How do you honor your power exchange relationship while in public? Of course, this is an intensely personal thing. There are many ways to show off your dynamic, some are quite subtle, others more overt. 

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I wonder about the traps we set for others in our heads. What does it mean to me when I meet a man or a woman or an enby? A submissive or a little or a furry? What does it mean when I call someone sexy or smart? 

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I was writing a chapter for the FLR, FemDom, and Women In Charge Relationships book coming out in just a few days (yikes!), and I realized that it applies to ALL power exchange relationship dynamics, and I wanted to share it with you. 

BDSM Vs. Abuse

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Leave me a voice message with feedback, ask an anonymous question, whatever you’d like. Oh, and I MAY use your voice in a future ‘cast if you do. *smiles* 

Unicorn Hunting is a touchy term in Polyamory circles. 

So many single women have gotten burned by couples looking "for a third," and then...well, I'll get to this. 

One of the biggest challenges surrounding this topic is, in my view, the communication of it. 

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Do you prefer being seduced? Or seducing? 

Do you see power inherent in one or the other? Do they fit in dominance or submission roles (or other power labels) to you? 

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I find a simple two-step process works best for me. First, I get consent.

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When your consent is broken, it hurts, it’s confusing, and sometimes, it’s hard to figure out what to do. Here are a few options to help you. 

https://live.internationalkinkywomensday.com

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As a cis woman, I've ALWAYS known that there is a BIG divide between how most cis men experience sex and orgasm and how I do. 

How is it that so many people DON'T?

The Casual Swinger Podcast

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Knowledge is not power. Knowledge is knowledge until you apply it or leverage it.

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Shame is an emotion. And emotions exist to call our attention to things we might need to think about, pay attention to, or fix. So, if you’re feeling shame about your kink, dive into it, and ask yourself some questions.

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