Traumatic childhood experiences can shape our approach to romantic relationships in unhealthy ways. We find ourselves trapped in cycles of dysfunction and toxicity, unknowingly mirroring the instabilities and fears experienced in our earliest years. 

But what does it take to break free from these patterns? How do we stop the cycle, not just for ourselves but for our kids? My guest Illa Lynn's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of intentional change. Her experience of a traumatic childhood in war-torn Yugoslavia has led her to a profound understanding of love and healing. Today, she'll share how reframing negative thoughts, employing affirmations, and committing to change can create a ripple effect, fostering healthier families and reducing the impact of childhood trauma.

Childhood trauma affects us all, whether you dodged bullets or your mother's criticism. Let's learn how to rebuild ourselves and heal our unhealthy patterns once and for all!

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Raise your hand if you ever did something on a date that you didn't want to do... *all women everywhere raising their hands*  My guest, Stefanie Wilson, says this about herself: "My work is not for light fluffy unicorn cute stuff- my work is in the dating underworld we've all been hanging out in because of SHAME." In today's episode we descend into the Dating Underworld and reflect how our (cringe-worthy) dating experiences were mirrors to make us see our total lack of self-worth.  Don't worry, we're not going to hang out in the Dating Underworld forever! After all, this podcast is meant to inspire, motivate and encourage, so that's what we're gonna do! Get ready for cringe, oniony eyes, A-HA moments and deep healing. Enjoy this oh-so-important-conversation! This episode may trigger some not-so-joyful feelings, so take care of yourself! 👉Let us know what resonated with you! Click here to share your thoughts or your story, make a suggestion or ask a question! 

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Let's talk about kids, baby! Let's talk about you and me! Let's talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be!

In today's episode I welcome Wife, Mother and Relationship Coach, Shiloh Minor who shares her journey into the Underworld (also known as Motherhood) and how birthing her children affected and changed her marriage in a not-so-glamourous way. 

Shiloh talks about the challenge of balancing Attachment Parenting with her need for romance, and how she evolved from a vibrant and fun-loving wife into a husk of a woman who felt trapped in her own manifestation. Shiloh always wanted to be a Mother and have children, so why did she feel so miserable? And why was her husband not capable of showing her affection and stepping up?

Our chat takes us through the intense impact of feeling overwhelmed and isolated as a Mother, and the poignant realization that self-worth is crucial to a balanced partnership and family life.

This is an episode that promises to resonate with anyone grappling with the transformative effects of parenthood on partnership. 

Get your cuppa, your bickies (and your partner) and settle in for this stimulating episode! Yvonne --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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Dating is hard. From managing unrealistic expectations, to spotting red flags and avoiding situationships. Now imagine you've got a toddler in tow! In today's episode I am joined by image consultant and dating coach, Celeste Moore, who shares her perspective on the balance of raising a child while navigating the dating realm and the challenges that come with being in the role of the protector while wanting to embrace the feminine. We talk about rebuilding trust after toxic relationships and the courageous act of dismantling the walls that guard our hearts.

Celeste explores the realities of online dating - a landscape where truth can be shrouded in mystery. With tales of age embellishments and misrepresented facts, she underscores the importance of authenticity and attracting like-minded souls into our sphere. Enjoy today's inspiring episode!

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Imagine stepping into the dating scene, full of unrealistic expectations, only to find that your relationship with your own body becomes the biggest block to love and connection.  My guest, eating psychology coach Emily La Voie, confronts this very challenge, sharing her experience of disordered eating and the heartwarming way her husband became the anchor in her journey to self-acceptance. 

Emily opens up about her challenging relationship with food from an early age and discusses how societal beauty standards, media, capitalism and our family or origin can contribute (sometimes unconsciously) to a skewed image of ourselves.

