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- Why Self Care Must Be Your Priority In Your Next Chapter After Divorce
In this episode I reveal why self-care is the necessary foundation for your Next Chapter after divorce and why it’s crucial to you ultimately attracting an aligned relationship that lasts, with the right man for you. Through my personal journey from outsourcing my happiness and ending up in a toxic relationship to discovering true self-worth, I share with you the "Self-Care 6" framework that changed everything for me. Learn why keeping promises to yourself is the blueprint for how others treat you, and discover how to stop using relationships as band-aids for unmet needs.
You'll discover:
- Why rushing into dating after divorce often leads to
repeating painful patterns- The four classes of self-care and why some
"feel-good" activities are actually self-sabotage- How to build magnetic self-worth through daily, consistent
actions- The exact framework I used to go from relationship
dependency and a toxic relationship to attracting aligned love- Why self-care is the missing piece in your journey to
lasting lovePlus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' program, where I guide
you through the essential first steps of creating a life you love before attracting the love you deserve.JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!
CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
16 min - Embrace Your Story: Owning Your Divorce Without Shame
This powerful episode tackles the shame that often
accompanies divorce, providing you with neuroscience-backed strategies for releasing negative self-talk and embracing your story. Through real-life examples and practical exercises, I guide you to transform your narrative from one of shame to one of empowerment, hope and possibility.JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
13 min - Reframing Failure: Why Divorce Is Not The End Of Your Love Story
In this transformative episode, I challenge the notion that divorce equals failure, sharing my powerful journey
from being divorced at 33 and a single mama again at 40, to creating and attracting a life and love story better than I ever imagined at 45. Through raw honesty and deep wisdom, I reveal how what seems like failure can actually be your greatest initiation into love and life.You'll discover:
- Why your "failed" relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest love story
- How to trust in endings and see them as powerful new beginnings
- The exact mindset shift that took me from rock bottom to living my dream life
- Why nothing that is meant for you will ever pass you by
- How to transform your divorce from a painful ending into an exciting new chapter
If you're struggling to see beyond your divorce, feeling like you've failed at love, or wondering if it's too late for your happy ending, this episode will show you why your divorce can actually be the beginning of your greatest love story.
Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' program, where I guide you through the exact 3-step process I used to transform my own divorce into the catalyst for creating my dream life and relationship.
🎧 Ready to rewrite your love story? Listen now and discover why your divorce isn't the end – it's your invitation to begin again.
JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
15 min - Your Divorce Is Not Your Destiny
In this powerful episode, I share my raw and transformative
journey from rock bottom to radical reinvention. From experiencing divorce at 33 to becoming a single mom again at 40, to finally creating my dream life and finding aligned love at 45, I reveal how what seems like your lowest moment can become the foundation for your greatest comeback.Through personal stories and profound insights, you'll
discover:- Why the identity crisis after divorce is actually your
opportunity for profound reinvention- How to transform rock bottom into the launching pad for
your dream life- The exact moment that changed everything for me and how you can create your own turning point
- Why your past experiences have no power to determine your future unless you let them
- The crucial difference between hoping things will change
and DECIDING they will changeIf you're feeling stuck, hopeless, or wondering if it's too
late to create the life and love you desire after divorce, this episode will show you why your most beautiful chapter might be the one you're about to write.Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' offer, where I guide
you through the exact process I used to transform my own rock bottom into the foundation for creating a life that's even better than I imagined.JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!
CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
26 min - How To Prevent Dating Fatigue + Why Mindset Matters In Dating
In today’s episode I answer a question submitted by a Queen
in The Queen B Collective community about how to deal with dating fatigue. We also discuss why taking breaks can actually boost your chances of finding a fulfilling relationship and how your mindset plays a crucial role in attracting the love you want. I'll give you actionable tips to shift your energy, set boundaries and bring a more positive vibe to your dating journey.If you’re tired of swiping endlessly, exhausted by first dates that go nowhere, or feeling discouraged, this episode is for
you.JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
21 min - How To Avoid Getting Hurt When You Start Dating Again After Divorce
In this episode, I tackle the big question: "How do I avoid getting hurt when I start dating again after my divorce?" While there’s no way to guarantee you’ll never experience hurt or disappointment, there are powerful strategies to protect your heart and set yourself up for success in dating—especially after divorce. I’ll dive into the importance of building self-worth, healing past wounds, and dating with clear intentions. We’ll also discuss how to stop investing in someone’s potential, pace yourself in new relationships, and trust your intuition. If you’re ready to stop settling, protect your energy, and attract a deeply aligned and fulfilling relationship, this episode is for you!
JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!
CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
20 min - Is The First Man You Meet After Your Divorce Really The One? Here's Why He Probably Isn't
In this episode, I dive into the common trap many women fall into after divorce: thinking the first man you meet is "the one." While the excitement of new attention and connection can feel intoxicating after years of feeling disconnected, it’s important to take a step back and assess things with clarity. I’ll walk you through why it’s crucial to pump the brakes, how emotional vulnerability can lead to rebound relationships, and why intentional dating is essential. We’ll also explore the importance of building unshakable self-worth and how to avoid rushing to fill the void. If you’re navigating the dating world post-divorce and want to attract a relationship that’s aligned and fulfilling, this episode is for you!
JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!
CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
24 min - Are You Being Too Rigid In Your Criteria For A Potential Partner?
In this episode, I dive into one of the most common questions I get asked: “Am I being too rigid or picky when it comes to dating?” We explore the difference between having healthy standards and being overly selective, and why it’s essential to be clear about your non-negotiables, values, and deal breakers. I’ll walk you through how to discern between your wants and needs in a partner, share insights on what it means to date with intention, and show you how to trust your intuition when deciding if someone aligns with your vision for a fulfilling, lasting relationship. If you’re ready to stop second-guessing and confidently attract your forever person, this episode is for you!
JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!
CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
19 min - The 5 Key Differences Between An Aligned Relationship That Lasts And The Average Relationship Most People Settle For
In this episode, I walk you through the five powerful differences between a high-level, aligned relationship and the average relationship most people settle for.
Drawing from my personal experiences, I’ll help you recognise the key signs of a deeply loving, long-lasting relationship and show you why emotional depth, true partnership, and shared goals are non-negotiable.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re coexisting with your partner or compromising your dreams for less than you deserve, this episode is for you. It’s time to step into your Queen energy, hold out for the love you truly want, and stop settling for less.
You’ll learn:
- How to differentiate between emotional depth and surface-level connection
- What true partnership looks like vs. simply coexisting
- Why trust, aligned values, and uplifting each other are essential for lasting love
- The importance of stepping into the identity of a woman who attracts this high-level relationship
JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!
CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
30 min - Why Dating With Intention Is The Key To Attracting The Right Man For You
In this episode, I’m diving deep into why dating with intention is the game-changer for attracting a meaningful, aligned, and lasting relationship.
I’ve been there—after my divorce, I followed the standard dating advice: swiping constantly, cramming my schedule with dates, and hoping someone would eventually click. Spoiler: it didn’t work.
Today, I’m sharing my story of how shifting to dating with discernment completely transformed my dating life—and ultimately led me to the man of my dreams.
If you’ve been feeling burnt out, stuck in a cycle of endless swiping, or wondering why you're still single after doing everything the "experts" say... this episode is for you.
Learn how intentional dating can help you:
- Avoid burnout and exhaustion from bad dates
- Filter out men who aren’t aligned with your values and goals
- Feel more empowered, present, and confident in your dating journey
- Attract a high-quality man who’s perfect for you
If you’re ready to ditch mindless swiping and start dating with purpose, tune in now!
JOIN 'THE NEXT CHAPTER': for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!CONNECT ON SOCIALS:
Instagram: @thequeenbcollective
TikTok: @thequeenbcollective
Work With Me: https://workwithbel.com/
SUPPORT THE SHOW:
If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.
Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!
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About Dating After Divorce
From the publisher's feed
Still believe extraordinary love is possible after divorce? Good. Because so do I!
I'm Belinda Bodill. After divorce, a devastating relationship and starting over at 40, I met the love of my life at 45. Now I'm sharing what I've learnt about finding the right man for you and building an extraordinary relationship in midlife. We're talking dating, chemistry, compatibility, discernment and all the messy, beautiful stuff that comes with love.
No games. No settling. No BS.
Instagram: instagram.com/belindabodill
Substack: belindabodill.substack.com