay open into your yard (heart)? Within your body is your treasure. Where are people screwing with your brain?
   - We discuss the importance of recognizing when others are overstepping your boundaries and how to protect your mental and emotional space.

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Links suggested from the show:
-How To Say No PDF from Dave Ramsey Personality

-How To Set Boundaries by Henry Cloud


Book Recommendations from the show:
Boundaries by Henry Cloud
I Need Your Love is That True by Byron Katie 


Thank you for tuning in, and remember, setting boundaries is an act of self-love!

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Todays episode is all about our buddies, the family we choose. Like the song on Spongebob that goes, "F is for friends that do stuff together". We are diving deep into the aspects of friendship and how to tell if you have a healthy one. This episode also dives deep into practical steps you can take when you will inevitably hurt your friends and how to make amends and repairs.

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Daddyoooo! It's time to talk about good ol dad! In today's podcast episode I share some intimate, fun, funny, sweet, and loving memories I have with my dad and the work I have done to heal the stories I was believing about him from the past.

A quote I share in the podcast goes like this, "The greatest work we can do is to love what created us." A great place to start a healing journey is with our parents.

A great tool to heal is through The Work by Byron Katie through her worksheets. To access a free worksheet click here.  To understand the impact and watch it done in real time, here is the episode I referenced in todays episode, click here to watch.

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We are going in deep today on everything you need to know about nutrition my friends. What is the optimal diet? What do people struggle with the most when it comes to eating? What should and shouldn't I eat? All of these questions and more we answer on todays podcast with our special guest Ben Harris.

To get more information about Ben Harris  and The Leonidas Method 90 Day Program, DM him via his instagram @the.leonidas.method or personal page @ten.harris.fit

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Weird right? Why would you want to let someone be right about you? Why do you want people to be wrong about you too? They sound like contradicting ideas right? 


In this episode we dive into the ideology of Byron Katie who created The Work. This simply means putting your thoughts to paper and inquiring. When people tell us things about ourselves we are immediately resisting and will only process things that validate our identities or reject things that don't align with our identities. 

Here are some take aways from her  book "A Mind at Home with Itself" that I love: 

• The world is suffering, people think the mind needs to be controlled
• The mind can never be controlled. it can only be questioned, loved and met with understanding. 
• The mind is like an unruly child. Thoughts come one after the other to pester us and demand our attention like unloved children. Our job is to discern the difference between an internal argument and a state where we are open to listen and receive. Suffering appears when we try to control reality. When we think we are the source rather than the mirror image. Everything in the world is equal it’s all a reflection of the mind. We can notice the thought without believing it. We can notice it with a questioning mind. 

I explain how my last episode, episode 19 is almost a mistake in the title. The goal isn't to control our mind, it's to question and understand it. I make mistakes and constantly change what I think and how I approach coaching and philosophies. Im human what can I say lol.

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