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Where does the pressure to find "the one" come from, and does it serve us in today’s world? And what happens when "the one" turns into an ex-husband (or two)? On this first episode of 2024, my guest Rebekah Beneteau makes us think about the historic evolution of marriage and explores what role it still plays in our dating lives. For those re-entering the dating scene after marriage or motherhood, Rebekah offers pearls of wisdom on rekindling the inner feminine and taking down our self-imposed walls. While having FUN! Rebekah is an internationally-known workshop leader and coach. She helped thousands of people have gratified relationships and sex lives. Her years on the stand-up comedy circuit and training as an award-winning Toastmaster, combined with her training as an energy healer and coach have given her a uniquely fun, compassionate and spiritual style. Her mission in life is to transform the world by helping people express their Authentic Sexuality.

From discussing flirting skills for midlife women and how to navigate dating disasters, our conversation takes intimate detours into Rebekah's own transformation and the joy of living fully, whether you’re single or coupled. She also shares easy practices for listeners, including a glorious guided meditation to help you attract your ideal person! Get ready to feel oooohmmmmcredible! >>Meditation starts at 57:00 min

I speak with sexologist Ana Lopez, who helps us understand what our preferences in the bedroom say about us, how to communicate our needs to our partners (without hurting their feelings) and how we can unlock mind-blowing orgasms!

Raised between two cultures, German and Mexican, Ana Lopez witnessed the varied approaches to conversations around sex. Ana's experiences have led her to a fulfilling path as a Latina-focused sex coach, where creating a safe space for latinx women to explore their sexuality is at the heart of her mission. This episode is about embracing the messiness of sex and finding fulfillment from honest communication. Instead of having a love-making session come to a full-stop because of an awkward moment, my guest will share communication secrets that will help you and your partner recover from oopsies in a loving way!

Enjoy this juicy episode! Yvonne

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Do you ever wonder if your man is watching porn? If you're like me, I thought it was a given and that it was "no big deal". That is until I recognized the damaging effects porn has on relationships and individuals, leading to a distorted image of women, sexual expectations, and reality. 

My guest, Walter Perez, shares his personal journey of realizing how his porn addiction lead to a loss of self and the crumbling of his marriage. He sheds light on the hidden struggles and the detrimental effects a porn habit can have on a man's identity. 

Drawing from a study that found the average age of exposure to pornography is just twelve years old, Walter highlights the concerning trends and the damaging content that children are exposed to.

Join us as we delve deep into the taboo topic of pornography in relationships and the need for open communication. Walter encourages individuals, particularly women, to confidently express their boundaries and prioritize their own well-being. 

Please share this episode with the men and women in your life!

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Teens and Pornography | Common Sense Media   The Prevalence of Using Pornography for Information About How to Have Sex: Findings from a Nationally Representative Survey of U.S. Adolescents and Young Adults | SpringerLink   10 Negative Effects of Porn on Your Brain, Body, Relationships, and Society (fightthenewdrug.org)

Ever wondered why you ran from your past relationships? Or why you avoid relationship conflict at all costs? The Enneagram could shed some light! In this episode I am joined by Enneagram expert, Natalia Hernandez as she explores how we can have successful relationships using the powerful tool of the Enneagram. Natalia shares her personal dating experiences and how she stopped running from relationships and embraced her loving marriage by learning to communicate as a Type 7. She talks about how her husband's Enneagram type supports her as woman and as a mother. 

From finding closure to navigating healthy disagreements, Natalia shares wisdom and practical advice for anyone seeking to improve their love life and enhance their relationships! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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If you ever lost yourself in relationship, this episode is for you! In this episode of Dating Greatly, Kalyca Zarich and Yvonne open up about their codependent relationships, and how they lost themselves in trying to be the savior for their partner, leading to a power struggle and a lack of self-identity.  This episode dives into Kalyca's personal battle with an eating disorder and how her current partner's trustworthiness allowed her to open up and share her vulnerable truth. Kalyca challenges the notion that self-love must come before entering a relationship, sharing her own experience of finding self-worth through allowing someone else to love her. Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we explore the complexities of dating, codependency, self-trust, and the path to attracting a fulfilling love. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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