Soooo sneaky to just dangle bait, right? They TOTALLY don't know that when you say "I love you..." and leave it hanging in the air that you are desperately waiting to hear it back. 

TOTALLY. 

Posted on the Dating Kinky Blog.

What is Big Dick Energy (BDE), and what is the difference between confidence versus cockiness? 

Transcript/Blog Post

I will be clear about my position early in this short writing: THE PERSON WHO ABUSES IS ALWAYS AT FAULT.

A transcript of this podcast can be found on my blog.

When you have a real life with kids, or career, or money worries, how do you get into the headspace for kink?

In writing about the power exchange/kinky play balance, I went down a rabbit hole of how to categorize or measure kink in daily life. This is what I've created as a result. A starting place for thought or discussion. 

A discussion of CNC (consensual non-consent) relationships. 

Belief can affect our memory, vision, hearing, and even physical strength and appearance. Let’s use it as a force for good in our lives! 

Not only does how a person talk about others tell you a lot about how they will talk about you (in good times and bad), but it also informs how they will see you and interpret your actions and words. 

Not because of the words. Because of the actual physical harm that those words can incite. 

The less nuance we share with each other, the less accepting we are of it. And another thing I’ve noticed, those that see and respect nuance?BOTH sides hate them as a sellout, white knight, traitor, extremist…